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Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:53 pm to Alltheway Tigers!
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Posted on 10/11/14 at 4:58 pm to Huey Lewis
Whatever you do, stay calm like you say you're doing. If you blow up, it will only solidify what the mother is saying. You can make a play by spending more quality time with your child.
Unfortunately, things like this should have been identified in the dating process and you should have perceived this behavior prior to and you should have dumped her.
Yes, I feel bad for you too.
Unfortunately, things like this should have been identified in the dating process and you should have perceived this behavior prior to and you should have dumped her.
Yes, I feel bad for you too.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:04 pm to RebelWriter
Sounds like you are doing it all for your baby
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:06 pm to Huey Lewis
What % of your time is arguing and what % of the time is like good? Think about that before you commit to not being around your wife 100% of the time and your kids AT LEAST 50% of the time. When you are all alone you may be wishing you had all of the good times with a few annoying times.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:08 pm to MikeD
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Message Posted by MikeD Sounds like you are doing it all for your baby
To be fair, she's as fine as she can be.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:15 pm to Huey Lewis
WHY ARE YOU POSTING THIS shite HERE? NOTHING GOOD COMES OF THIS.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:15 pm to Huey Lewis
I can relate (still married, 3 and 5 year old). Wife had similar childhood problems and primarily is a stay at home mom. Here is what I got:
- Love and respect. Period. Women need love (LOTS of love) and men need respect. Both need to happen. I would be her "love cup is empty" which is why you don't feel respected.
- Beware the ego. Damn that ego.
- Alcohol fuels fights like gasoline. She needs to start smoking weed. I quit all together, but that and Prozac helps her stress and hormonal issues;
- Hunker down and be the picture perfect husband. Shower her with love and affection, even though your ego is fighting that effort. Hug your kid and spend lots of time together as a family;
- Start adjusting to a life without the OT pay. I know it seems impossible, but life is way to damn short to spend it at the job. Start figuring out other ways to haul in cash or cut bills. All you are doing is fattening some exec's pockets while he sips JW Blue at da club laughing at you.
Good luck. It will be hard, but your kids lives are at stake.
- Love and respect. Period. Women need love (LOTS of love) and men need respect. Both need to happen. I would be her "love cup is empty" which is why you don't feel respected.
- Beware the ego. Damn that ego.
- Alcohol fuels fights like gasoline. She needs to start smoking weed. I quit all together, but that and Prozac helps her stress and hormonal issues;
- Hunker down and be the picture perfect husband. Shower her with love and affection, even though your ego is fighting that effort. Hug your kid and spend lots of time together as a family;
- Start adjusting to a life without the OT pay. I know it seems impossible, but life is way to damn short to spend it at the job. Start figuring out other ways to haul in cash or cut bills. All you are doing is fattening some exec's pockets while he sips JW Blue at da club laughing at you.
Good luck. It will be hard, but your kids lives are at stake.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 5:21 pm to ByDaBook
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I can relate (still married, 3 and 5 year old). Wife had similar childhood problems and primarily is a stay at home mom. Here is what I got:
- Love and respect. Period. Women need love (LOTS of love) and men need respect. Both need to happen. I would be her "love cup is empty" which is why you don't feel respected.
- Beware the ego. Damn that ego.
- Alcohol fuels fights like gasoline. She needs to start smoking weed. I quit all together, but that and Prozac helps her stress and hormonal issues;
- Hunker down and be the picture perfect husband. Shower her with love and affection, even though your ego is fighting that effort. Hug your kid and spend lots of time together as a family;
- Start adjusting to a life without the OT pay. I know it seems impossible, but life is way to damn short to spend it at the job. Start figuring out other ways to haul in cash or cut bills. All you are doing is fattening some exec's pockets while he sips JW Blue at da club laughing at you.
Good luck. It will be hard, but your kids lives are at stake.
Your wife sounds very lucky!
Posted on 10/11/14 at 6:15 pm to Huey Lewis
get counseling and work through it. Sounds like neither of you know how to communicate without fighting
Posted on 10/11/14 at 6:22 pm to Huey Lewis
Kids are smart. Stay in the picture and always be honest with your son. Tell him you love him, daily. One day, he will like you more than mom.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 6:39 pm to lsu480
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What % of your time is arguing and what % of the time is like good? Think about that before you commit to not being around your wife 100% of the time and your kids AT LEAST 50% of the time. When you are all alone you may be wishing you had all of the good times with a few annoying times.
Wow broseph. That was well stated. In my mind, you're known for a laugh, not depth.
Good job!
Posted on 10/11/14 at 6:41 pm to Huey Lewis
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daddy doesn't loves us"
Why did you marry smeagol?
Posted on 10/11/14 at 6:54 pm to Huey Lewis
Dump her. Now. It's only going to get worse. I'm sorry you knocked up such a stupid bitch. But it's your life. Change it before it's too late.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 7:06 pm to Huey Lewis
So what you're saying is that you married white trash, knowing she was white trash, and now you don't know what to do when she exhibits her white trashiness.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 7:09 pm to LT
Posted on 10/11/14 at 7:21 pm to lsu480
5 pages and nobody's asked for pics of the wife? damn, y'all are slipping 
Posted on 10/11/14 at 9:26 pm to Huey Lewis
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ice a month, things are worse than normal and involve my wife grabbing our son in a big show of theatrics, standing there with him saying things like "daddy doesn't loves us" or "daddy is a bad person" etc. and storming off with him, slamming doors and the like.
Split family or not, that's when I'm out. I would have already left over some childish bullshite like that
Posted on 10/11/14 at 10:11 pm to Prominentwon
No shite. Chick is fricked in the head. That type of stunt deserves a divorce.
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