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New Jersey high school principal dies donating bone marrow

Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:21 am
Posted by TechDawg2007
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:21 am
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A high school principal has died donating bone marrow to someone in need.

Derrick Nelson, 44, the principal of Westfield High School in Westfield, New Jersey, died April 8 after falling to into a coma during a procedure to donate bone marrow to a 14-year-old boy in France, Nelson’s father told ABC News. He did not give further details.

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“He was the greatest,” Willie Nelson, 82, told ABC News. He added that the family doesn’t know the exact cause of death, but was told Derrick may have suffered a heart attack.

Westfield Public Schools Superintendent Margaret Dolan said in a statement that she has talked with students, parents, teachers, counselors and nurses, who all shared stories of how Nelson had helped them.

“Many of us are struggling with this loss. But we are committed to continuing Dr. Nelson’s legacy,” Dolan wrote. “We will set high standards for ourselves as Dr. Nelson set for himself. And, as Dr. Nelson has done, we will think less of ourselves and more of others around us. He has taught us many lessons.”

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Westfield, New Jersey, Mayor Shelley Brindle also released a statement mourning Nelson’s death.

“This is a tremendous loss for our community, and I know that our children, and we as parents, will struggle with coming to terms with this over the coming days and weeks,” Brindle wrote. “He was a man of immense character and kindness, and his legacy will live on in the generations of students whose lives he touched.”

Derrick Nelson joined Westfield Public Schools in 2010 as the assistant principal of Roosevelt Intermediate School. He then served as assistant principal and principal at Westfield High School -- a school with over 1,800 students, according to the school district.

Nelson, who was born and raised in New Jersey, earned a doctorate in Education Administration from Seton Hall University. He also served as an officer in the U.S. Army Reserve for more than two decades, including a stint in the Middle East, according to Westfield Public Schools.

Nelson leaves behind a 6-year-old daughter.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:23 am to
Saw this yesterday. It's a damn shame.

I know the story is meant as a highlight of his kind act, but I hope this story doesn't deter future acts like his..
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:24 am to
That's some very interesting more topics you included in your post.
Posted by Box Geauxrilla
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:24 am to
He died while trying to help others. Truly selfless

However, I don't understand media's fascination with focusing on the career of each person.

As if the headline were "New Jersey Garbage Man dies donating Bone Marrow" that we wouldn't care enough.

Posted by lighter345
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:25 am to
Yea this does give me some hesitation from my previous position of donating no matter what/being on the Be The Match registry.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:25 am to
Absolutely terrible. But honestly if one is going down for sure, that's an incredibly honorable way to go, helping others. (Not dying in this specific way though)

Now what kind of potential negligence lawsuit could there be here?
Posted by Cosmo
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:27 am to
That is very unusual. It is not nearly as dangerous as donating a kidney or half of your liver
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:27 am to
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As if the headline were "New Jersey Garbage Man dies donating Bone Marrow" that we wouldn't care enough



American society is extremely status obsessed.
Posted by jbgleason
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:28 am to
There is a real risk any time you go under General Anesthesia and that is why you sign all those forms in Pre Op.

Just the way it is.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:29 am to
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There is a real risk any time you go under General Anesthesia and that is why you sign all those forms in Pre Op.



I was under the impression general anesthesia is incredibly safe.
Posted by Cosmo
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:31 am to
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I was under the impression general anesthesia is incredibly safe.


About as safe as flying commercially on an American carrier

But shite happens
Posted by Commandeaux
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Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 10:31 am to
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14-year-old boy in France


Was it a family member? I'm sorry but I'm not risking my life for some random stranger...especially a random stranger in another country while leaving behind a 6-year old daughter. frick that. Downvote away.
Posted by TheWalrus
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Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:08 am to
I mean the risk of him dying while driving to the hospital was probably about the same.
Posted by Dizz
Member since May 2008
16214 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:12 am to
This could have happened the next time the guy went to get a dental procedure done. It's not risking your life any more than having your wisdom teeth taken out or elective surgery.

I signed up for Be the Match after a co-worker (married with kids) did it and donated marrow to a kid in California.
Posted by Areddishfish
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Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:15 am to
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Yea this does give me some hesitation from my previous position of donating no matter what/being on the Be The Match registry.


Most of the time they will get stem cells from your blood and not physically go into your bone for it. Way less invasive that way. I got my sister's stem cells but most people need an unrelated donor as the sibling match rate is only about 25%.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Member since Oct 2010
64638 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:17 am to
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About as safe as flying commercially on an American carrier

But shite happens



Yeah well that's a general stat that doesnt help you when you break down the risks from person to person.


Was this guy obese?
Did he have any underlying medical conditions?(doesnt seem like it if he was donating bone marrow)
Had he gone under general anesthesia before with no issue?


A lawyer will be contacting the family. A military guy with that background I cant imagine will have his family left out in the cold.


Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
21946 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:18 am to
I read that article yesterday. It’s weird that they don’t say what caused his death.

Either it’s terrible journalism or they don’t want to say. If so, why not.

They did mention that he had the sickle cell gene. I don’t know how that is relevant unless it contributed, but how?
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12171 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:19 am to
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As if the headline were "New Jersey Garbage Man dies donating Bone Marrow" that we wouldn't care enough.


Eeh it adds to the storyline. Garbage man too.

It was a selfless act and heartbreaking.

Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68603 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:19 am to
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I know the story is meant as a highlight of his kind act, but I hope this story doesn't deter future acts like his..

But we know it will
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6538 posts
Posted on 4/11/19 at 11:21 am to
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They did mention that he had the sickle cell gene.


They wouldn't accept his donation then if that were true. Having received stem cells from my sister they scan them for a multitude of imperfections or potential diseases. The person getting them already has bad blood, it would be dumb to just give them potentially more bad blood.
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