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re: Ladies of the OT: How Many of You Have Been Sexually HARASSED? And,
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:39 pm to FreeState
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:39 pm to FreeState
What about us Baws who work in an office full of horny women, I had one stick her hand down my pants and feel my dong once.
Also had one blatantly ask me if I would F her, I obliged and did but what if I hadn't wanted to ?
This shite is out of control
Also had one blatantly ask me if I would F her, I obliged and did but what if I hadn't wanted to ?
This shite is out of control
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:40 pm to Yat27
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I'm not exactly in tears after sharing that with all of you
I had a 44 year old woman that used to flirt with me all of the time at my first job out of college. I was maybe 23 and may or may not have banged her 2 or 8 times. Dammit #MeToo
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:47 pm to lsunurse
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Which should be basic common sense
Well, numerous surveys have shown that women and men have different views on what constitutes sexual harassment. Of course, everyone should know that telling a woman she has nice tits is sexual harassment. But what about telling her she looks great in a dress? Or that she looks beautiful? How about a crude joke?
I don't think asking those questions make a person stupid or lacking in common sense. Regardless, you acted like the guy was a fricking pervert, which IMHO, was probably a little much.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 6:50 pm
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:52 pm to Yat27
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Regardless, you acted like the guy was a fricking pervert, which IMHO, was probably a little much.
He could just ask what exactly is sexual harrassment. Instead he wants to know if the female posters on here have been sexually harrassed.
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But what about telling her she looks great in a dress? Or that she looks beautiful? How about a crude joke?
Try doing one of those three with a female coworker and let me know how quickly HR contacts you.
Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:53 pm to lsunurse
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Try doing one of those three with a female coworker and let me know how quickly HR contacts you.
Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".
Which is why this shite is completely out of control. I'd absolutely tell a dude that he looks money in a new suit.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:54 pm to Yat27
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Which is why this shite is completely out of control. I'd absolutely tell a dude that he looks money in a new suit.
You clearly don't get it.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:55 pm to lsunurse
quote:if she's willing to consider it you can tell a chick nice tits ,my dick would look in between them
Instead of telling a woman she looks great in a dress or that she looks beautiful...just stick to the very safe "you look nice today".
and all she'll do is laugh and blush
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:57 pm to FreeState
Not delving into the deep end of this question, but at work, weekly maybe? In particular there is a man who I see regularly who is some big wig board member and stands behind me while I'm at my computer and rubs my shoulders. If you're looking for behaviors to avoid, I would suggest putting that one on the list.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:57 pm to lsunurse
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You clearly don't get it.
Your responses validate OP's question.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:58 pm to lsunurse
This has gotten totally out of control. If you LOOK at a woman wrong you could get popped by her and HR without any proof. Glad I'm retiring at the end of the year.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:59 pm to drunkenpunkin
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Not delving into the deep end of this question, but at work, weekly maybe? In particular there is a man who I see regularly who is some big wig board member and stands behind me while I'm at my computer and rubs my shoulders. If you're looking for behaviors to avoid, I would suggest putting that one on the list.
stop leading him on
Posted on 11/29/17 at 6:59 pm to SCLibertarian
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You clearly don't get it. Your responses validate OP's question.
Bingo ! totally agree.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:00 pm to lsunurse
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You clearly don't get it.
And you're clearly sensitive AF.
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Your responses validate OP's question.
She clearly doesn't get it.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 7:03 pm
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:02 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
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Like you’ll ever get close enough to a woman to sexually assault her...
I'm content to jerk off to Erin Burnett and her female guests talking about sexual harassment. Surely this is a safe outlet?
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:03 pm to Yat27
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And you're clearly sensitive AF.
Actually I'm not. I've never complained about someone making inappropriate comments at work. I've had male coworkers complement me and I smiled and said thank you(coworkers I've worked with for several years so I considered them friends).
I just also understand appropriate behavior in the workplace.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:06 pm to lsunurse
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I just also understand appropriate behavior in the workplace.
The exact example you gave ("You look nice today") is considered to be sexual harassment by some people. I literally just googled it and multiple articles pop up about that EXACT statement being sexual harassment. So, I guess you, me, and the OP are all lacking in common sense?
Regardless, I never wanted this to turn into a back and forth and piss you off. You seem like a very nice person, Nurse.
ETA- And from the photos you've posted, you frequently "look nice today."
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 7:09 pm
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:08 pm to FreeState
Every guy has sexually assaulted a woman.
-Have you ever smacked your woman's bottom or copped a feel and she said "stop".
Every girl has committed assault.
- Have you ever said something funny and your girl punched you closed fist in the arm?
Rape is rape, sexual assault is sexual assault, assault is assault......no matter if a 200 lb man hits a 100 lb woman in the face or a 100 lb woman hits a 200 lb man in the arm.
-Have you ever smacked your woman's bottom or copped a feel and she said "stop".
Every girl has committed assault.
- Have you ever said something funny and your girl punched you closed fist in the arm?
Rape is rape, sexual assault is sexual assault, assault is assault......no matter if a 200 lb man hits a 100 lb woman in the face or a 100 lb woman hits a 200 lb man in the arm.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:09 pm to Yat27
Guess you should know your audience.
Point is...if you don't know how a coworker will respond...best bet is just to keep your mouth shut.
Point is...if you don't know how a coworker will respond...best bet is just to keep your mouth shut.
Posted on 11/29/17 at 7:13 pm to FreeState
I was made to feel real uncomfortable by a 60 year old in a Waffle House. She slid in next to me and ran her hand all up in my sausage and eggs. I felt dirtier than normal as I left that restaurant. If she ran for office I would rat her arse out
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