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re: Millennial Dads spend 3x more time with their kids

Posted on 1/4/20 at 2:42 pm to
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 2:42 pm to
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The majority of dads back then didn’t even give a frick enough to go in the delivery room


I mean that's definitely true. I actively positioned/pulled/moved her during both deliveries, cleaned up her shite when she was pushing etc.

I felt like it was my duty, she's doing that, I need to be actively involved. Of course we did a home based setting with midwives, but I can't fathom not being there intimately involved in the first time your child opens their eyes.

Heell, each time they both came out, they told me to take my shirt off and hold them close while they worked on mama. Each time I was the first warmth and affection they felt outside of the whomb.
This post was edited on 1/4/20 at 2:44 pm
Posted by Peepdip
Member since Aug 2016
4946 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 3:08 pm to
So parents are able to support their family by working part time jobs at Starbucks? Wow I didn't know that. Guess I've been busting my arse for no reason
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30303 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 3:20 pm to
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I don’t claim full millennial status (mid 80s), but more fathers being involved with their kids is never a bad thing


Another Millenial who doesn't ralize he is a millenial.

The Silent Generation: Born 1928-1945
Baby Boomers: Born 1946-1964
Generation X: Born 1965-1980
Millennials: Born 1981-1996
Post-Millennials: Born 1997-Present
Posted by Esquire
Chiraq
Member since Apr 2014
11614 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 3:56 pm to
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I just disagree with the Year bands of millennials. Wikipedia says 1981-1996. That’s a humongous band with a lot of differences. I didn’t have a cell phone in HS and was using Napster in college. A little different than someone born in 1996.


That fact that it bothers you so much to be labeled a millennial is just confirmation that you are one.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48544 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 4:00 pm to
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That fact that it bothers you so much to be labeled a millennial is just confirmation that you are one.

I think it's because people born in the early to mid 80s are lumped in with some neck bearded, avocado toast eating, 25 year old hipsters and they see themselves as nothing like them. It's also become kind of a negative description for all young people, even though many of them aren't millennials.
This post was edited on 1/4/20 at 4:04 pm
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75210 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 4:08 pm to
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Generation X: Born 1965-1980


I don’t think anyone born in 1980 has a lot in common with someone born in 1965. Heck, I would even go as high as 1973 as far as a lack of things in common.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
35319 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 4:48 pm to
Trying to say you're not a real millennial because you were born in the mid 80s is the most stereotypical millennial thing you can do
Posted by Matt225
St. George
Member since Dec 2019
856 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:16 pm to
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But we aren't chasing the same assets. "Our" grandparents raised 5 kids in a 1200sq ft house, ate home cooked fresh foods, shared a car, and the kids played in the street.

Now we have "luxury" vehicles with leather interiors, 2500sq ft houses for families with 1 or 2 kids, constant costly sports/extra curriculars, and kids with expensive phones.


This right here is biggest thing I see different.
I born in 68'. Seeing how my grandparents and parents grown up with 2x as many kids in 1/2 size home with a full time parent. Now its all about stuff vs family.

The dads now spend more time with kids because they all live off the grandparents.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:24 pm to
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more fathers being involved with their kids is never a bad thing


Doing manly things like fishing, hunting, coaching travel ball, absolutely. All that vulnerability, in touch with your feelings shite, hell to the no.
This post was edited on 1/4/20 at 5:27 pm
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
78644 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:39 pm to
I think this changed with Gen X and has gone to maximum attentiveness with Millennials. The next generation of course, the fathers will basically be mothers and the mothers will be busy with their boyfriends. Jk - no need to rage.
Posted by yatesdog38
in your head rent free
Member since Sep 2013
12737 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:49 pm to
"Millennials are stealing my grand kids"

-Boomers
Posted by Elleshoe
Wade’s World
Member since Jun 2004
143616 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:50 pm to
Baristas have more time off than laborers and businessmen
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30303 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 5:52 pm to
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I don’t think anyone born in 1980 has a lot in common with someone born in 1965
I was born in 1962, how much do you think I have in common with someone born in 1946?

That's not really the driver for generation timeline, I guess?
Posted by Peepdip
Member since Aug 2016
4946 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 6:00 pm to
Oh you mean they don't want to be lumped in to a stereotype that barely even exists? Yeah me either.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48544 posts
Posted on 1/4/20 at 6:06 pm to
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Oh you mean they don't want to be lumped in to a stereotype that barely even exists? Yeah me either.

There is some truth in almost all stereotypes.
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