re: More than a third of Americans have a "sleep divorce," survey finds

There's nothing wrong with sleeping in another room. This idea that you've got to be sleeping in the same bed or you're not in love is silly.

When my wife gets clammy and doesn’t want to frick, I do this from time to time as well as cut her off financially for impulse type buying & support. I actually did this last night and woke up to my wife displaying some lingerie I bought a few weeks ago.

Women crave companionships/attention and spending money. We have separate banking accounts, so this strategy works.

Put me on a sexual island and I will abandon you likewise and deprive you of what women want. Gimme that cat and put some moderate effort in the bedroom and we can work things out. I got blowjobs back after about a 2-3 year hiatus with this strategy a few years ago and it’s now the norm. (For reference, been married 14 years)

Not sure how this will be received, but if your SO deprives you of the most important aspect of your relationship, it’s no holds barred open warfare.

Shamoan: Sexual Savant MD

I don't have a problem admitting that I have always loathed sharing a bed......with anyone. I do the majority of the time, but I don't really care for it.

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Everyone is fat now and they snore.

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Have some in-laws who do this. They're what you might call "big uns" and don't particularly like each other.

My wife and I don't sleep in the same bed usually.

I’m 6 months from my 25th anniversary, and aside from work where I only came home every 6 weeks, that’s been the longest duration without one. I would have outsourced by 4th month.

Getting damned close to it myself. I snore like a freight train and nothing wakes me up. My wife used to sleep right through the night. Then came menopause. Now a mouse can fart and she's up the rest of the night seemingly frustrated at the world. Hot, cold, hot, cold, hot, hotter, freezing.

Of course I get a large part of the blame for coming to bed late or snoring. But in reality, I can fall asleep on the couch and she will come in looking for me. It's like she's listening for every peep or creak of the floor so she can jump up and complain. I'll end up getting all the sleep and she'll figure out it's not me keeping her awake. Oh and forget playing grab arse like you did when you were young. Last thing you want to do is wake up the menopause woman.

We found one of the 1/3, lol just messing with ya!

Get your woman a pedicure and some Dr. Tischners for mouthwash, thank me later, lol