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re: Ladies of the OT: How Many of You Have Been Sexually HARASSED? And,

Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:39 pm to
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30531 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:39 pm to
What about us Baws who work in an office full of horny women, I had one stick her hand down my pants and feel my dong once.

Also had one blatantly ask me if I would F her, I obliged and did but what if I hadn't wanted to ?

This shite is out of control
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:40 pm to
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I'm not exactly in tears after sharing that with all of you

I had a 44 year old woman that used to flirt with me all of the time at my first job out of college. I was maybe 23 and may or may not have banged her 2 or 8 times. Dammit #MeToo
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:47 pm to
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Which should be basic common sense



Well, numerous surveys have shown that women and men have different views on what constitutes sexual harassment. Of course, everyone should know that telling a woman she has nice tits is sexual harassment. But what about telling her she looks great in a dress? Or that she looks beautiful? How about a crude joke?

I don't think asking those questions make a person stupid or lacking in common sense. Regardless, you acted like the guy was a fricking pervert, which IMHO, was probably a little much.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 6:50 pm
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:52 pm to
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Regardless, you acted like the guy was a fricking pervert, which IMHO, was probably a little much.




He could just ask what exactly is sexual harrassment. Instead he wants to know if the female posters on here have been sexually harrassed.


quote:

But what about telling her she looks great in a dress? Or that she looks beautiful? How about a crude joke?


Try doing one of those three with a female coworker and let me know how quickly HR contacts you.

Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:53 pm to
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Try doing one of those three with a female coworker and let me know how quickly HR contacts you.

Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".


Which is why this shite is completely out of control. I'd absolutely tell a dude that he looks money in a new suit.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:54 pm to
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Which is why this shite is completely out of control. I'd absolutely tell a dude that he looks money in a new suit.


You clearly don't get it.


Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198125 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:55 pm to
quote:

Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".

if she's willing to consider it you can tell a chick nice tits ,my dick would look in between them

and all she'll do is laugh and blush
Posted by drunkenpunkin
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2011
7662 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:57 pm to
Not delving into the deep end of this question, but at work, weekly maybe? In particular there is a man who I see regularly who is some big wig board member and stands behind me while I'm at my computer and rubs my shoulders. If you're looking for behaviors to avoid, I would suggest putting that one on the list.
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
42702 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:57 pm to
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You clearly don't get it. 

Your responses validate OP's question.
Posted by bayouman
Uptown NOLA
Member since Apr 2012
1561 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:58 pm to
This has gotten totally out of control. If you LOOK at a woman wrong you could get popped by her and HR without any proof. Glad I'm retiring at the end of the year.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198125 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:59 pm to
quote:

Not delving into the deep end of this question, but at work, weekly maybe? In particular there is a man who I see regularly who is some big wig board member and stands behind me while I'm at my computer and rubs my shoulders. If you're looking for behaviors to avoid, I would suggest putting that one on the list.



stop leading him on
Posted by bayouman
Uptown NOLA
Member since Apr 2012
1561 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:59 pm to
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You clearly don't get it. Your responses validate OP's question.


Bingo ! totally agree.
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:00 pm to
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You clearly don't get it.

And you're clearly sensitive AF.

quote:

Your responses validate OP's question.

She clearly doesn't get it.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 7:03 pm
Posted by Spock's Eyebrow
Member since May 2012
12300 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:02 pm to
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Like you’ll ever get close enough to a woman to sexually assault her...


I'm content to jerk off to Erin Burnett and her female guests talking about sexual harassment. Surely this is a safe outlet?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:03 pm to
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And you're clearly sensitive AF.


Actually I'm not. I've never complained about someone making inappropriate comments at work. I've had male coworkers complement me and I smiled and said thank you(coworkers I've worked with for several years so I considered them friends).


I just also understand appropriate behavior in the workplace.


Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8375 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:06 pm to
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I just also understand appropriate behavior in the workplace.


The exact example you gave ("You look nice today") is considered to be sexual harassment by some people. I literally just googled it and multiple articles pop up about that EXACT statement being sexual harassment. So, I guess you, me, and the OP are all lacking in common sense?

Regardless, I never wanted this to turn into a back and forth and piss you off. You seem like a very nice person, Nurse.

ETA- And from the photos you've posted, you frequently "look nice today."
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 7:09 pm
Posted by Kujo
225-911-5736
Member since Dec 2015
6044 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:08 pm to
Every guy has sexually assaulted a woman.

-Have you ever smacked your woman's bottom or copped a feel and she said "stop".

Every girl has committed assault.

- Have you ever said something funny and your girl punched you closed fist in the arm?


Rape is rape, sexual assault is sexual assault, assault is assault......no matter if a 200 lb man hits a 100 lb woman in the face or a 100 lb woman hits a 200 lb man in the arm.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:09 pm to
Guess you should know your audience.


Point is...if you don't know how a coworker will respond...best bet is just to keep your mouth shut.

Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76217 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:12 pm to
You look nice today.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61734 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:13 pm to
I was made to feel real uncomfortable by a 60 year old in a Waffle House. She slid in next to me and ran her hand all up in my sausage and eggs. I felt dirtier than normal as I left that restaurant. If she ran for office I would rat her arse out
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