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re: Never date single moms.

Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:29 am to
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
87122 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:29 am to
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you will never be a priority to her.

Posted by ponyman
Member since Nov 2019
399 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:32 am to
Very good. Also, ask her "what responsibilities do you bring to this relationship"?
Posted by Rip Torn
Member since Mar 2020
5542 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:47 am to
You are partially correct. If it’s a single mom who left the guy before you, then run but if it’s a single mom who was abandoned by some douche then she has potential. If he left her because she was overbearing and controlling, then run but if she is genuinely kind but was dealt a bad hand then she is worth it
Posted by Geekboy
Member since Jan 2004
7087 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:48 am to
Sounds like you got fricked over. That’s on you, dude.
Posted by lourob
Lower LA
Member since Jun 2014
112 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:49 am to
I disagree. Keep in mind that a single mother who is actually trying to do right, is the sole provider and protector for her child. Financial needs just happen to be included. So either you just need to make better selections; or not get so pu**sywhipped so that you can break it off faster.
Posted by Slingscode
Houston, TX
Member since Sep 2011
2184 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:53 am to
I married a single mom 24 yrs ago.
Couldn't be happier.
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
2507 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 6:57 am to
quote:

You are partially correct. If it’s a single mom who left the guy before you, then run but if it’s a single mom who was abandoned by some douche then she has potential. If he left her because she was overbearing and controlling, then run but if she is genuinely kind but was dealt a bad hand then she is worth it


THIS

I know of two women who had a husband living a double life. Both educated women with good jobs and a positive outlook on life, but incomes that is hard to support multiple kids.

I understand what the OP is saying as I have also seen his descriptions of single moms, however this is not always the case.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37452 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:00 am to
This is bad. And wrong.
Not all single mom’s are the same.
Some have had their husband die or have been physically abused.
Sure, the ones that left their husband for emotional reasons need to be stayed away from, but let’s not paint with a broad brush “every cop is a dirty cop.”
Tons of wonderful single mom’s looking for a faithful, Christian man to lead their family.
Posted by PensaTigers
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2018
3174 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:16 am to
Mmm nope. My wife was only with one guy that she had 3 kids with. He turned into pos and started doing drugs and being abusive. Eventually she got the restraining order, divorce, full custody etc. Anyways, she didn't plan on being in another relationship after that fiasco but I met her through her cousin and one thing led to another.

Now I have a wife who adores me, especially in reflection of what she was used to. Those three kids are hard working, respectful, and were top of the class. My daughter is beautiful and when she finished 2nd grade, she had 100 ribbons around her neck. My son is super reliable for his age at 7. He can put together furniture, mow the lawn, do any chores etc. I have all the say in how they're raised and she respects how I raise them.

I had twin boys with her before I got snipped, they turn 2 soon. I ofc adopted the other 3, so now we have a new house on 1.2 acres with chickens goat dogs fruit trees gardens etc. Im very happy, and that started w dating a single mom. You just have to be able to read a woman early and like all people, make good decisions on partners.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51543 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:22 am to
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She will hold you financially responsible for her children but you will have no authority in how they are raised.

I would absolutely have authority over how they are raised. You didn’t because you didn’t command the respect of your woman.
Posted by ChatGPT of LA
Member since Mar 2023
4005 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:26 am to
How is this political? Get a life
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51543 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:28 am to
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Im very happy, and that started w dating a single mom.

Bingo! These generalizations are false. And when they are true it’s because of fault that lies with the commentator not the subject.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7446 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:43 am to
Plenty of 22 year old college grads who want to skip the tough years of adulthood and marry a 45 year old. That’s a fact, they’re out there. If you’re looking, look there. Assuming you can handle the generational differences.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50575 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:48 am to
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She will hold you financially responsible for her children but you will have no authority in how they are raised.
i mean i had a full time job and had my own bank account and we have been married 7 years and still i have my own bank account. And he def helped enforce rules. My daughters were both a but older when we started dating so they weren't getting spanked but rules are rules and he enforced them. They both came out to be pretty great young women. One just graduated LSU and is now starting her nursing career and the other is about to start her Freshman year at ULL (and is a D1 athlete) and i owe alot of that to their stepdad for helping shape and "discipline" them.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16867 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:50 am to
You seem mad. Bro poontang is undefeated. I got some really bad news for you. Dating is one thing but marriage is another. The way you describe dating single moms is a perfect description of marriage. The only difference is you get a couple of bonus years with no kids. Once your wife starts popping out of the kiddos she wants the same things from you.


Date singles moms. Be a man.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
21885 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:51 am to
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Some have had their husband die or have been physically abused

yeah great idea to take on that baggage
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
58481 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 7:58 am to
Every problem in every PT poster’s life is the fault of women.
Posted by coolpapaboze
Parts Unknown
Member since Dec 2006
20258 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:04 am to
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Bro poontang is undefeated. I
This guy says hello.

Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
64190 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:07 am to
Don't date a single mom with a non-existent father for her kids. Meaning he doesn't pay child support or see the kids consistently.

It makes for a great sappy Good Morning America piece to step up and raise someone else's kids, but in reality it's a ton of headache.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
12348 posts
Posted on 6/28/25 at 8:12 am to
Good advice.
I doubt my wife would let me date single moms anyhow.
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