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re: My stepson is desperate for your advice

Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:19 pm to
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:19 pm to
quote:

I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does. I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away


Honestly

Tell him to grow the frick up. Plus these are going to be you and your wife's grandchildren so how are they not going to be a part of his life?
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
23831 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

a girl who is basically a frick buddy
99% chance your stepson wasn't the only guy she was frick buddies with.
quote:

Advice/suggestions?

STD and DNA tests
Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
29658 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:20 pm to
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I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support

Beat his arse for that.

Then tell him to man up and take responsibility for his actions.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
57373 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

, I told him the main thing he needs to figure out is whether he wants to be a part of these kids' lives or not. I really don't think he does. I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away.


Believe me, those kids will really appreciate this when they get older.

Just tell him that he has to man up. If he runs from this now, he’ll be running from every problem for the rest of his life. With actions come responsibility.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
37052 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:20 pm to
It’s not about your stepson.
It’s about those two innocent kids.

They deserve to have a father figure present and monetary support. He should do the right thing and do both.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
56754 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:21 pm to
Damn lol I guess raising someone else’s kid runs in the family even though y’all aren’t related
Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:21 pm to
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Congrats. paw paw



haha... WRONG... his real dad is the paw paw!
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
148054 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:21 pm to
In all honesty, there's a decent chance they arent his as I doubt a frick buddy who let's him raw dog it probably isnt exclusively sleeping with him. Absolutely get a paternity test before anything horns
Posted by Lago Gato
Member since Dec 2018
2034 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:21 pm to
Paternity test . If his no regrets. Man up time for your blood.
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
10717 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:21 pm to
Yea you had me on his side until
quote:

I think he's really looking for a way to not have to pay child support


Screw Him!

He made adult decisions now he must deal with adult consequences.

Disowning the kids he created is about as shitty as it comes.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
111806 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:22 pm to
Sounds like whoever raised him did a pretty shitty job if he's trying to get out of taking responsibility for nutting in some chick. No sense in the stepson raising another 2 frickups. Kids would prob be better off without him anyway.


Tell him to drop out of college and start working manual labor jobs so he doesn't have to pay child support.

Posted by Samson
Wildcat Spur, TN
Member since Feb 2020
348 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:22 pm to
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The military will 100% take child support directly out of your pay...



yep that's what I told him
Posted by musick
the internet
Member since Dec 2008
26131 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:22 pm to
3 pages in 8 minutes
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

haha... WRONG... his real dad is the paw paw!




Oh you'll still be at the birthday parties wishing you were in some strip club licking coke off a stripper's vulva.
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13595 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:22 pm to
Friend,

Most importantly, when and where are the baptisms planned? He needs to marry this woman as soon as possible so his children are not born as bastards.

Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted by lnomm34
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
12702 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:23 pm to
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This post was edited on 2/5/25 at 9:23 am
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
148054 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:23 pm to
What would Uncle say about this situation?
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:23 pm to
Joining the military is only a good idea if he marries her.
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:24 pm to
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haha... WRONG... his real dad is the paw paw!


Your wife is gonna be nana

What will they call you? Samson.
Posted by carhartt
Member since Feb 2013
8061 posts
Posted on 4/24/20 at 2:24 pm to
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I think he just wants to run away and hide and hope it goes away.


Seems like a real responsible kid.

Is the GF hot? If so he should bite the bullet and marry her so he can end up married, miserable and broke like the rest of society. At least he’d have a hot wife.

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