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re: Kissing your child on the lips (hello/goodbye kiss)
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:21 pm to ksayetiger
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:21 pm to ksayetiger
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My sis in law is DATING this guy, and he kisses my 13 year old NIECE (her daughter, not his) on the lips. I wanted to call the cops, but was told its ok. Thats how they do it. They dont do anything sexual. Whoa. They live in portland fwiw
On the surface this is really weird. But how long have they been dating? Is it one of those "we aren't getting married because we don't believe in it" dating? Or have they been dating for a short time?
If he's been a part of this little girl's life like a father figure for years, it maybe isn't terrible. Still strange though, at the very least b
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:21 pm to Pecker
Never had this happen. A mom, sure, but a dad, hell naw. My parents did kiss me, but definitely not on my lips, and i hated every gaddum kiss 
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:23 pm to ksayetiger
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My sis in law is DATING this guy, and he kisses my 13 year old NIECE (her daughter, not his) on the lips.
I wanted to call the cops, but was told its ok. Thats how they do it. They dont do anything sexual. Whoa.
They live in portland fwiw
Thats weird IMO. He doesn't need to kiss her on the lips to show her affection, and its her BF, not the father of her daughter. Thats weird IMO.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:30 pm to tiggerthetooth
If you slip your 12 year old daughter the tongue, it's only sexual if you think it is. Otherwise it's okay.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:34 pm to LSUAfro
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If you slip your 12 year old daughter the tongue, it's only sexual if you think it is. Otherwise it's okay.
Ah, so you can inject some hyperbole into what others post but if someone does it to you your panties get in a wad. Tell me more about you not being insecure.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:35 pm to LSUAfro
Daddy says I'm the best...
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:39 pm to junkfunky
I Figured if that's where you kids were bringing it, why not join in.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:40 pm to LSUAfro
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I Figured if that's where you kids were bringing it, why not join in.
This is the OT, of course it was going there.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:41 pm to SabiDojo
My one year old son kisses me and his mom on the lips. When we ask for a kiss, he'll lean forward, purse his lips and go "mmmmmmmm". Not sure I could say no to that even if I wanted to.
I'm sure he'll stop doing it when he thinks it's not cool, but I'm not going to be the one to suggest it. Too awesome.
Thinking it's weird is definitely a you problem.
I'm sure he'll stop doing it when he thinks it's not cool, but I'm not going to be the one to suggest it. Too awesome.
Thinking it's weird is definitely a you problem.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:42 pm to LSUAfro
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Why don't people greet friends and family members with a kiss on the lips? Because it's considered a sexual act. shite man...
Plenty of people do this and it is not a sexual thing at all. You are coming off as pretty close minded by projecting your perspective on the world at large. You may considered it a sexual act, but that doesn't mean it's actually considered a sexual act by those involved.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:45 pm to elposter
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Plenty of people do this and it is not a sexual thing at all. You are coming off as pretty close minded by projecting your perspective on the world at large. You may considered it a sexual act, but that doesn't mean it's actually considered a sexual act by those involved.
bullshite, every female family friend and relative over 80 wants to have sex with me.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:47 pm to junkfunky
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Ah, so you can inject some hyperbole into what others post but if someone does it to you your panties get in a wad. Tell me more about you not being insecure.
What's inappropriate about kissing your daughter with tongue? I'd like to hear why you find his statement to be hyperbolic.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:49 pm to elposter
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Plenty of people do this and it is not a sexual thing at all.
Well considering I've only seen it a handful of times with kids old enough to understand the difference, I definitely don't think I'd consider it a social norm.
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You are coming off as pretty close minded by projecting your perspective on the world at large
It's like my opinion man.
quote:well no shite. Doesn't mean I can't think it's odd.
. You may considered it a sexual act, but that doesn't mean it's actually considered a sexual act by those involved.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:51 pm to LSUAfro
I thinks it really weird and almost creepy that anyone could think a peck on the lips between a child and a parent as anything other than a sweet sign of affection
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:51 pm to Pecker
I kissed my Father on the lips til the day he died. I was 21.
I still kiss my mother on the lips.
I still kiss my mother on the lips.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:53 pm to Salmon
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I thinks it really weird and almost creepy that anyone could think a peck on the lips between a child and a parent as anything other than a sweet sign of affection
Ok, so why can't the same be true for two affectionate, adult family members?
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:56 pm to Salmon
I just don't see why you felt the need to specify age.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 12:58 pm to Pecker
What a dumb question.
Why is spanking on the behind a punishment, but spanking an adult is sexual?
I didn't grow up with kissy parents, and I don't have any desire to show affection to my parents that way. But I could totally see myself being a kissy mother if I had little kids.
Why is spanking on the behind a punishment, but spanking an adult is sexual?
I didn't grow up with kissy parents, and I don't have any desire to show affection to my parents that way. But I could totally see myself being a kissy mother if I had little kids.
Posted on 8/13/15 at 1:00 pm to Pecker
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I just don't see why you felt the need to specify age.
can you read your own thread?
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