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re: Need advice about a situation with my gf

Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:16 am to
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
23507 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:16 am to
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she tells me that they did hook up


She's a lying whore

cut bait
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
115071 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:16 am to
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Update: I told her how I felt and the guy is finding somewhere else to stay


“Uhh hey so my uhhh boyfriend or whatever doesn’t want you staying here :/“


“Awww man, that’s kind of crazy he wouldn’t trust you like that but hey I get it, I’ll find me a place, I think I saw an apartment right across the street from yours!”

“OMG that would be awesome, we could go do brunch on sundays. My boyfriend hates brunch”

“What??? Who hates brunch!? What a monster haha”

“Haha I know right?!! He’s so weird sometimes....”

Boom your gf still getting bent over a bed railing
This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 10:19 am
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
37620 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:16 am to
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Update: I told her how I felt and the guy is finding somewhere else to stay



Sorry to tell you baw..but the fact that she even entertained the idea of letting this guy stay with her speaks volumes. You should hit it a few more times then exit.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
115071 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:17 am to
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This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 10:18 am
Posted by ApexTiger
cary nc
Member since Oct 2003
54956 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:17 am to
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Update: I told her how I felt and the guy is finding somewhere else to sta


Well now, congrats...

direct communication is effective and the results are what you wanted

it could have been a test all along...

"Does he care enough to fight for me?"

Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
7009 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:19 am to
He is gonna be heaving his hot dog down her hallway.
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5701 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:24 am to
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Update: I told her how I felt and the guy is finding somewhere else to stay

Wasn’t expecting this but he is still in the same town. I would have trouble trusting this girl for even asking a question like this
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:27 am to
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I would have trouble trusting this girl for even asking a question like this




If it flies, floats, or fricks its ex, rent don't buy.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
18586 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:38 am to
Do just like you would in prison.

Have anal sex with him to prove your dominance
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14026 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 10:57 am to
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I want to know what y’all think I should do or what would be the best way to handle this


I’d probably respond something like the following:

Whew, Girlfriend. That is a huge relief. You are not going to believe this, but one of my close friends from high school just got a divorce and is moving back into town. She’s been looking for a place to stay. I told our group I didn’t think you would understand, so I was out. Now that you are fine with it I’ll tell her it’s fine.

Posted by lsubuddy
houma, la
Member since Jul 2014
4769 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:02 pm to
Have a woman come stay with you for a while
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47825 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:06 pm to
Break up with her? How long have you been dating? Living with a person you’ve slept with that isn’t your SO is a clear cut deal breaker in almost any serious relationship.
This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 12:07 pm
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
61307 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 12:45 pm to
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but the fact that she even entertained the idea of letting this guy stay with her speaks volumes


Agree with this sentiment. Now you’re just the ‘jealous boyfriend‘ amongst the group of her, her roommate, and this guy. They’ll get together for a few drinks, bitch about you, and still end up banging.

Lose-lose situation for you, IMO.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33833 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:09 pm to
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Update: I told her how I felt and the guy is finding somewhere else to stay




Good.

A lot of women test to see where the line is, to see if you'll stand up for yourself. This GF of yours will test again.

I agree with one of the posters above that you should still keep your options open.
This post was edited on 8/1/20 at 1:12 pm
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
18898 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 1:31 pm to
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
96712 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:09 pm to
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I find it rude and disrespectful to you that she’s even considering allowing this guy she slept with to stay at her house. Tell him to find a pay by the week motel.


To me it doesn’t matter at this point if op changes her mind and he doesn’t stay. She obviously doesn’t respect him or consider his feelings. Whether or not she intended to frick the guy would be irrelevant to me, it’s the fact she can’t respect him enough to understand that it will cause him anxiety and worry over what she is doing while the guy stays with her.

He should break it off and tell her he is doing it because she doesn’t respect him. Maybe she will understand and make it right or maybe she will let him go because she really doesn’t care about him. But OP needs to show he will walk away, he will find out then her true feelings. But he doesn’t need to make it about jealousy or mistrust cause that will put her on the defensive and make him look insecure. Make it about lack of respect
Posted by Tampa Tiger
Fl.
Member since Nov 2006
714 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:20 pm to
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His work should pay for a hotel



Ding ding ding ding.
Was just about to post that.
Posted by Squeeze
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Jan 2007
1994 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:21 pm to
tell her you aint comfortable
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
11361 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:46 pm to
He’s banging her or the roommate. Bet!
Posted by wasteland
City of peace
Member since Apr 2011
5906 posts
Posted on 8/1/20 at 2:47 pm to
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