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re: Modern women have really lost their minds with financial dating standards

Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:38 pm to
Posted by Powerman
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:38 pm to
Dude the only women that are saying this shite are the ones that are poor AF themselves. A career woman isn't looking for a sugar daddy. They'd probably prefer you be on their level but they aren't expecting 300k a year.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:40 pm to
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I love artsy fiery tomboys who let the intrusive thoughts win.
are you married?
Posted by faraway
Member since Nov 2022
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:42 pm to
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even after kids when hormones are out of whack and you gain ten pounds when you LOOK at a cookie
perfect example of lies women tell themselves to excuse being fat.

the laws of energy are the same with or without kids and without or without hormones. hormones do not create energy nor store it.
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:44 pm to
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even after kids when hormones are out of whack and you gain ten pounds when you LOOK at a cookie

Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:45 pm to
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Modern women have really lost their minds with financial dating standards


This is a multi-faceted issue, but the root cause is an increase in materialism, jealousy, and coveting what your neighbor has.

Its the result of bad parenting, lack of moral fiber, and everyone telling every child that they can be whatever they want to be and do whatever they want to do with no consequences.

You don't roll out of bed and get handed a $500,000 per year job and a million dollar house, unless you're the Kardashians.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:45 pm to
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the only women that are saying this shite are the ones that are poor AF themselves. A career woman isn't looking for a sugar daddy. They'd probably prefer you be on their level
This. Intelligent young women are not trying to just get an Mrs. degree and be dependent on a man for everything.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70503 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:46 pm to
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are you married?


Not anymore. Why?

quote:

No doubt the sex is awesome, but sleeping with one eye open can be tough...


I grew up with older brothers who bullied the crap outta me. I have always slept with one eye open.
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 1:48 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:46 pm to
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perfect example of lies women tell themselves to excuse being fat. the laws of energy are the same with or without kids and without or without hormones. hormones do not create energy nor store it.
so many doctors on the OT - metabolism is controlled by hormones
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 1:48 pm
Posted by Dizz
Member since May 2008
16147 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:47 pm to
The only women I see saying this are getting interviewed on South Beach or some trash nightlife area. Those videos get circulated and suddenly all women want what they were talking about.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:48 pm to
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Dire Wolf
is that what you think I look like?
I’m a brunette
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
4154 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:48 pm to
Most guys that achieve mid to high six figure incomes do it with a good woman already with them.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70503 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:49 pm to
So he was half right?
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 1:51 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:50 pm to
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Not anymore. Why?
just curious
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64367 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:51 pm to
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This is a multi-faceted issue, but the root cause is an increase in materialism, jealousy, and coveting what your neighbor has.

Its the result of bad parenting, lack of moral fiber, and everyone telling every child that they can be whatever they want to be and do whatever they want to do with no consequences.

You don't roll out of bed and get handed a $500,000 per year job and a million dollar house, unless you're the Kardashians.


This is largely a product of how people tend to grow up now and how people manage themselves in college.


Everyone wants a ready made life with a house, nice cars, vacations, etc. Without any grind.

Used to be a good woman was a part of your journey up the income/career ladder, but now you go up the ladder and the purchase the most expensive woman like a prostitute.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70503 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 1:59 pm to
This is a gross oversimplification, but: we met in college and dated for 5 years before getting married, we were having problems while I was still in law school, she started drinking a lot but kept it secret, I tried to suggest counseling or therapy which she refused, she recommended I get tested for fertility issues which I resisted before eventually relenting, turned out she was right and I had inherited a genetic defect from my father that made getting her pregnant the old fashioned way incredibly unlikely, she tried to stab me among various other instances of extreme physical abuse bordering on attempted murder, she cheated on me, and then she divorced me (she got the house and the dogs) so she could marry the guy she was cheating with, they’re still happily married with a kid, and I had to reboot my life from scratch, which I was just starting to do prior to Covid. Been kinda bouncing around random relationships ever since. Kinda hard to do serious relationships when I know it probably won’t lead to kids, and I don’t want to be a stepdad (tried it, hated it).
This post was edited on 1/5/24 at 2:04 pm
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
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Posted on 1/5/24 at 2:01 pm to
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This. Intelligent young women are not trying to just get an Mrs. degree and be dependent on a man for everything.


I think most of these bitter guys are either too shy to get a date or have dated mostly Hooters girls.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60646 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 2:11 pm to
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Kinda hard to do serious relationships when I know it probably won’t lead to kids, and I don’t want to be a stepdad (tried it, hated it).
I’m sorry that all happened - my sis & bro-in-law can’t have kids - they’re still together don’t give up - not every woman is like what’s posted in this thread
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86171 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 2:22 pm to
Am I mistaken or has the OT become increasingly pessimistic about the reality of modern American women/ dating ? We never had these threads 10 years ago. Or even more recently than that.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70503 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 2:26 pm to
I think part of it is the age of the OT has increased significantly over the last 10 years, and part of it is that dating culture has gotten noticeably worse, and not just a little bit worse.

10 years ago, it seemed like the majority of the OT were dudes in their early 30’s who were recently married or just started having kids.

Now, the majority seem to be guys in their late 40’s/early 50’s who are either married with teenage children or divorced.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
196572 posts
Posted on 1/5/24 at 2:27 pm to
we're old and bitter


plus Paige has stopped dating every guy on here,, that and menopause for the LLotOT
that makes a fetid stew of desperation and arrogance
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