re: My girlfriend of 3 years gave me an ultimatum today

Is she from California? Like grew up there and still has lots of family there?


If so, she likely is just trying to dump you but make you do the work for the dumping. So she doesn't feel bad. She realized she doesn't want to leave but doesn't want to be the bad guy and dump you.

If she really gave you that ultimatum...no way she has any serious plan of moving next month. She just told you that.

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You make it sound like she's a liberal but I gotta say, she's coming out ahead here.

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She does sound slightly better than my ex who thinks that Arkansas is run by a Mongolian hoard who will burn down our house and rape her at any whim.

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(she’s in California) but I had done some convincing in moving to Arkansas with me next month.

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Now we know you are lying

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Exactly, it’s not necessarily that she is anti-Trump or that y’all have differing political views. It’s about her trying to control your thoughts and beliefs.

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Yet another *Ding Ding*

If you let her get away with this...where does it stop? Next week she’ll be telling you to let another dude join y’all in the bedroom or she’ll leave you.

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Tell her you are going to vote for Biden and also going to let her go.

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Wish I could upvote this 10 times. Anyone who gives that ridiculous amount ultimatum is going to be a ridiculous marriage partner.

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You realize that after November, he’ll never be on a ballot again, right? You’d rather wear a MAGA hat than stay with your woman?

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Do you realize this obviously goes deeper than Trump or politics? She is trying to control him in ways that are completely unacceptable for any self respecting man. You really think a grown adult should let someone else tell them who they could or couldn’t support politically? I don’t use this term often, but cuck seems to apply here quite nicely. Sorry to the OP but this relationship seems doomed, because if he doesn’t give in, she will according to her, leave him, and if he does give in, she will no longer respect him and eventually leave him anyway.

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Are you really going to change a core value for a woman? If so it isn’t a core value.

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I don't think Trump should be considered a "core value ".

Arkansas has enough people from California and NY moving there.

What does "picking her" over Trump entail? You can't change how you think. You can agree not to vote for the guy, I guess, or agree not to talk about him. If this boils down to just agreeing not to talk about him (and she's willing to return the favor when it comes to her own politics) then that's not completely insane... I guess.

Anyway, I mostly ask these questions out of rhetorical curiosity. My actual advice is to forget her. If she were into you, you could have David Duke tattooed on the small of your back and she'd tolerate it.