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re: married men with female friends- possible??
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:17 pm to Epic Cajun
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:17 pm to Epic Cajun
If she didn’t live hours away, would you hang with her just you and her?
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:18 pm to Epic Cajun
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I've never been attracted to her
I think this is the only way for man and woman to be just friends.
There cannot be any physical attraction between the two at all .
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:19 pm to Darth_Vader
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Well, we are still in our honeymoon phase. But you’re only off by 27 years.
Next year is 27 for me. Now I know you’re lying!! LOL
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:19 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:19 pm to Oates Mustache
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Consisting of what? Trips to the scrip club or just a day or two hiking, golfing, etc?
Hiking, sports events, concerts, bars, etc... It's been over 10 years since I've been to a strip club and I don't have a desire for that.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:19 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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You’re way is right. Anyone that disagrees with you is a dumbass and a fig.
This thread can be over now
let me save you some time....if you have female friends that you hang out with..just the two of you or that you talk on the phone with all the time or text all the time to shoot the shite
you are either gay or you are trying to frick on some level
i mean pretty much everyone on this board and the H&F board knows you are a little 150lbs dumb frick......your repuation proceeds you.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:20 pm to Epic Cajun
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have a friend who is female that I've been friends with for 17 years (longer than I've known my wife).
This^^^
I’ve been married for 20 years and have a couple of life long female friends whom I didn’t stop being friends with because of my marriage.
We’re all married now, speak/text monthly and have dinner with our families when they are in town.
Seems to be an insecurity thing on this board.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:21 pm to JiminyCricket
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If she didn’t live hours away, would you hang with her just you and her?
Nah probably not, we mostly did that when we worked together, or were in school.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:21 pm to Epic Cajun
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bars
this is the part that gets you in trouble on the guys trips
look at how many times this ends up being a problem. How many times have you heard about such and such cheated on their trip...it happens all the time.
why the hell as a married men would you even want to go to a bar for 1 and 2 why would you put yourself in that position?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:21 pm to Epic Cajun
Sounds like your current relationship with this girl isn't really what this thread is about 
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to lsu777
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anything but...im one of the most normal guys on here. been married for 15 years, 3 kids, great job, great stable normal family, go to church every sunday, workout and fish and spend time with the family.
I 1000% do not believe for a second you are not a divorced female.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to LNCHBOX
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Sounds like your current relationship with this girl isn't really what this thread is about
One of the things in this thread he asked was about talking on the phone with them, I probably talk to her once a month on the phone. That's what I think is a bit absurd. We're still "friends" for sure.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to cyarrr
quote:
This^^^
I’ve been married for 20 years and have a couple of life long female friends whom I didn’t stop being friends with because of my marriage.
We’re all married now, speak/text monthly and have dinner with our families when they are in town.
Seems to be an insecurity thing on this board.
we were not talking about that
we were talking about married men having female friends that they hang out with just the two of them....text and talk with all the time etc
old friends from HS or college that you hang out with as families...thats fine
this all started cause ole boy didnt think he was in the wrong for messaging an EX and being friends with her and leaving his wife every time she brought it up
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to cyarrr
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I’ve been married for 20 years and have a couple of life long female friends whom I didn’t stop being friends with because of my marriage.
We’re all married now, speak/text monthly and have dinner with our families when they are in town.
Seems to be an insecurity thing on this board.
That's probably the difference here though. I'm willing to bet you're not hanging out with them individually, without spouses/partners.
I also have male friends but we all hang out together with SOs. We're not hanging out individually like we did before we were in longer term relationships.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to cyarrr
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We’re all married now, speak/text monthly and have dinner with our families when they are in town.
Family dinners are fine. Do you have dinner with just the two of you? Do you spend evenings with her at a hotel room on a "friend's trip"?
Do those conversations ever discuss love, sex, marital issues?
I know you guys are smarter than this, at least I hope so.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:24 pm to lsu777
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why the hell as a married men would you even want to go to a bar for 1 and 2 why would you put yourself in that position?
Typically I'm not talking about staying out to 2 or 3 am at a "club", I'm more referring to grabbing a few beers and watching some football, or going to a brewery.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:24 pm to Epic Cajun
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I probably talk to her once a month on the phone.
That's a little sus if it's purely social and not work related.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:24 pm to cyarrr
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We’re all married now, speak/text monthly and have dinner with our families when they are in town.
There's a chasm of difference between going on double dates with your wife there and carrying on a friendship and going out to dinner with just a female friend, no wife in attendance.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:26 pm
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:25 pm to DevilDagNS
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I 1000% do not believe for a second you are not a divorced female.
well i got a cock and balls, 3 awesome kids and an amazing wife that says otherwise
i just think the shite is weird AF
like wtf you wanting to hang out with or talk with a female about? what in the hell could you have in common
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:25 pm to lsu777
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this all started cause ole boy didnt think he was in the wrong for messaging an EX and being friends with her and leaving his wife every time she brought it up
IMO this is completely different than having a platonic female friend.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:25 pm to lsu777
I have women friends I share an athletic hobby with. We text a bit, talk about every other day at work. Wife knows and doesn't care. I know you said no co-workers but I meet with them outside of work too.
quote:Tell me you're simple without telling me you're simple.
If you have that…you are gay or trying to smash…period
quote:Good lord.
like wtf you wanting to hang out with or talk with a female about? what in the hell could you have in common
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 1:27 pm
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