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Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:31 am to
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
14529 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:31 am to
Were you satisfied, content before finding this out? If so, I wouldn’t let it bother you. People come in at different times under different circumstances. They’ll always be someone out there making more than their worth for whatever reason.

If you feel fairly paid and content, then perhaps wait until the next review period to bring up a promotion or pay raise more than the norm. Have documentation of your position and industry averages. Otherwise, be careful what you wish for. Keeping up with the Joneses isn’t always the best outcome.

Back any request up with data and analytics. Don’t take the “I heard such and such” approach or I just want a raise because I’m a cry baby take.
This post was edited on 3/13/25 at 9:34 am
Posted by Keith13
Member since Apr 2024
284 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:31 am to
Are you happy with your job? Were you good with your salary prior to learning of your colleague? if so stay and try to negotiate a higher salary if not find another opportunity while still employed
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
23830 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:32 am to
If ya'll do the same thing 20K is a big issue.

He may have been woofing though
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
9963 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:34 am to
Don't worry about what others are making, worry about what you are making.

If you feel you should make more and you are ready to find another job, then of course, speak to the manager.
Posted by Sampson
Drusilla and Jefferson
Member since Mar 2012
24978 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:34 am to
take a page out of Ignatius J. Reilly's play book. round up a decent sized mob and march them into upper management for a proper coup d'etat.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69379 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:37 am to
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Does he have more job responsibility than you? Maybe something you don't know about?


This could be a factor. I’m one of a team of product managers where I work. But make more than the others because I have a team of direct reports while the others don’t.
Posted by Liger43
Member since Sep 2019
572 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:39 am to
Piggybacking on this topic, perspective on starting a new job: Do you prefer to assert yourself right away, or do you take a couple of months to settle in?

I recently began working as an estimator and was told I’d have about a year to learn the ropes with minimal responsibilities. However, only six weeks in, I’m already handling multiple projects each week. This is my first professional office job, so I’m curious if stepping up so quickly could lead to tension with colleagues or if it’s generally welcomed.
Posted by Jack Bauers HnK
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
5958 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:43 am to
If you want more money, you either ask your employer to give you more money out of the goodness of their corporate heart or you leverage your willingness to leave and get another job.

If your employer isn’t faced with the prospect of whatever it costs them to replace you, why would they pay you any more than the amount you’ve been willing to work for all this time?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83845 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:46 am to
quote:

I recently began working as an estimator and was told I’d have about a year to learn the ropes with minimal responsibilities. However, only six weeks in, I’m already handling multiple projects each week. This is my first professional office job, so I’m curious if stepping up so quickly could lead to tension with colleagues or if it’s generally welcomed.


Posted by Warfox
B.R. Native (now in MA)
Member since Apr 2017
3584 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:47 am to
quote:

Go to your manager and ask for a talk. But before doing so, you need to put together your case as to why you should receive a raise. And that reason can’t be because this other guy is making $20k more than you. You have to make the case that the value you bring to the company is worth (X) dollar more than what you’re being paid now. It’s up to you to make the case. And I’d make sure you lay out your case in a professional, non-emotional manner, backed up with facts and figures. Best of luck to you.


Sorry, but all else equal with poster doing the same exact job as his co-worker, then the burden is NOT on the poster to prove his worth, it’s on his employer to justify why he is being paid 20k less than his coworker.

I’d have an honest conversation with the boss, but have an exit strategy.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69379 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:50 am to
quote:

Sorry, but all else equal with poster doing the same exact job as his co-worker, then the burden is NOT on the poster to prove his worth, it’s on his employer to justify why he is being paid 20k less than his coworker.


If he goes into a meeting with his manager with that attitude, he has zero chance of getting a raise. In fact, all it will do is reflect poorly on himself and quite possibly hurt his standing with the company. He’d be better off either settling for what he makes now or just turning in his resignation than this approach.
This post was edited on 3/13/25 at 9:52 am
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
75116 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:50 am to
Start updating your resume, check open jobs about your level/location, and make your pitch on a big raise. As a tip, don't just say "well Tim makes 20k more than me". You have absolutely no way of verifying that, and even if you do, so what? If HR and management already knew this and did nothing, it's not exactly great argument fuel.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83845 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:52 am to
quote:

Sorry, but all else equal with poster doing the same exact job as his co-worker, then the burden is NOT on the poster to prove his worth, it’s on his employer to justify why he is being paid 20k less than his coworker.


If he goes into a meeting either his manager with that attitude, he has zero chance of getting a raise. In fact, all it will do is reflect poorly on himself and quite possibly hurt his standing with the company. He’d be better off either settling for what he makes now or just turning in his r


Posted by MRTigerFan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
5413 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:54 am to
There's a chance your colleague is FOS... I have a good friend who exaggerates everything. Years ago he got a job making 80k but he told me 100k (I saw his w2). Same guy bench pressed 315 max. I know because I spotted him. But if you ask him he will tell you he benches 350. He's not a bad guy. He just exaggerates.
Posted by I20goon
about 7mi down a dirt road
Member since Aug 2013
17716 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 9:55 am to
Is he better looking... a handsome fella?

Well there you go. Uggos make less.

Yes, you can ask for a raise.

You can, also, ask the purse holder if he wants to honestly and bluntly tell you why and them you declare you are going to do what it takes to earn par pay.

If he doesn't have a reason why the other is worth $20k more (or you $20k less... could be either) then your employer is suspect.
Posted by MizunoDude
Member since May 2020
992 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 10:07 am to
Perhaps he is bluffing hoping that you run to management and demand a raise resulting in your firing and him getting a raise to fill your role too.
Posted by Larry_Hotdogs
Texas
Member since Jun 2019
1625 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 10:12 am to
What % does the $20k make up? Asking for a <10% raise is one thing. If you're a cashier at HEB, just don't make a scene when they call security to escort you out. Probably a good move to pre-pack your belongings.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
83845 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 10:15 am to
quote:

Perhaps he is bluffing hoping that you run to management and demand a raise resulting in your firing and him getting a raise to fill your role too.


my dad owned a pretty good sized business, he had a policy of that employees do not discuss their compensation with each other, never quite understood that but it was a termination level offense, realistically I know everyone knew what everyone was making and I never heard of anyone getting canned over it, I just thought that was an unusual policy
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
14900 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 10:17 am to
quote:

Been at my workplace for 12 years.


Yeah, this is how it happens my brother. I am not saying do not be loyal, but they do take advantage of the long-term employees.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
71819 posts
Posted on 3/13/25 at 10:17 am to
quote:

I feel the need to speak to management


yeah, don't do this. This will end badly. for you and your coworker.
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