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re: Nursing student disappears after reporting toddler walking on interstate UPDATE: ARRESTED

Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:29 pm to
Posted by berrycajun
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
6913 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:29 pm to
Clearly. But to me, a “normal” mentally ill person would just leave, not stage this elaborate abduction. This was manipulative and wicked - especially the made up child part.

My sister-in-law called me to tell me about it with the whole “so be really careful if you ever need to help a lost child.” My reply was i know myself and my maternal instincts would still kick in. (I also called BS because how would a trafficker or abductor not know a man wouldn’t have stopped to help?)

BUT, many women who heard the story decided they would think twice about helping a lost child in the future. That’s REALLY awful if this woman! & a future nurse…

My point— she could have just left for Mexico or wherever if she wanted to disappear or if she feared for her life in any way or owed people money etc etc.

I’m not buying the poor pitiful mentally ill story considering the way she went about it.

She’s just a bad person. She had bad motives. Period.

Editing to add that lostinbr made a good point that people who want to disappear fake their deaths so the fam doesn’t keep looking for them.

She should have left out the lost toddler part…
This post was edited on 7/16/23 at 12:36 pm
Posted by LSUMJ
BR
Member since Sep 2004
19937 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:30 pm to
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How did she get home without a phone?


How would not having a phone stop someone from going home?
Posted by berrycajun
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
6913 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:31 pm to
Makes sense.
Posted by lostinbr
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2017
9757 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:34 pm to
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This wasn’t a break down. You don’t call the police and a friend on some made up story, leave a scene on the interstate like a crime scene, and disappear randomly.

It may not have been a breakdown but - AGAIN - I know someone who actually did this and went missing for over a year. They intentionally left a trail of clues which led their friends/family to believe that they had almost certainly been murdered. They were later found in a tent city. The only difference is that they didn’t actually call the police. They let the family do that part.

That’s the last I’ll say about it but my point is that there is absolutely precedent for someone trying to disappear by faking an abduction. The idea that mentally ill people “don’t do that” is a false assumption.

It might not be common, but it has happened before.
This post was edited on 7/16/23 at 12:40 pm
Posted by G The Tiger Fan
Member since Apr 2015
104408 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:34 pm to
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She's got a lot of explaining to do.
Highly unlikely any of that explaining is going to involve the truth. Don't get your hopes up.
Posted by captdalton
Member since Feb 2021
8715 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:35 pm to
It sure is pointing to the fact that this was a planned hoax and that she had one or more accomplices. For whatever reason; attention, money; or some “other” angle (that would cause FunnyMaine to get involved). I bet she didn’t realize that traffic cam was there. And now, based on the much clearer video released today (the day after she showed back up of course; pure coincidence), law enforcement had a pretty good idea what happened from the start. And yet they still had to spend a lot of money dedicating resources just for appearances.

But, at this time that is purely conjecture. She could just be bat shite crazy. Or all of the above.
Posted by lostinbr
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2017
9757 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:39 pm to
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Highly unlikely any of that explaining is going to involve the truth. Don't get your hopes up.

Right. I suspect the only way the public finds out the truth is if she’s charged in relation to a scam. Otherwise I doubt we ever know.
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1456 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:39 pm to
quote:

There was something in her near future she was trying to avoid. Now there’s two things.


I think this is more likely than a psychotic break. Everything she did was very deliberate and meant to look like there was a struggle. I also wonder if she was trying to get back at a boyfriend? I do think she had help, and that’s why she stopped just past a “landmark”; the exit sign with restaurants etc.
Posted by berrycajun
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
6913 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:40 pm to
I agree with you. Not all mentally ill people having psychotic breaks from reality are dumb.

Hopefully the person you speak of didn’t frame anyone.

Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
3952 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:40 pm to
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How did she get home without a phone?


How would not having a phone stop someone from going home?


Most people of sound mind in a missing person/kidnapping situation would probably flag someone down or ask someone to borrow their phone to call the police. The showing up unannounced at the house is bizarre.

Another thing I keep going back to, is the family said no go fund me. Most people would welcome donations, legit cause or not. But it seems the parents are middle class or better, assuming fairly educated etc., I think their donation refusal points to them knowing there are bad actors at play, and they didn't want to perpetuate the scam...if mental health was the cause and her medical career is over, maybe they would have accepted the money? Just thinking aloud.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29843 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:42 pm to
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Mental health people disappear. They just go away quietly usually, they are lost and want space from reality. Mental health issues almost never call police for something like this unless it’s on themselves for potential suicide or on someone they think is hurting them. They don’t call police on some random crime that’s made up in their head to escape.

This here.
Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
19164 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:45 pm to
I feel pretty confident that Hoover PD has pretty solid evidence of what occurred. We've only seen the one traffic cam video. They have access to the cams of vehicles getting on and off at exits 10 and 13 along with all the other cams on 150 and 31. More than likely they can identify her location relative to when the 911 call was placed. They more than likely gathered up all the security cam footage in the adjacent neighborhood too. At some point they will sit down with her and ask her what happened and shell give them some BS story that doesn't jive with the real evidence
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
39073 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:48 pm to
quote:

California is fairly conservative outside of LA-San Fran.


And San Diego
Posted by 1999
Where I be
Member since Oct 2009
29243 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:48 pm to
Funnymaine is def a red flag as others mentioned.
Posted by bamaguy17
Member since Jul 2022
789 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:49 pm to
It’s a scam between the chick, her brother, and SIL. She went through the woods, brother took her to the red roof, SIL was home with brothers phone, their alibi. It blew up and the family found out and stated don’t give to GFM. Then they confronted them at red roof and are now trying to keep her out of jail.
Posted by FairhopeTider
Fairhope, Alabama
Member since May 2012
20864 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:49 pm to
Like someone said above, they probably weren’t counting on the traffic cam on the interstate
Posted by captdalton
Member since Feb 2021
8715 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 12:56 pm to
I just want to know how a 25 year old woman survived two days without her phone. I think that is the real miracle here. And no one is talking about it.
Posted by Freight Joker
Member since Aug 2019
2825 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 1:01 pm to
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I just want to know how a 25 year old woman survived two days without her phone. I think that is the real miracle here. And no one is talking about it.


The trauma from not being able to log into Facebook is probably what led to her surrendering.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
58495 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 1:01 pm to
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I feel pretty confident that Hoover PD has pretty solid evidence of what occurred.


This for sure. The police almost always know a hell of a lot more than we do in situations like this.
Posted by bikerack
NH
Member since Sep 2011
2148 posts
Posted on 7/16/23 at 1:03 pm to
Update from boyfriend...

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