re: Majority of single women are having trouble finding a partner who fits their standard

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I think the confusion for the women is the attention they get by men who just want sex vs the lack of attention they get from men who are top 20% who want to be in a relationship with them.

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Y’all, it’s been like this for women since at least the 90’s. This isn’t new. It’s always been the case that an average looking young woman could find attractive guys to sleep with her. That’s why women used to date guys for a while before sleeping with them. If the guy just wants sex, he will give up and leave. It’s how you protect yourself emotionally and keep yourself from being strung along. It was so common back then that the guys knew we did it and played the game if they wanted a relationship and not just sex. I have a hard time believing young women today aren’t bright enough to figure this out.

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Social media has inflated women’s’ standards so fricking high that they have ballooned into the unreasonable.

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Additionally, modern feminism (and, frankly, our education system) has taught girls and young women to hate men and that they don't need men for anything and here we are.

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Maybe but doing the average guy is a fate worse than death for them

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If young women today are even remotely similar to young women 25 years ago (I imagine they are), then you need to understand that they usually want more than just sex. An average looking young woman will turn down sex with a hot guy for a relationship with an okay looking dude who seems to have his shite together. You might not believe that, but they will. Of course, the okay looking dude needs to actually have his shite together and needs to be willing to date an average looking girl and not a smoke show.
Y’all need to get off the damn dating apps. And get a dog. That’s how I met my husband, and he took such great care of it that I saw a good future father.

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Do better, men.

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Well, they’re not men…they’re soyboys.

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simping for below average chicks with cellulite asses, and telling them they are hot just to get their little peen wet.

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Sounds like your average southern married couple in their late 40s.

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Haha. I see 40 year olds who want a 6ft dude with perfect hair and still want children. Or still figuring out their dating goals. Those dudes are gone, they ain’t looking for you.

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Agree. I am 40, 6 ft, have perfect hair and I don’t want kids

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An average looking young woman will turn down sex with a hot guy for a relationship with an okay looking dude who seems to have his shite together. You might not believe that, but they will.

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Society has made it harder for young men, especially from non rich backgrounds to have it together until later in life.

The 1950s through 1980s allowed men at 18 to 22 to be an earner.
The trades still allow that, but anything requiring a college education delays that.

Many men who will have their shite together by 30 are at 20 broke, carless, and living with parents.

Sure an ugly guy who has a beard, wears sharp suits and is a medical doctor is an attractive individual, but if he got there from nothing then he was even more impressive as a poor student, but someone would have needed to see the potential.

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Of course, the okay looking dude needs to actually have his shite together and needs to be willing to date an average looking girl and not a smoke show.

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Agreed, men need to look beyond porn and Instagram. The difference between an average looking girl and a "smokeshow" is heavily clothes and makeup/filters.

By 40, a smokeshow that drinks heavily will be a much worse looking partner than an "average" woman who has her priorities in order.

Same with a gym rat bro.
Muscle tries to turn to fat eventually.
The amount of effort it takes after 40 is crazy compared to at 25.

So many people wake up at 40 to realize the temporary things they prioritized at 30 have all fallen off the rails.

What women want:

Big wealth, or big income
Big Wang
Washboard Abs

Today’s women do not let men perform their role in a relationship. Men are hunters and gathers. We want to provide and protect. We want to make them feel secure. Like someone else mentioned, men want to be the hero for her. We need to have a purpose. The minute a woman starts to tout her independence, i don’t need no man, I’m good on my own;….run as far away from her as you can. We are leaders of the family, and society today does not want us to act like it. We need to be a leader, ask God for vision and guidance for our family. Be stearn when we feel things are right. Be fair. Men are not perfect, but who is. I want a woman to stand up and say, That’s my man, he’s a good man, and a God fearing man.

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Today’s women do not let men perform their role in a relationship. Men are hunters and gathers. We want to provide and protect. We want to make them feel secure. Like someone else mentioned, men want to be the hero for her. We need to have a purpose. The minute a woman starts to tout her independence, i don’t need no man, I’m good on my own;….run as far away from her as you can. We are leaders of the family, and society today does not want us to act like it. We need to be a leader, ask God for vision and guidance for our family. Be stearn when we feel things are right. Be fair. Men are not perfect, but who is. I want a woman to stand up and say, That’s my man, he’s a good man, and a God fearing man.

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Women can talk, just make sure you are called upon before giving your input.


Look around, you built none of this. None.