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OT advice. First breakup after my marriage
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:43 am
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:43 am
I'm 28 and have been dating a 20 year old for the last month and a half or so. I was divorced earlier this year and I've had bumble hookups but this was the first person I've dated since the divorce. For a 20 year old she's very mature but she said she didn't think I was ready for a relationship yet even though things were incredible until a week ago or so. Wanted to list the positives and negatives and see if y'all think she's worth trying to get back. We were really happy until a week ago. Had 4th plans and she just stopped wanting to see each other
Pos:
1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.
3. Really kind and thoughtful
4. Good family
5. Doesn't smoke
6. We have a blast together
Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
2. She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery.
3. She lives with her mom and they aren't sure whether they will even stay in the area
4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced. Abusive relationship
5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
Thanks for those who give honest advice.
Pos:
1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.
3. Really kind and thoughtful
4. Good family
5. Doesn't smoke
6. We have a blast together
Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
2. She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery.
3. She lives with her mom and they aren't sure whether they will even stay in the area
4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced. Abusive relationship
5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
Thanks for those who give honest advice.
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Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:45 am to GuiceIsLoose
Sorry for your breakup but it's probably for the best. Too many cons IMO
This post was edited on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:45 am to GuiceIsLoose
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:45 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
2. She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery.
3. She lives with her mom and they aren't sure whether they will even stay in the area
4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced. Abusive relationship
5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
That is a ridiculous amount of baggage. move on brotha
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:45 am to GuiceIsLoose
28 and already divorced. sounds like you have your own baggage.
stop relationship whoring and go bang more chicks.
stop relationship whoring and go bang more chicks.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:45 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
Pos:
1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.
This thread is useless without pics.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am to GuiceIsLoose
That girl has more problems than you. Break it off
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am to GuiceIsLoose
Dude, you are recently divorced. That pull to a relationship, that's the divorce. You had a great time. Leave it as that. You met a cool girl and you had a great time. Go meet a new girl and have even more great times. Don't be in a rush to get back into a relationship.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am to Bmath
quote:
Pos:
1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.
Apparently everybody who comes here looking for advice is dating a smokeshow....
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am to GuiceIsLoose
Move on.
Her actions delete the non aesthetic pro. The cons aren't reassuring.
Her actions delete the non aesthetic pro. The cons aren't reassuring.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:46 am to GuiceIsLoose
Shes a 20 year old sloot who had a banging body and is damaged goods based on her short but bad decision making history.
Be thankful you got to bang and know that she is crazier than a sack of shithouse rats.
Be thankful you got to bang and know that she is crazier than a sack of shithouse rats.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:47 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
I was divorced earlier this year
You ain't ready.
Those Cons are pretty major when you think long term commitment.
If the #5 "Pro" is that she doesn't smoke, that's telling as well. No smoking is kind of a basic qualifier for me. Smoking is a hard no.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:47 am to Palmetto08
I know the sex was crazy good, but that's 5 huge red flags there.
Dodged a bullet. Get back in the game
Dodged a bullet. Get back in the game
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:47 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
That would be a deal breaker for me, but you do you.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:47 am to GuiceIsLoose
You can do much better
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:47 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
quote:
4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced.
5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
fricking run.
And unless she has a fake id, wtf can you really do?
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:48 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
I'm 28 and have been dating a 20 year old
Enough said. At 28, you'll find 8 years difference is a lot of maturity.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:48 am to GuiceIsLoose
quote:
Cons:
1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo
2. She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery.
3. She lives with her mom and they aren't sure whether they will even stay in the area
4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced. Abusive relationship
5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:49 am to GuiceIsLoose
I'm going to help you out with this one.
When a woman suddenly loses interest in you, it's because she's interested in someone else.
It would be something entirely different if it was a gradual loss of interest, but sudden loss? That's another guy in the picture. A sure sign of it.
Just move on and be happy for the experience that you had. Plenty of women are out there and you are at the prime age to meet them. So, do so.
When a woman suddenly loses interest in you, it's because she's interested in someone else.
It would be something entirely different if it was a gradual loss of interest, but sudden loss? That's another guy in the picture. A sure sign of it.
Just move on and be happy for the experience that you had. Plenty of women are out there and you are at the prime age to meet them. So, do so.
Posted on 7/3/17 at 11:49 am to GuiceIsLoose
would she make a good mother?
do you think you will marry her if everything goes well for yall?
only two things that matter.
sounds like a positive to me.
reminder: the world was a much happier place when children were raised by their mothers instead of their daycares or their non-English speaking babysitters
that said,
I didnt graduate college, obviously, and you seem to think that is a death sentence, so maybe you should ignore my advice.
do you think you will marry her if everything goes well for yall?
only two things that matter.
quote:
She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff
sounds like a positive to me.
reminder: the world was a much happier place when children were raised by their mothers instead of their daycares or their non-English speaking babysitters
that said,
I didnt graduate college, obviously, and you seem to think that is a death sentence, so maybe you should ignore my advice.
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