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re: Never date single moms.

Posted on 6/30/25 at 7:49 am to
Posted by theliontamer
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 6/30/25 at 7:49 am to
Yes, we know
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
13531 posts
Posted on 6/30/25 at 8:57 am to
Pissed off married women are the ticket. Young broke arse married women. Get a vasectomy and cruise laundry mats and grocery stores during the middle of the day...keep in mind these ain't going to be the types that are kept in a lavish lifestyle, they are the kind who fricked around and fell in love or got knocked up by old boy and might not be the prettiest or sanest but they are young and pissed....
Posted by AwgustaDawg
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Posted on 6/30/25 at 9:00 am to
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Why are you financially obligated to her kids if you’re just dating?


Why would you care if the kid is undisciplined? All I want is to get laid....if the kid is robbing liquor stores at age 6 when I ain't around what do I care??? I don't care if the police are kicking the door in as long as I have my britches on....if it happened during the act I'd be pissed but I wouldn't be overly put out by it....
Posted by AwgustaDawg
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Member since Jan 2023
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Posted on 6/30/25 at 9:03 am to
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have been physically abused.


Hell if she got out of line so badly that the other dude had to slap her around a little or a lot what makes you think you won't have to do the same thing? If she was abused more than once its apparent she is hard headed....thats how they get 2 black eyes, they don't listen the second time either....
Posted by AwgustaDawg
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Posted on 6/30/25 at 9:10 am to
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I would absolutely have authority over how they are raised. You didn’t because you didn’t command the respect of your woman.



You'd be involved in raising the kids while you were dating? So first date, dinner and a movie, she takes the kid along (right off that is your cue that this shite ain't happening) and kid has a lip on him..gets lippy at the restaurant, tells you to go frick yourself. First date. You disciplining the kid??? Not me....I am calling the waiter, telling him to giver them whatever they ordered and bring me the check, calling them an Uber and leaving. frick disciplining someone's ill behaved child.

Lets say you have been dating 3 months and hitting it regularly. Kid comes home from school while you waiting for old gal to get ready to go out and has his report card...failed everything. You stepping in? You are telling him to go to his room or giving him a few with your belt while his Mama is finishing up her makeup??? I would suggest the latter would be a good way to wind your arse up in jail. Highly doubtful anything you do in that situation is going to go over well other than maybe telling the kid better luck next time. You are the mom's date when you are dating, you have ZERO responsibility as to how the child is being raised or disciplined unless that is what you are there for....
Posted by AwgustaDawg
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Member since Jan 2023
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Posted on 6/30/25 at 9:12 am to
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Plenty of 22 year old college grads who want to skip the tough years of adulthood and marry a 45 year old. That’s a fact, they’re out there. If you’re looking, look there. Assuming you can handle the generational differences.



I can't imagine having to try to converse with a 22 year old I was trying to bang. Outside of the obvious physical merits there is nothing interesting about a 22 year old girl, not for a middle aged man anyway, one who is emotionally mature. I am certain there are exceptions but imagine the pile of shite you have to dig through to find the exception....
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
32218 posts
Posted on 6/30/25 at 9:27 am to
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Why would you care if the kid is undisciplined? All I want is to get laid....if the kid is robbing liquor stores at age 6 when I ain't around what do I care??? I don't care if the police are kicking the door in as long as I have my britches on....if it happened during the act I'd be pissed but I wouldn't be overly put out by it....


If that's what you got out of what I asked, congratulations on being the dumbest person on this board.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
52699 posts
Posted on 6/30/25 at 11:18 am to
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You'd be involved in raising the kids while you were dating?

No. My assumption was that the relationship was serious and headed to marriage.
Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
5140 posts
Posted on 6/30/25 at 11:38 am to
Unless of course you find one that has a job and some financial security and that’s not good digging needy selfish whore


I mean there’s that.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17975 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 4:57 am to
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boy who has never touched a boob.


Suspect writing here.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2059 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 5:29 am to
You can't say ALL singe women, just like you can put all republicans, catholics or (pick a race) into one group.

People need to be more selective.

Some.folks put more time in picking a vehicle than a mate.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
20885 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 5:33 am to
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not for a middle aged man anyway, one who is emotionally mature.

Is that how you think you sound in this thread?
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
11126 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 8:39 am to
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Worst of all… deep down, they know they aren’t worth shite, and will eventually view you as weak for taking on a relationship with them

Yup
Posted by czechtiger
europe
Member since Aug 2013
100 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 8:42 am to
I’m 53 and single for probably 7 or 8 years now. Was pretty brutal emotionally bailing on the dating scene but I have gotten used to it now and am thankful for the peace and quiet I enjoy. Finances also easy as can be. Just me and my hobbies.
Would have loved to have had kids but the women out there are totally insane and untrustworthy.
It is what it is
This post was edited on 7/1/25 at 8:45 am
Posted by LSUfan4444
Member since Mar 2004
56751 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 9:02 am to
I love coming to the OT for dating advice from people who are single and have issues making relationships work.

It's the same reason I take health and fitness advice from people like Melissa McCarthy, Kelly Clarkson, Ralphie May and Jelly Roll.
Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
19280 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 9:21 am to
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I will teach my son to stay away from women like that. We are more than wage slaves to support the feminine imperative. Women need to either be a relationship partner or they can literally frick themselves while their more suitable, less selfish peers get the good men and stable marriages.

Men need to stop marrying these selfish women. Stop valuing them. They don’t value you. It there anre any women in their social circle or family that does shite like that….run away. If you see a hint of this, immediately stop fricking them and move on. Let these bitches be alone and miserable with their collection of vibrators and house cats.

We have got to change this behavior. The only way we can is if women like this are valued for what they bring to a relationship - which is very little if the sex isn’t awesome and they don’t appreciate their partner.

There are good women out there. And since there are bad guys out there, some good single women do have kids. But don’t rush to settle down with a bad one. And don’t panic if you don’t find a good one right away.








Posted by TimeOutdoors
LA
Member since Sep 2014
13124 posts
Posted on 7/1/25 at 9:23 am to
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More men need to hear this message. It’s better to be lonely for the rest of your life than to be with a single mom. At least then you will have peace.


Do you think it is better for kids to be raised by single moms or by a couple where even the stepdad doesn't have much say in the kids life?
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