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re: Lost it on some kids a restaurant last night and I feel terrible about it this AM

Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:15 pm to
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
31726 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:15 pm to
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If those kids feared their elders, they wouldn’t have been acting like that in a public place. I can imagine your technique going something like this:

You: Hey, hey, kids. How about lowering your voices and going back to your seats with your parents.

Kid: Hey, hey, pops. How about frick you.


It’s almost like you ignored the part where I then said I would go address the parents...
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:16 pm to
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At this point I’d probably had about 5 beers and I just lost it. Screaming at these kids to have some respect for other people at the restaurant and to go sit with their parents.


Everyone deserves that "drunk dad" experience. Happy Father's Day.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:51 pm to
I will read through these 15 pages later, but you may have taken a different approach. Talk to the restaurant manager next time or yep, talk to the parents. Kids are kids.
Posted by tketaco
Sunnyside, Houston
Member since Jan 2010
21505 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:55 pm to
Don’t touch kids pervert
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
175895 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 6:56 pm to
It's too bad the 8 year old didn't tell you to piss off like the kids in Talladega Nights.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
106261 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:00 pm to
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If I was their parents, you would’ve caught hell from me. I understand where you’re coming from, but those kids aren’t yours and you have 0 right to be a dick. Especially since they were so young. Yes the parents should’ve handled it, but if it bothers you that much, just finish your drink and go somewhere else...


frick. That. bullshite.

If you want somewhere to be your kid’s playpen, take them to a park. Or a playground.

Good majority of the problem with kids today is this entitled attitude you’re exhibiting that someone else shouldn’t say shite to your kids acting out of line. If you don’t want someone else addressing your kid’s shitty behavior, do better.
This post was edited on 6/15/19 at 7:01 pm
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:04 pm to
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Should’ve yelled at the fricking parents for letting their kids act a fool.


Address it with the parents politely.

Then lose it on the kids.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
62580 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:15 pm to
5 beers at a restaurant?

Alcoholic
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120284 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:41 pm to
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Woke up on the coach this morning feeling terrible about the whole thing. OT.


Why?

Sounds like the parents wanted a night out and didn't want to get a baby-sitter so they just let their kids do whatever.

You don't let your kids bother other people when you take them out in public. That's not protecting them. You never know how someone will react or what to do them harm. If anything, maybe they will think twice about how freely they allow their kids to roam in public.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
194852 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:43 pm to
day shift over at the call enter chris?
Posted by sanora
Member since Feb 2019
1630 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:46 pm to
kids suck but you really gotta lighten up dude
Posted by GeauxldMember
Member since Nov 2003
5501 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:57 pm to
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Went out to dinner last night with the wife


quote:

My wife was supper embarrassed


Checks out.
Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
53794 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 7:59 pm to
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Anecdotal story of my own. Packed Movie theater roughly 5 years ago. Two kids ages 11 and 9 probably with their parents sitting in front of me and my family. Kids are being loud, throwing popcorn and disrupting the entire area. I tap the dad on the shoulder and ask him if he could please tell his kids to be quiet. He gives me the new age response of they’re just kids having fun. I said well your kids fun is disrupting my family’s ability to watch the movie. He then proceeds to give me a childish psssshh and eye role. I said your decision buddy I hope you enjoyed wasting $50 bucks. I get management and had them thrown out. Other people in the area backed up my claim. I then tell my kids actions have consequences regardless of your age.



If you were OP, you would have kicked those kids asses
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120284 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 8:00 pm to
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day shift over at the call enter chris?



Are you still hard from seeing that I posted?
Posted by The Shed
Member since Mar 2019
816 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 8:40 pm to
You yell at my kids, I whip your arse. Pretty simple. If you have a problem with them, come to me and we'll settle it like adults.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60729 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 8:50 pm to
As the parent of a 7 and a 10 year old I understand your position. But going nuts was a touch overboard


We do not go out to eat w large groups of kids because I can’t handle the stress of all the little dudes that don’t behave. I am a Nazi to my kids in hope some of them will notice and rein in their little hellyuns
This post was edited on 6/15/19 at 8:55 pm
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60729 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 8:51 pm to
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Pretty simple. If you have a problem with them, come to me and we'll settle it like adults.
if you were an adult the kids wouldn’t be disturbing everyone else.
Posted by Ralph_Wiggum
Sugarland
Member since Jul 2005
11029 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 8:52 pm to
Yelling at kids for acting like this at Chili's is unwarranted.
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20543 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 9:20 pm to
I understand your frustration. Just wait till you have kids of your own. You only think you lost it last night.

But yelling is out of line. I don't give a frick who you are or what the situation is, when you yell at anybody from a kid to an elder, your communication is lost. Why? Because nobody likes being yelled at.

Contrary to popular belief, raising the volume and intensity does not drive the point that much further. I don't know what you define as "yelling", but if your definition is in line with mine, that's uncalled for.

And frick anybody who says they would yell at the parents. They must really want to scrap like teenagers. Because if any stranger started yelling at me, you're not going to get the response you wanted (at the very least). If anything, I'd go out of my way to make sure you were miserable and wanted to leave. Because yelling at a stranger in public is an incredibly dick thing to do. And you're about to piss somebody off and/or possibly start a fist fight, rather than being firm on your position.
Posted by OnTheGeaux
Har Tavor
Member since Oct 2009
3067 posts
Posted on 6/15/19 at 11:10 pm to
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When I was a kid, my mom would say, "See that guy over there. I'm going to let him whip your arse if you don't shut the frick up."


Immediately reminded me of my paternal grandmother... mean as a Cottonmouth with a rolled smoke in one hand and a willow branch switch in the other.
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