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Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:48 pm to Huey Lewis
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:48 pm to Huey Lewis
1. Pregnancy hormones
2. You and her need to talk with her OB about it. They can prescribe meds to help with it. It's a lot like post pardem.
Unless she was just crazy before it's likely a serious hormone imbalance caused by the pregnancy.
Good luck
2. You and her need to talk with her OB about it. They can prescribe meds to help with it. It's a lot like post pardem.
Unless she was just crazy before it's likely a serious hormone imbalance caused by the pregnancy.
Good luck
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Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:49 pm to Huey Lewis
Start recording her every time she gets that way. She will either STFU or fight you for the recording device. In any case it is also a good CYA tool against the bat shite crazy wife. Trust me on that.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:49 pm to Huey Lewis
I don't understand how people so easily contemplate the thought of having another guy raise their kids.
Seek counseling, but only if you're actually going to work on rectifying the problems that are identified.
Seek counseling, but only if you're actually going to work on rectifying the problems that are identified.
This post was edited on 10/11/14 at 1:53 pm
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:49 pm to Huey Lewis
Wife here .. Husband and I had "disagreements" in front of the kids but nothing nearly on this level. I always said I didn't think it was a big deal it as they would eventually see "conflict" and we taught them by not sheltering them that conflicts could be resolved.
THIS is way beyond that it seems. Did this go on before she got pregnant the second time? And yes, if she's saying things like "Daddy doesn't love us" and calling you a bad person, I'd say she needs help.
Please continue to keep your cool which I'm sure is super hard to do. The issue of divorce; idk there. My dad left my mom after nearly 2 years of marriage when she was nearly 5 months pregnant. I'd glad I didn't have to grow up with the ugliness that seems to come with divorce.
And yes, I wish this was made up for you too ... hang tight. And if SHE doesn't want to get help I'd suggest you seeing a counselor anyway.
THIS is way beyond that it seems. Did this go on before she got pregnant the second time? And yes, if she's saying things like "Daddy doesn't love us" and calling you a bad person, I'd say she needs help.
Please continue to keep your cool which I'm sure is super hard to do. The issue of divorce; idk there. My dad left my mom after nearly 2 years of marriage when she was nearly 5 months pregnant. I'd glad I didn't have to grow up with the ugliness that seems to come with divorce.
And yes, I wish this was made up for you too ... hang tight. And if SHE doesn't want to get help I'd suggest you seeing a counselor anyway.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:50 pm to Huey Lewis
What are the arguments about?
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:51 pm to Winkface
quote:You are our of your goddamn mind if you think he should do that. Hormones will never be an excuse for telling a child his father hates him. She's a useless bitch and it's a shame he knocked her up again. She is nothing more that a large child. Obviously she stopped developing emotionally at about 14 years old.
maybe cut her some slack?
This post was edited on 10/11/14 at 1:52 pm
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:52 pm to Huey Lewis
Honestly, you (the marriage) need professional counseling.
You obviously care enough to be concerned and while it would be easy to say "GTFO", you have two children and you realize you can't do that.
Seek out some help from your church or profession therapists.
You obviously care enough to be concerned and while it would be easy to say "GTFO", you have two children and you realize you can't do that.
Seek out some help from your church or profession therapists.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:53 pm to Huey Lewis
Professional help or haul arse.
What are the major issues?
Good luck man.
What are the major issues?
Good luck man.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:53 pm to 9Fiddy
quote:
you need to make it very clear she can either get in counseling because she's damaging your child's emotional security, or you're gone. That's bull shite. A child's emotions are tied to how secure they feel. And she is destroying that.
This and, if she goes, you better hope that she actually gives it a shot or it'll probably end up a waste of time(for her, not you).
If counseling doesn't work, get the divorce and pray that she doesn't make your life hell as an ex-wife/mother of your child.
ETA:
Ah frick, I missed the "on the way" comment. Wowyhi is right. You do need counseling but there's going to be some empathizing and understanding from you while she's pregnant. Not saying you're an a-hole and starting fights, but pregnant women do have a hard time remaining sane and rational at times. It's science.
This post was edited on 10/11/14 at 1:56 pm
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:54 pm to WoWyHi
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Good luck
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:54 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
that sucks
This post was edited on 9/21/15 at 9:06 am
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:54 pm to Huey Lewis
ease up on your pregnant wife. stress is not good for baby or mamma this really shouldn't have to be explained.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:55 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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Hormones will never be an excuse
No offense but if you don't regularly deal with this professionally, you really don't understand this. It's a serious as some of the more extreme mental health diseases. It can make normally rational women (insert joke here) the extreme opposite due to the imbalance. It's nothing to mess around with.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:55 pm to RonFNSwanson
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I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems, but a bitch ain't one
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:56 pm to WoWyHi
If that's true then it just confirms my belief that women shouldn't be allowed to vote or hold public office.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:59 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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If that's true then it just confirms my belief that women shouldn't be allowed to vote or hold public office.
It is true. Trust me. Mine had a miscarriage(add on emotional issues to the hormone ones) and, holy shitballs, was that a whacked out 6 or so months. I just stayed out the way and got her help.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 1:59 pm to meauxjeaux2
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:00 pm to Huey Lewis
1. Get counseling to figure out why you are fighting in the first place and how to stop that.
2. Let your wife know that it is never, ever acceptable for her to talk trash about you to the children. Explain how that hurts the child and their relationship with their father. If she agrees to counseling let the counselor know what she says to the kids about you as well. The counselor will agree with you on that point 100%.
I hate divorce and am the last person in the world to advocate for one, but consistently and intentionally damaging the relationship between a father and his son is absolutely grounds for divorce. Just as bad as infidelity IMO if not worse.
2. Let your wife know that it is never, ever acceptable for her to talk trash about you to the children. Explain how that hurts the child and their relationship with their father. If she agrees to counseling let the counselor know what she says to the kids about you as well. The counselor will agree with you on that point 100%.
I hate divorce and am the last person in the world to advocate for one, but consistently and intentionally damaging the relationship between a father and his son is absolutely grounds for divorce. Just as bad as infidelity IMO if not worse.
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:00 pm to Huey Lewis
>be trashy
>get married to trashy bitch
>surpised when she acts crazy
>posts on TD for all to see
>get married to trashy bitch
>surpised when she acts crazy
>posts on TD for all to see
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:02 pm to Huey Lewis
Keeping kids in a bad marriage is worse than divorce. I would seek marriage counseling first. If it doesn't work, divorce.
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