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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:28 pm to nuwaydawg
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:28 pm to nuwaydawg
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Adoption? Probably not likely if she already has a child. Does she work and could she keep her job having to take care of 3 children?
I think she's also in school. She's more than happy and has no shame getting government assistance, WIC, etc. To make things even trashier (if that's possible), the father of her first child is incarcerated.
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Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:30 pm to Samson
Your son knows how to chose them
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:31 pm to Samson
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I think she's also in school. She's more than happy and has no shame getting government assistance, WIC, etc. To make things even trashier (if that's possible), the father of her first child is incarcerated.
Great troll
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:31 pm to Samson
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yeah, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does. I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away. But that's not an option. Whether he's a part of their lives or not, he's going to have to pay support.
Your step-son )and you) sound like a piece of work. The point to decide if you want to be part of a kids life is BEFORE you have sex, not after.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:31 pm to TulaneLSU
Friend,
That's all great, but marriage can't survive without love. If he has no genuine love for the girl, the marriage is destined to fail.
As Always,
Samson
That's all great, but marriage can't survive without love. If he has no genuine love for the girl, the marriage is destined to fail.
As Always,
Samson
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:31 pm to Samson
Stepson needs to marry her arse if they his.
He likes her, he likes the sex with her, now she's the mother of his kids. Love will come as they start their family and raise their kids.
Joining the Navy and abandoning his kids is a dick move. You think Jesus would pull that sort of horrible shite?
Being in-love is over rated fantasy crap. Lot's of people in-love when they marry and and divorce in 5 years.
Real love is something that develops over time. Stepson needs to man up and love the one he's with. Win-win.
He likes her, he likes the sex with her, now she's the mother of his kids. Love will come as they start their family and raise their kids.
Joining the Navy and abandoning his kids is a dick move. You think Jesus would pull that sort of horrible shite?
Being in-love is over rated fantasy crap. Lot's of people in-love when they marry and and divorce in 5 years.
Real love is something that develops over time. Stepson needs to man up and love the one he's with. Win-win.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:33 pm to Mid Iowa Tiger
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Your step-son )and you) sound like a piece of work. The point to decide if you want to be part of a kids life is BEFORE you have sex, not after.
as stated prior, I have nothing to do w/ it. My responsibility was to take care of him and to help raise him when his real father didn't step up to the plate. I've fulfilled by responsibilities. He's a grown man now and needs to make his own decisions and learn from his mistakes. All I can do is provide advice/suggestions, which is what I've done.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:34 pm to Samson
Friend,
Marriage can survive through duty alone. Ideally love is the root, but marriage is an ethical commitment first. The best marriages are rooted in love and no duty is needed at all because there is true freedom there. But in this case the marriage will need to start with pure duty. I pray his character can change and it might be molded by love for love.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Marriage can survive through duty alone. Ideally love is the root, but marriage is an ethical commitment first. The best marriages are rooted in love and no duty is needed at all because there is true freedom there. But in this case the marriage will need to start with pure duty. I pray his character can change and it might be molded by love for love.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
This post was edited on 4/24/20 at 3:35 pm
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:36 pm to MojoGuyPan
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He likes her, he likes the sex with her, now she's the mother of his kids. Love will come as they start their family and raise their kids.
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Being in-love is over rated fantasy crap
and lots of people get married for this exact reason, and end up divorced. Love isn't a guarantee just because you're married and raising children together. I don't recommend marriage to anyone unless they're 100% that it's the person they want to spend the rest of their life with.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:38 pm to MrLarson
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Your wife is gonna be nana
What will they call you? Samson.
Maw and Baw
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:42 pm to Samson
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now he's on the hook for the next 18 years
He's a parent for life unless he's a jerk. Your statement sounds like the only issue here is money.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:42 pm to Samson
Good advice in here, seriously. It might be bullshite entirely, might not be his if it's not BS, he might be able to convince her of various options, etc.
A flow chart, kinda.
"What to do when she tells you she's pregnant."
A flow chart, kinda.
"What to do when she tells you she's pregnant."
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:44 pm to Samson
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My stepson is a good-looking kid, into fitness, eating right, working out. He's built, six pack, all that.
Am I on the OT or the gay section of Pornhub?
Take a cold shower pawpaw.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:48 pm to Samson
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and now he's on the hook for the next 18 years.
18 years x 2 for child support.
your son is going to be a father of two for the rest of his life
you’d be better served teaching him how to be a father
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:49 pm to Samson
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Samson
I have a dog named Delilah.
The rest of this... Tough call. What advice has his father given him?
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:50 pm to The Spleen
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This is precisely what abortion is for.
1st. That's a fn appalling suggestion.
2nd. She's a PR. No way she would be pressured into having one by Samson's stepkid. Catholicism runs deep in those veins.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:52 pm to terd ferguson
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The military will 100% take child support directly out of your pay...
And that E-2 will cover the hell out of a pair of twins, I bet.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:55 pm to Tiguar
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f his, marry her and join the Navy. They will basically pay for her shite and the kids and he can get deployed to get the frick out and sleep around in Vietnam or whatever the frick
And come home to Jody's triplets.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:59 pm to PiscesTiger
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Puerto Rican I think?
Well...he definitely has some fights and arguments ahead of him no matter.
On the other hand, 100% guarantee she's hot.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 4:00 pm to Samson
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pregnant with twins
The only reasonable thing to do would be for each of them to get one kid and go their separate ways without any contact.
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