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OT Ballers, what are you doing to ensure that your kids attain baller status too?

Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:25 pm
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:25 pm
Stats show a tendency for wealth to be lost within 1-2 generations, I've always thought that this is due to many wealth obtainers concentrating soo much on gaining wealth for themselves that they neglect to properly raise and care for their own children to put them in a place where they are equipped for adulthood. (i.e. affluenza). Between working long hours, thinking about your next move, that 2nd vacation home purchase, your 4th vehicle, shopping for that next watch to add to your collection, your 3rd wife, etc....what do you personally do to put your flesh and blood in the best place to not squander everything that you built "for them"?
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80246 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:26 pm to
strict terms and escalating payouts from the trust fund
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52996 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:27 pm to
I let them box to settle disputes
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26776 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:28 pm to
Demand high achievement and work ethic. Don’t coddle them and ensure they know what is expected.

My kids know success is required of them. Moving back home is not an option (with the exception of short term transitional periods)
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39000 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:29 pm to
I’m more worried about my son’s personality than him being successful financially. I just spend time with him either tossing a ball or kicking it around.

My 12 yr old kicked a 50 yd field goal yesterday, so he may wealthy one day.
This post was edited on 5/19/19 at 12:30 pm
Posted by Diver Diva
Member since Apr 2019
386 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:29 pm to
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your 3rd wife

Very expensive lifestyle.
Posted by Bustedsack
Member since Dec 2017
4387 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:30 pm to
It's simple, succeed or die.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97640 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:30 pm to
Where are these stats?
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30085 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:32 pm to
Travel ball and hitting/pitching instructors
Posted by Kujo
225-911-5736
Member since Dec 2015
6015 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:39 pm to
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Indeed, 70% of wealthy families lose their wealth by the second generation, and a stunning 90% by the third, according to the Williams Group wealth consultancy.

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“Looking at the numbers, 78% feel the next generation is not financially responsible enough to handle inheritance,” says Chris Heilmann, U.S. Trust’s chief fiduciary executive


LINK
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19240 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:41 pm to
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Stats show a tendency for wealth to be lost within 1-2 generations


If you stretch the timeline, it normalizes.

There’s just a lot of generational flux in terms of income generation.

This is a hypothetical example to illustrate the point.

JD Rockefeller’s son grows up in comfortable circumstances and chooses not to push himself. Wealth diminishes.The grandson also grows up rich, but chooses to become a penniless artist, further diminishing the families wealth.

But his son, he goes into the family trade and makes billions.

The person who makes millions in the lottery though, his family will slip back because they have neither the skills to generate wealth, or the culture to sustain it.
Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:42 pm to
Not leaving them anything and making them learn the value of a $
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19240 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:42 pm to
The best thing you can do for your children is make it hard.
Posted by Kujo
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Member since Dec 2015
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Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:47 pm to
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The best thing you can do for your children is make it hard.


Yeah, and that thought process makes it easier to justify blowing money on yourself!
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14794 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:48 pm to
I live in a 90% Asian community. Odds are in my favor they lock onto a Doctoring family.
Posted by saint tiger225
San Diego
Member since Jan 2011
35401 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:49 pm to
Teaching mah baws how to trap like me. We get it in.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48587 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

Demand high achievement and work ethic. Don’t coddle them and ensure they know what is expected. 

My kids know success is required of them. Moving back home is not an option (with the exception of short term transitional periods)





This is the right answer!!
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
5265 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:52 pm to
My in-laws with make sure that their father’s millions/my grandfather-in-law’s millions are lost in one generation.
The collective incompetence of the family is truly astounding.
Posted by jojothetireguy
Live out in Coconut Grove
Member since Jan 2009
10484 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:54 pm to
Not a baller but I set up my kids with money market accounts that I put 50.00 in a month since they were 1. Figure by the time they are older I will tell them about it and they can continue it on or withdraw it if they need it. Should be a nice chunk of change for someone in their 20s
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47608 posts
Posted on 5/19/19 at 12:56 pm to
Both of my kids know that my wealth is subject to the Highlander Clause.

My wealth goes to the the last one left. If they are both alive when I pass, it stays in trust until only one remains.

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