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re: Married people - snapchat?

Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:37 am to
Posted by Earnest_P
Member since Aug 2021
5095 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:37 am to
quote:

That the SOLE purpose is for the disappearing messages


I read this as the “disappearing marriages”, and it didn’t sound wrong in my head.
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
327 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:50 am to
Regarding question 3. She is not friended with our son on any of the accounts.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:50 am to
1) Fiance has it, sends snaps to her friends/family
2) See above, I don't have one installed anymore
3) No kids yet, kids will probably have dumb phones until Junior Year of HS
4) Are they running a business, charity, or side hustle? Did they have multiple accounts before the relationship started? Are they using one just to view company snaps (I have both an extra FB and extra Instagram purely for breweries/hobbies)?
5) I would probably ask some questions, because it's a bit shady, but my fiance and I have open lines of communication and I trust her.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98753 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:53 am to
Yeah your wife is using it to cheat on you. That’s not the apps fault, just how she got caught.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
58505 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:57 am to
1. I used to, my husband has never had Snapchat.
2. I used to take pics/videos of my kids with the filters and send it to my brother.
3. Kids don’t have it, never had it. I don’t have it anymore.
4. No
5. That would be funny because he’s not very tech savvy. But by some chance he did succeed in having multiple accounts - I’d want to know why.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
40583 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 8:59 am to
I must be a nerd.

I use the map feature a few times a year.

1) to look at places I may visit in vacation. I've picked up some cool things to do that way.

2) when something crazy goes down, like when the Ukraine war started, it was interesting to see people post what was going on.

Unfortunately there's also like 80% people driving in their cars
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
36406 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:07 am to
I have it because for some reason my cousin and his 50 year old gf will ONLY message on there. Even if you send them a text, they’ll reply on Snapchat. She’s weird af tho.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 9:08 am
Posted by Brian Wilson
Member since Mar 2012
2364 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:08 am to
quote:

Highway_Man


My guy, I feel your pain. I experienced something similar in the past. I also have a buddy in the same boat.

Multiple accounts is a big flag and the lying by omission around it is the biggest flag of all.
Posted by JimTiger72
Member since Jun 2023
16228 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:22 am to
Congrats on the divorce
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14726 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:24 am to
I have it but rarely ever use it

I either call/text or for video, Marco Polo, with the wife and children
Posted by Highway_Man
Member since May 2014
327 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:49 am to
Thanks everyone for the replies.

She's making me feel like I'm crazy/controlling etc. which is clearly gaslighting and I know it, but it does a number on you and makes you second guess reality. The support is greatly appreciated here.
This post was edited on 10/30/24 at 9:50 am
Posted by JimTiger72
Member since Jun 2023
16228 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:53 am to
Your instincts are usually correct in these situations
Posted by Gifman
Member since Jan 2021
17415 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:57 am to
Wife's friend was asking if her husband using Snapchat was weird. I immediately told her people use it for cheating most of the time if they're married. Two years later... they're in divorce proceedings. The dude was hiring underage hookers for sex
Posted by CP3LSU25
Louisiana
Member since Feb 2009
52570 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 9:58 am to
quote:

HoustonChick86



how else are you gonna send us nudes ?
Posted by Hayekian serf
GA
Member since Dec 2020
4021 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 10:01 am to
No to all of those
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91467 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 10:01 am to
quote:

Snapchat is the only way my kids reply to me

Also sending dick pics to my wife while she’s working
lets hope you dont mix up the 2
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59166 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 11:25 am to
quote:

It definitely has a purpose in the 'dating' world.

What's that? Because if a grown man asks me for my snapchat I'm going to lol hard because that is a huge red flag.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2432 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 11:36 am to
I hope she’s not a teacher.
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
32434 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 11:44 am to
quote:

She's making me feel like I'm crazy/controlling etc.


I've seen this movie before. She's trying to make you feel guilty to justify her own actions.
Posted by TheRouxGuru
Member since Nov 2019
13526 posts
Posted on 10/30/24 at 11:45 am to
There is absolutely ZERO reason for married people and/or kids or teens to have snapchat


You’re basically helping them hide shite from you
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