re: Let's talk about crushes

Jodie Sweeten sorry no pics

I had a crush on my first cousin when I was 5.

I also grew up in a poor part of southern Ohio.

So wanting to hump your 7 year old cousin was not uncommon.

I wish someone had warned me about that at age 15

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I'd sat next to her for a year before I finally worked up the courage to speak to her.

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This thread made me realize my crushes look alike

I kinda have a child-like crush on my wife.
She’s 48 and I’m 52.

First crush was a middle school frievds older sister. She was a check out girl at a local supermarket. Dark complexion, long dark hair, petite with a rocking body. Think I was 11 or 12 and she was the first girl I starting ‘ noticing’ when you get that age. She must’ve been 5-6 years older than me.

Strangely enough ran into her at a conference 15 years ago and got that booty. 12 year old me would be proud.

Blond haired girl in 2nd grade, didn't see her again for another 12 years. We started dating then and long story short we've been married 31 years now.

Went to a private elementary school in the 80's, and "Betty" was funny, cute, and feisty. We ended up at different middle schools and lost contact.

Fast forward to high school, and I'm over at my girlfriend's house, and Betty comes walking in! Turns out she lived across the street, and they were friends. Over the next few months, my gf would occasionally tell me stories about what a freak Betty was, and things she did with her boyfriend.

Fast forward again 30 years. Betty and I started communicating on social media, and eventually had a FUN few months - turns out my ex wasn't lying about how freaky and insatiable she is!

Epilogue: Betty confessed that her and my ex would sometimes hook up in middle and high school.

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They say a little piece of your heart is lost forever to every person you love or have a crush on

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I believe this. Im very emotionless these days compared to my younger years. I just don’t get all worked up over a woman like I used to.