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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:10 pm to Samson
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:10 pm to Samson
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yeah, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not.
so, he has to figure out if he wants to be a tpos or not? If she has the kids and keeps them and he isn't in their lives, you're all trashy.
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Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:10 pm to Samson
1. Fun is over for now. Man up.
2. Get DNA test just in case
2. Get DNA test just in case
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:10 pm to Samson
Well this is a troll post but I’m in for a while I guess
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:12 pm to Samson
This is precisely what abortion is for.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:12 pm to terd ferguson
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Sounds like whoever raised him did a pretty shitty job if he's trying to get out of taking responsibility for nutting in some chick.
And then sends his stepdad here to ask for advice from strangers.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:13 pm to Samson
Adoption? Probably not likely if she already has a child. Does she work and could she keep her job having to take care of 3 children?
My sons BIL and his wife, who can't have children spent a lot of time and money to adopt a child. I think they tried 3 times and the mother changed her mind. Finally, a freshmen in college agreed to an "open" adoption.
In the future she would be allowed to visit her child. She sounds like a good kid that just made a mistake and just couldn't stand the thought of abortion.
I know there are all kinds of factors that can screw this up, but the agency is faith based and her/his parents are on board with visitation access.
My sons BIL and his wife, who can't have children spent a lot of time and money to adopt a child. I think they tried 3 times and the mother changed her mind. Finally, a freshmen in college agreed to an "open" adoption.
In the future she would be allowed to visit her child. She sounds like a good kid that just made a mistake and just couldn't stand the thought of abortion.
I know there are all kinds of factors that can screw this up, but the agency is faith based and her/his parents are on board with visitation access.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:13 pm to The Spleen
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This is precisely what abortion is for.
For hiding from responsibility? I thought it was a necessary medical procedure.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:14 pm to Samson
I think the going advice is: "Time to put your big boy drawers on."
But tell him don't be rash - If he doesn't make jets, Lynette will reveal she wasn't really pregnant and will dump him anyway."
But tell him don't be rash - If he doesn't make jets, Lynette will reveal she wasn't really pregnant and will dump him anyway."
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:18 pm to Samson
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yeah, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does. I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away. But that's not an option. Whether he's a part of their lives or not, he's going to have to pay support.
My first nugget of advice is he probably isn’t cut out for the military if he’s too big of a coward to be a father to his children
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:19 pm to Samson
He needs to man the frick up and get his head right for the next 18 years. Where is his real father?
And no, he isn't going into the fricking Navy. He needs to find a job and hopefully graduate at some point.
One of my best friends was in this exact situation in college. Knocked up a random after a party. She called him like 6 weeks later or something and dropped a bomb on him. He packed his shite and drove his arse across the country (NY to LA) to her doorstep and he hasn't left since. They have been married for 11 years now and have two more kids. He is a phenomenal husband and father. I admire the shite out of him. He dropped what he was doing and acknowledged and accepted his responsibilities. He literally had no intention of ever calling that girl again after that night.
Tell your boy to grow the frick up and don't be a piece of shite. The last thing this world needs is more fatherless children.
And no, he isn't going into the fricking Navy. He needs to find a job and hopefully graduate at some point.
One of my best friends was in this exact situation in college. Knocked up a random after a party. She called him like 6 weeks later or something and dropped a bomb on him. He packed his shite and drove his arse across the country (NY to LA) to her doorstep and he hasn't left since. They have been married for 11 years now and have two more kids. He is a phenomenal husband and father. I admire the shite out of him. He dropped what he was doing and acknowledged and accepted his responsibilities. He literally had no intention of ever calling that girl again after that night.
Tell your boy to grow the frick up and don't be a piece of shite. The last thing this world needs is more fatherless children.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:19 pm to Klingler7
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What is your stepson’s current major at TSU ?
Reproductive Studies
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:21 pm to Samson
Tejas State. Twins. One could be his and one could be someone else’s. Get a paternity test and have the other dad chip in for half of the child support.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:22 pm to The Spleen
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This is precisely what abortion is for.
This is a disgusting take.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:23 pm to The Spleen
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This is precisely what abortion is for.
Oh that's weird, I was always told that it was to save the life of the mother.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:24 pm to Samson
Pay the child support if they are his. Then hope she finds somebody rich to marry and who will adopt kids.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:25 pm to Samson
Friend,
From an amoral to moral, a continuum option choice list:
5. Abortion, the absolute desecration and destruction of innocent life and all for which humanity and civilization stands.
4. Abandonment of the mother and child, including finding ways to avoid child support.
3. Encouraging the mother to give up the children for adoption.
2. Taking responsibility for the children by helping with their upbringing, yet not marrying her and keeping both the children in a state of being bastards.
1. Jettison American notions of romance and unattainable optimism. By choosing the ethically correct thing — marrying her and taking care of the children — he might have hope to enter the realm of charity.
Only the last option involves love. One could argue the second to last option is of the ethical realm. The other three options, 5, 4, and 3, are those of the aesthete, the destroyer of civilizations and individuals.
Faithfully,
TulaneLSU
From an amoral to moral, a continuum option choice list:
5. Abortion, the absolute desecration and destruction of innocent life and all for which humanity and civilization stands.
4. Abandonment of the mother and child, including finding ways to avoid child support.
3. Encouraging the mother to give up the children for adoption.
2. Taking responsibility for the children by helping with their upbringing, yet not marrying her and keeping both the children in a state of being bastards.
1. Jettison American notions of romance and unattainable optimism. By choosing the ethically correct thing — marrying her and taking care of the children — he might have hope to enter the realm of charity.
Only the last option involves love. One could argue the second to last option is of the ethical realm. The other three options, 5, 4, and 3, are those of the aesthete, the destroyer of civilizations and individuals.
Faithfully,
TulaneLSU
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:25 pm to Samson
Well his options sound like either child support or antifreeze.
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:25 pm to Crimson1st
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This post was edited on 7/1/20 at 1:49 am
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:26 pm to TulaneLSU
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First, how sad it is that a forum that caters mostly to college educated middle and upper class Americans seems to have so many who are entirely okay with bringing bastard children into this world. Heaven forbid one might need to sacrifice his own dreams and desires to ensure a proper raising of his children. Let me tell your step son this: by not marrying her, he ensures that both he and his illicit sexual partner remain whores and their children forever bastards.
It’s astounding that people don’t see these things in this manner.
Best,
GLT24
Posted on 4/24/20 at 3:28 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
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It’s astounding that people don’t see these things in this manner.
If we lived in a perfect world, perhaps it would be seen more.
Shite happens.
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