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re: NYT- Men, Where Have You Gone? Please Come Back.

Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:06 am to
Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:06 am to
When I was single, I used to go to ladies' night at this bar in North Gulfport, MS. It was always crawling with women. They weren't the greatest looking, in many cases, but they were there in numbers and the universal goal of everyone there was to get drunk and get laid.

So far as I can tell, there's nothing like that anymore. Women just sort of order up a "Chad" on their phones now, no different from getting Ethiopian food on Uber Eats. Bars are terrible now, just places for groups of aging single women to take pictures of shite and cackle like Pantsuit Hillary.

The internet and MADD have destroyed this country.
This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 10:08 am
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
33768 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:09 am to
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Has this thread turned into a incel circle jerk yet?


Yea, the men are as bad as the women they are bitching about.

This all may be reality in LA or NYC, but in the south, I go to or at least get invited to, more weddings and engagement parties than I can count.

That vast majority of young men and women I know that are post-college, are either married or in relationships.

Even most of the older divorced people I know don’t stay divorced for long.



This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 10:10 am
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:14 am to
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There is no reward and there is no prize to be won and either nobody in her life ever had the stones to tell her so or she is so fricked up that she ignored what they told her and has decided she is worth it.
Or simps on Instagram gassed her up

Instagram is very good at convincing 6's they deserve 10's
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:21 am to
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Even most of the older divorced people I know don’t stay divorced for long.


I know divorced people

You are high, or you just know an extremely improbable group of outliers

Dating is horrific post-40's. . .particularly for women. Most men 40+ don't bother remarrying.

Unless "older divorced people" means early 30's to you. I don't know how old you are.
Posted by Hetfield
Dallas
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:22 am to
Bars are terrible now
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Bottle Service in clubs changed the game starting about 20-25 years ago, earlier in places like NYC, LA, Vegas, & Miami. Today if you are a man going to a club/lounge in a large city & don't have a table with bottle service that costs thousands or know the promoter, DJ, or someone in the club, you aren't getting in while any decent looking woman gets in with no issues. Also Marketing/Model agencies hire hot women who are then hired by the clubs for marketing reasons so social media & the guys wanting to go will see that club has hot women when guys have no idea they are paid just to show up & be there. Then there are the bottle service girls who market on their Instagram to DM them for tables as they are trying to outdo their other bottle service girls by selling the most tables. It is all a game to make money off the simp men.

Yes, there are local bars you can hang out at with none of the bottle service but every hot woman there with a group or alone & is on her phone texting or using it as a defense mechanism to shoo away the lower tier & average men while waiting for what she considers to be a high value men to come along.
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:26 am to
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but in the south
Let's look at this

Marriage rates in the south:

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Marriage rates in the South have generally declined over the past few decades. South Carolina, for example, had a marriage rate of 5.7 per 1,000 residents in 2020, ranking #19 highest among all states, with a notable decline of -10.2 since 1990.
Other Southern states like Louisiana and Florida have also experienced decreases, with changes of -6.2 and -5.2 respectively between 1990 and 2010.


Here is what AI says about Louisiana:

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The Louisiana marriage rate dropped by 21% since 2011, according to a Lending Tree analysis.
As of the most recent census, 36% of people in Louisiana have never married.
Additionally, Louisiana has one of the lowest marriage rates in the country, with only 44% of its population being married.


Assuming you are being honest, You have an incredibly rare social group. Congrats!
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
33768 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:38 am to

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Assuming you are being honest, You have an incredibly rare social group. Congrats!


I don’t think the average demographic of Louisiana is what is being discussed in this thread.

And of course I’m posting my anecdotal evidence. This entire thread is anecdotal evidence of each person’s experience based on location, economic and educational attainments, etc.

I’ve been married 30 plus years, but I also have kids and relatives in post-college age group and I have not seen this phenomenon.


Virtually all of them, including all their friends, are married or in long term relationships. Sure a few aren’t, but that’s no greater than past generations.



Posted by StrongSafety
Member since Sep 2004
18000 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:40 am to
I was at an all inclusive party yesterday with babes everywhere yesterday. Free entry, great vibes and music and people dancing.

These exist. But democrats, inclusivity and liberal women won’t touch yall so I wouldn’t bother if I were some posters
Posted by StrongSafety
Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:42 am to
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Pretty awesome that no one responded to strongsafety’s faux intellectualism yet


I see how much common folk intelligence is making yalls lives so fricking bitter and awful. Maybe read a book and some bitches will like you :)
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:42 am to
How was it all inclusive with free entry?

Also, what do you mean by inclusivity won’t touch people?
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:44 am to
I am not saying you are lying, I am saying you have an extremely rare social group.

Statistically marriage rates have plummeted in the South. It is a real problem, societally.

I am glad for you that your social group is uniquely insulated from the problems of the rest of us, That is very nice for you.
Posted by Hetfield
Dallas
Member since Jun 2013
9080 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:45 am to
None of us are as cool & high status as you are Strong Safety. You have made that quite clear to us for a while now. Enjoy the fruits of your success.
This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 12:49 pm
Posted by StrongSafety
Member since Sep 2004
18000 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:45 am to
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Do you know many women that are actually fine with their partner having close female friends? Not to post spoilers, but the number is extremely small Women want a guy with zero female friends, to reduce potential competition Having a lot of female friends is a HUGE red flag to most women



Who said they were super close? I respect their relationships as well.


Maybe you need to date better women who are kinder better more reasonable people. It took me a long time, but once I did, I saw the benefits.


Sounds like all you know is filth
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:46 am to
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Also, what do you mean by inclusivity won’t touch people?
He is getting handies from trannies, and wants you to be upset that you can't get one
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:47 am to
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Who said they were super close? I respect their relationships as well.


Maybe you need to date better women who are kinder better more reasonable people. It took me a long time, but once I did, I saw the benefits.


Posted by cubsfan5150
NWA
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:48 am to
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Has this thread turned into a incel circle jerk yet?


Looks like you just showed up to get it started.
Posted by UtahCajun
Member since Jul 2021
2756 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:49 am to
The writer sounds like an older hoe being treated like an older hoe and she doesn't seem to like it.

Imagine that.
Posted by UtahCajun
Member since Jul 2021
2756 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:51 am to
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liberal women won’t touch yall


Seen tons of them. Very glad they wouldn't.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
33768 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:52 am to
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I am saying you have an extremely rare social group.


I’m the outlier, but the single guy who just retired and hasn’t been on a date in 18 years is the norm?

Or the posters who say ALL women in their 20s are trashy sluts and guys are screwed?

Posted by statman34
Member since Feb 2011
3569 posts
Posted on 6/22/25 at 10:56 am to
The usage of “cis” is immediately a red flag to stop reading because the author is an idiot
This post was edited on 6/22/25 at 10:57 am
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