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Millennial Dads spend 3x more time with their kids

Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:37 am
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
25881 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:37 am
Compared to previous generations.Disclaimer: fully stolen from Reddit but worth sharing.

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Back in 1982, a whopping 43% of fathers admitted they'd never changed a diaper. Today, that number is down to about 3%, and that's great, because research indicates that when dads dress, diaper and bathe their babies, the father-child relationship grows stronger as the child grows.


I don’t claim full millennial status (mid 80s), but more fathers being involved with their kids is never a bad thing
This post was edited on 1/4/20 at 11:38 am
Posted by TheeRealCarolina
Member since Aug 2018
17925 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:39 am to
Lol
Posted by HigherLogic
Member since Jan 2020
22 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:39 am to
They spend 3x more time dressing up their sons.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:39 am to
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but more fathers being involved with their kids is never a bad thing


If you say so

Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:39 am to
They’re going shopping for dresses together.
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
11541 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:42 am to
That’s because our wives are lazier than the previous generations.
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
25881 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:44 am to
I don’t see what’s funny
Posted by rowbear1922
Lake Chuck, LA
Member since Oct 2008
15165 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:44 am to
No wonder kids are all a wreck now. None of them have had to try and work for dad's affection anymore.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75152 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:45 am to
Mid 80’s is definitely full millennial status. 1980-1982 is more gen x.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75152 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:47 am to
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That’s because our wives are lazier than the previous generations.



Most wives are also working their butts off trying to stay relevant in a world where 2 incomes are the norm and not the exception.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
53730 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:47 am to
That’s because you’re not working. Get a fricking job!
















And a haircut.
Posted by TulaneUVA
Member since Jun 2005
25881 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:48 am to
I just disagree with the Year bands of millennials. Wikipedia says 1981-1996. That’s a humongous band with a lot of differences. I didn’t have a cell phone in HS and was using Napster in college. A little different than someone born in 1996.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:49 am to
I spend more time with my kids more than my dad did with me, but I went on 4x the vacations with my dad than I go on with my kids. Once a month we went somewhere.

But I am home helping with homework. My dad many times wasn't able to do that.

This post was edited on 1/4/20 at 11:50 am
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
11541 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:49 am to
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a haircut


I know of a place.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:53 am to
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when dads dress, diaper and bathe their babies, the father-child relationship grows stronger as the child grows.


No child remembers being bathed and diapered. It's far more important the time you spend with them between 5-10 where you play together and teach them how to do things like build stuff, make things, read, write, play sports, etc.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:53 am to
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Most wives are also working their butts off trying to stay relevant in a world where 2 incomes are the norm and not the exception.
wonder what started this
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
11143 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:55 am to
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Most wives are also working their butts off trying to stay relevant in a world where 2 incomes are the norm and not the exception.


This.

If the wife or husband doesn’t work, they should handle the majority of the parenting related work because that is their de facto job.

If my wife is working the same hours I am I have to adjust my effort to reflect that.

Instead of the average number of worked for a nuclear family being 40/week its now 80 and the resulting increase in income is largely negated by the price of child care and inflation that has ensued in the housing and car markets as more money chases the same assets.

This is the logical outcome of feminism.
Posted by Big Jim Slade
Member since Oct 2016
4917 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 11:58 am to
Seeing some of these pansy dads, the next generation will be even worse for it.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75152 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 12:00 pm to
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quote:
Most wives are also working their butts off trying to stay relevant in a world where 2 incomes are the norm and not the exception.
wonder what started this



Who cares what started this? It’s the reality of the world that we live in.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48371 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 12:00 pm to
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Most wives are also working their butts off trying to stay relevant in a world where 2 incomes are the norm and not the exception.

I think that's more where these numbers are coming from. My dad had 3 kids and has never changed a diaper. Single income families were pretty much the norm when I was growing up though.
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