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Opinion from other parents- Kid's Halloween costume

Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:09 pm
Posted by stickly
Asheville, NC
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:09 pm
Let me get this out there before I ask the question:

I am not a 'beta', a liberal, wussy, fairy, or any other whiplash label guys on this board label people with in the pursuit of appearing to be more clever than they actually are.

And by the way, if you're not a parent you can save your opinion because it doesn't matter. Until you have had the experience of laying awake at night worrying about your kids you don't have a right to an opinion.

The Question

My 9 year old son has decided that he wants to dress up as Jason Voorhies for halloween (Friday the 13th character that hacks his victims up with machetes, axes, chainsaws...). My son has never seen the movie(s) but in talking with friends he decided that this would be a great halloween costume and I hate it on multiple levels.

1/ I have never been a fan of hacker/slasher movies. I think that they serve no purpose and seem to attract a following of kids that are pre-destined to be weirdos

2/ He's 9 years old. Put a damn sheet over your head like kids did when I was your age...

3/ Halloween has become too fricking extreme and morbid. It's not about ghosts and Frankenstein anymore. It has gone WAY too extreme with little kids exposed to things that are far too morbid for their immature brains. I went with him to the Halloween Store (a huge tent in the parking lot of the mall) and I was kind of overwhelmed by how gory and over the top it was... Seriously, is this what we want our little kids exposed to? How does exposing little kids to the concept of axe murder help those kid's minds develop normally?

It seems to me like it all has become too extreme and I wonder where it ends. Can we look forward to kids dressing up in a group Human Caterpillar costume in the future?

Anyway, I'm sick of popular culture dictating where we are as a society. Can't we at least try and keep our kids from this kind of overly-adult/overly-depraved weirdness?

Thanks.
This post was edited on 10/10/15 at 1:11 pm
Posted by The Midnight Rider
Where the River Empties
Member since May 2015
1576 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:11 pm to
I love slasher movies and I'm not weird.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54881 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:12 pm to
My 7 year old wants to be chucky or freddy krueger or jason. Not happening here. He is too young for that.
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
13734 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:12 pm to
Your kid should go as Carrie. He already has a crazy mother.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
17247 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:12 pm to
You put way too much thought into this. The kid is 9. If you don't like it, then tell him no. It's not that hard.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54881 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:12 pm to
quote:

I'm not weird.
Most weirdos aren't super self aware.
Posted by TrueTiger
Chicken's most valuable
Member since Sep 2004
83612 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:14 pm to
quote:

Put a damn sheet over your head


Too white supremacist.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
68251 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:15 pm to
jesus christ man
Posted by ipodking
#StopTalkingAboutWomensSports
Member since Jun 2008
59050 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:15 pm to
Let the kid be Jason.
Posted by stickly
Asheville, NC
Member since Nov 2012
2338 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

My 7 year old wants to be chucky or freddy krueger or jason. Not happening here. He is too young for that.


Exactly. The issue is his friends' parents who have no rules about anything... His best friend has been CoD since he was 5... It's been a battle explaining to my son all of the things that we're not OK with that his friend's parents have no issue with...
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54881 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:15 pm to
Also not an appropriate costume, imo.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
184676 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:16 pm to
What does your husband think?
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54881 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:16 pm to
My son gets mad because I don't let him play CoD or GTA. He'll get over it.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
17213 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:18 pm to
quote:

I am not a 'beta',


Your post determined that was a lie.

Posted by stickly
Asheville, NC
Member since Nov 2012
2338 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:18 pm to
quote:

What does your husband think?


Ha. There's some of that OT humor I expected. Thanks for contributing nothing.
Posted by ipodking
#StopTalkingAboutWomensSports
Member since Jun 2008
59050 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:18 pm to
You should be proud your son is interested in old school horror. The first Friday the 13th movie came out in 1980.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:21 pm to
explain your ethics. i agree with you that its morbid. regardless of whether I agreed with you, its your son, you make the call. Don't let him do it if you don't feel right about it. sheet is old school though.
you get to have a heart to heart.

Yes, I am a parent.
Posted by stickly
Asheville, NC
Member since Nov 2012
2338 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:24 pm to
quote:

quote:
I am not a 'beta',


Your post determined that was a lie.



Can you stop being clever for 5 seconds and say anything of substance? This whole site has turned into a bunch of whiplash reaction mouth-breathers...
Posted by chunk
UNDER YOUR BED
Member since Jan 2007
5126 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:26 pm to
I love good 80's slashers/horror and a few new slashers. I even have some memorabilia stored away (Jason hockey mask made from the original mold used in part 3). That being said I agree 110% with what you are saying. My 5 year old and 1 year old do not/will not be exposed to that as much as I can prohibit. I believe in age appropriate fun, and I know that will vary based on individual parents. I personally do not allow my kids to the best of my abilities to be exposed to this sort of stuff.

My little girl wants to see the new Goosebumps flick next week, so it appears she already likes the scary stuff.
Posted by stonedbegonias
Member since Jan 2010
12240 posts
Posted on 10/10/15 at 1:28 pm to
Your son isn't like you and it's bothering the hell out of you.

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