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Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13533 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:02 pm to
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Probably ever 3-4 arguments, so at least once or twice a month, things are worse than normal and involve my wife grabbing our son in a big show of theatrics, standing there with him saying things like "daddy doesn't loves us" or "daddy is a bad person" etc. and storming off with him, slamming doors and the like.




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congrats on the bat shite crazy wife




Yep, and with her past ex's he shoulda seen that one coming...
Posted by Freder
Member since Aug 2014
809 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:03 pm to
Threads like these make me so grateful that I did not put a ring on my ex-girlfriend's finger. That would have been a disaster.
Posted by CaliforniaTiger
The Land of Fruits and Nuts
Member since Dec 2007
5327 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:03 pm to
Maybe some marriage counseling would help communication btw the two of you.
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13533 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:06 pm to
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ease up on your pregnant wife. stress is not good for baby or mamma this really shouldn't have to be explained.




wat
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:06 pm to
Counseling. Get it. And with a good counselor. Do it.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:09 pm to
Bitches be crazy, I hate it for you dude. You have no good choices
Posted by BamaScoop
Panama City Beach, Florida
Member since May 2007
56698 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:11 pm to
You sound like Captain Save a Ho.

You can't save white trash!
Posted by CroakaBait
Gulf Coast of the Land Mass
Member since Nov 2013
4078 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:12 pm to
FWIW--My sister can be an unholy bitch when she wants to be and has acted cray-cray toward my bro-in-law while pregnant, but she would never stoop as low as to making fricked up comments like that to her kid about the dad. That shite will stick in that kid's mind. I'm praying for you.
Posted by Moemoe455
Ponchatoula, Louisiana
Member since Sep 2007
1920 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:12 pm to
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congrats on the bat shite crazy wife
Posted by DrinkDrankDrunk
Member since Feb 2014
836 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:13 pm to
You need a lawyer, a therapist, and a vasectomy.

You are in an abusive relationship. I'm sure you were already in one when you decided to make babies with this woman.

Do the world a favor a get yourself cut before you make any more poor decisions that affect other people.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
34991 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:14 pm to
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wat


??? They are pregnant and dude is fighting with his wife every three days? What kind of douche does that to his wife and unborn child. There are more important things than being right.

Posted by thejudge
Westlake, LA
Member since Sep 2009
15060 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:19 pm to
Was she like this before the pregnancy??

If so seek help. Start recording every single blowup like that and hold them for safe keeping. There may need to be a time to split if the abuse continues. The emotional scars are tremendous. Children see on concrete and not abstract in that young an age. Its hard for them to process that their parents are fallible and will only lead problems with things like confidence and self worth later. Good luck sir
Posted by LateArrivalforLSU
Ascension Parish
Member since Sep 2012
3512 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:22 pm to
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standing there with him saying things like "daddy doesn't loves us" or "daddy is a bad person" etc. and storming off with him, slamming doors and the like.

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First, your wife is a count.

Second, you need to make it very clear she can either get in counseling because she's damaging your child's emotional security, or you're gone. That's bull shite. A child's emotions are tied to how secure they feel. And she is destroying that.

You fricking nailed it. Can't agree more.

To the OP, I will reiterate what fiddy said...your wife is a count for saying shite like that in front of your kids.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:24 pm to
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I don't want my kids to have a broken home, but I don't want to stay with her if this environment is worse than us being separated.

Divorcing is worse.
Don't teach your kids to quit when things get hard.
Your marital problems are fixable. First few years are hard for everyone.
I'm sure she is doing other things to hurt the relationship, but first look at what you're doing and fix it. Can't ask someone else to change if you aren't willing to.
Posted by uway
Member since Sep 2004
33109 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:27 pm to
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the OP, I will reiterate what fiddy said...your wife is a count for saying shite like that in front of your kids.

Don't listen to any of these assholes who are trying to ruin your relationship with their ridiculous advice.

Get over yourself, get over what she's doing, make peace in your home. Be a husband and a dad.
Posted by TROLA
BATON ROUGE
Member since Apr 2004
14415 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:30 pm to
That's a lot of arguing.. Good Luck to you and your son
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107529 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:35 pm to
Something good wrong in the marriage if you are arguing get that much. My guess is the OP is not taking care of business at home.i have been married 10 years and have maybe had 3 major arguments and never in front of the kids and never involving slamming doors or yyelling.
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
46380 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:36 pm to
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What to do? I'd prefer not to divorce my wife because I don't want my kids to have a broken home, but I don't want to stay with her if this environment is worse than us being separated


IMO, what you two are doing is worse than a divorce could ever be.

But she doesn't sound rational so you may have troubles either way.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27770 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:45 pm to
count Punch that bitch
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36572 posts
Posted on 10/11/14 at 2:58 pm to
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They are pregnant and dude is fighting with his wife every three days? What kind of douche does that to his wife and unborn child. There are more important things than being right.



Are we married?



ETA: you're a moron, the wife is screwing up their child


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