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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:20 am to tLSU
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:20 am to tLSU
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Does the child not have a name listed as father on the birth certificate?
He has legal claim up until the bio dad sues for paternity/custody/whatever the status is called.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 7:23 am
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:20 am to GEAUXmedic
Sorry to hear that Medic.
I would walk away if I were you.
I would walk away if I were you.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:20 am to CrimsonTideMD
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She leaves her daughter,a toddler, home with you--the babysitter--to go get dicked down, And you're considering staying with her?
That must be some of that "Voodoo Pussy" I'm always hearing about? shite so good, make a grown man do things he would never ever consider before getting hooked on that stuff.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:20 am to SlapahoTribe
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He feels like he is. Feelings don’t amount to much inside a courtroom. It’s been explained several times in this thread how this could legally go wrong for the OP - which is why he needs to get an attorney and legally solidify his parental position (if he wants to remain in the daughter’s life ... and even if he doesn’t).
His name is on the birth certificate
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:22 am to lsufan112001
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My only question for you is JUST HOW BAD ARE YOU TRYING TO frick UP YOUR SONS LIFE
This^
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:23 am to jorconalx
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he isn’t her dad.
except he is.
No, he’s nothing more than her mom’s current meal ticket
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:23 am to GEAUXmedic
I know exactly what you're going through. My divorce was just finalized. Get the frick out now. Don't ever look back. Act indifferent to the whole situation. Don't let her know how much you hurt...but again, get the frick out.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:23 am to GEAUXmedic
Call off the wedding if her being loyal matters that much to you.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:24 am to Spaceman Spiff
Nope, and he is going to learn an expensive lesson that "his daughter" is not legally his daughter.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:25 am to jorconalx
Until he legally adopts the child. That is meaningless if they aren't blood or he married the mom.
I'm not even sure marrying the mom would have made a difference if he hadn't addopted her. If the mom doesn't want him to have any custody, he won't have any.
I'm not even sure marrying the mom would have made a difference if he hadn't addopted her. If the mom doesn't want him to have any custody, he won't have any.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 7:27 am
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:25 am to GEAUXmedic
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I'd prefer everything be as mutual as possible. I have full custody of my son, and things were pretty mutual. The best I can hope for is shared
Am I understanding correctly that you have more than one baby mama?
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:25 am to jorconalx
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His name is on the birth certificate
Which won’t mean shite when the paternity test come back (see previous post on what could cause that to occur).
Furthermore, he’s admitted that he knew he was falsely putting his name on said certificate - I’d think that weakens his paternal stance.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:26 am to GEAUXmedic
Damn...
With a child this is tragic, but at least you know now and can deal with this as best as possible.
She clearly has demonstrated no desire to keep you around.
Think about this though, at least you didn't marry her so all you will have to deal with is child support payments for 18 years. You at least get to keep your shite.
With a child this is tragic, but at least you know now and can deal with this as best as possible.
She clearly has demonstrated no desire to keep you around.
Think about this though, at least you didn't marry her so all you will have to deal with is child support payments for 18 years. You at least get to keep your shite.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:27 am to CrimsonTideMD
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So you're divorced with a son
You decide to date and then later get engaged to woman who was pregnant with a mother mans baby
She leaves her daughter,a toddler, home with you--the babysitter--to go get dicked down
And you're considering staying with her?
My only question for you is JUST HOW BAD ARE YOU TRYING TO frick UP YOUR SONS LIFE
Make better decisions for your son, man.
This is it. OP, you need to have more self respect than what you've been having to get you to this point. You have no one but yourself to blame for this, but the good news is yu can take ypur life back starting right now. YOU are in control. No one else.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:28 am to GEAUXmedic
Just read through this, and like everyone said, bail out now. I was engaged once and in a long term relationship another time and both ended the same way--both cheating whores went to the guy they cheated on me with, but eventually that didn't work out for either. Why? Because they were dumb whores getting played.
In the end, it worked out the best for me. Found the girl I truly love and will spend the rest of my life with.
Sorry about your daughter. Find someway to make sure you get custody. You don't want her growing up in a toxic environment.
In the end, it worked out the best for me. Found the girl I truly love and will spend the rest of my life with.
Sorry about your daughter. Find someway to make sure you get custody. You don't want her growing up in a toxic environment.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:29 am to jorconalx
quote:
puts his name on the birth certificate as the father.
once you do that, there is no need to do this
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never officially adopts the child
Yeah, you don't know anything about family law in America
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:31 am to Breesus
I love the O-T.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:33 am to CharlesLSU
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And, as others have said, she ceased up only to alleviate her own guilt.
Couldn't have been better said. Cheaters will only come clean because either they were caught or they know/think its coming and decide to strike first. After all, isn't it better to fess up than get caught? The thing is, that affair could have lasted (and possibly has) a long time...or maybe there were multiple affairs.
As has been said countless times, a leopard can't change its spots. Even if a cheater stops, the monotony of the routine will sooner or later wear on them and the excitement and thrill of an affair will soon be sought out.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:33 am to SabiDojo
This thread gives me the sads
Posted on 11/17/17 at 7:33 am to Evil Little Thing
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Doesn’t putting his name on the birth certificate legally bind him to this child?
No.
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It’s the same as adopting a child
No.
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someone here adopted a kid & the relationship went south, would y’all be telling him to cut ties with the adopted child?
That's not this situation, he didn't adopt the kid, and it doesn't have a formed brain with longterm memories yet
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