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re: Kissing your child on the lips (hello/goodbye kiss)

Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:20 pm to
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112622 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

there's a reason for that whether y'all want to admit it or not
What's the reason it is odd to kiss you child on the lips in public? Again, you specifically said you don't view it as sexual, so what's the actual reason.
Posted by LSUAfro
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

shel311


You keep missing the point. I"m not discussing this with you anymore .
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112622 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:24 pm to
quote:

You keep missing the point
Your point was that kissing is widepsread considered sexual, but you're not viewing it here as sexual, so yea, I have no clue what your point or opposition is, seems like for good reason.

The only thing I'll concede is that I haven't read the entire thread to see all of your posts, just the last couple of pages. Maybe you summed it up better in the other pages, just not the last 2 for me.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:25 pm
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85366 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:27 pm to
so if all kissing is a sexual act, it would be inappropriate to kiss your wife in public, right?

even just a peck
Posted by LSUAfro
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:32 pm to
If kissing isn't a sexual act why don't grown men ever kiss on the lips? Well except for the one guy above?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85366 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:34 pm to

Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:35 pm to
It shows affection, nothing sexual about it.

Unless I'm sticking my tounge down her throat or biting her lip, ears and neck. Then yes, that's sexual.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112622 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

If kissing isn't a sexual act
If kissing IS a sexual act, then why do you NOT view parents kissing their child on the lips in a sexual way?
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
25555 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:37 pm to
I once saw a male lawyer greet a woman lawyer in court with a lip kiss (before the Judge got on the bench).

I thought it was creepy as hell.

Almost as creepy as a guy who kisses his daughter on the lips, but not his son.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13513 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:37 pm to
I intend to kiss all of you on the lips if we ever meet at an OTGT.
Posted by LSUAfro
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:38 pm to
This has run its course...I'm over it. My point has been made. You fine, albeit odd, folks have made your points as well.
Good job

This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 2:40 pm
Posted by musick
the internet
Member since Dec 2008
26131 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:40 pm to
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That's fine. But you're not normal either


I mean if we start getting into this discussion, no one is normal.

Lips are made to be kissed, that's the norm. The intention behind the kiss is what you are trying to make a standard thing. It isn't. A kiss is left to interpretation. I don't kiss my kids like I do my wife. I don't kiss my wife like I kiss my mom, it's not hard to follow honestly.

Sexual acts require sexual intentions or sexual organs. A simple peck is not sexual.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:41 pm to
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are you really saying that when I get home from work and my 2 year old daughter comes running down the hall screaming "Daddy's home! Daddy's home" and gives me a big hug and a kiss on the lips that its weird?

because if so, then you have some issues man


Seriously. I've been around a lot of little kids and they all start off kissing you on the lips. My 2 year old nephew only kisses on the lips and I wouldn't miss out on a kiss from that bundle of joy for anything. There is nothing untoward about it and anyone who thinks that needs to get their insecurities and heads in check. Kissing on the lips is not strictly sexual.

Some of my friends are lip kissers when I see them. I've never given it a second thought nor felt uncomfortable in any way. It's just their way of greeting and showing affection. Sexual kissing is a whole different thing and universe. It's pretty easy to tell the difference.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112622 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 2:45 pm to
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Some of my friends are lip kissers when I see them
Had a friend in college, his girlfriend was a kiss on the lip person to every guy or girl she saw, every time she saw them. She obviously didn't think it was sexual in any way, but she was wayyyyy hot, so I did.
Posted by laangler21
On the lake.
Member since May 2012
3034 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:21 pm to
I kiss both my kids on the lips, I still kiss my mother on the lips. When we were kids we would kiss dad, but quit at some point.
quote:

his girlfriend was a kiss on the lip person to every guy or girl she saw

Know someone exactly like this, he gave my wife and I a heads up when we first met her, wasn't a big deal to either of us. Different strokes I guess.
Posted by Langston
Member since Nov 2010
7685 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:22 pm to
Did it to my daughter first few years, but stopped when the boys were born bc I'm not doing it to them. She asked me the other day for the first time why I didn't do it anymore (6yr old) and I just told her I like it on the cheek better.

ETA: I think it's what you grew up doing that's normal to you. Weird's me out bc one set of cousins did this and my uncle would do it to all the nieces. That is a little inappropriate from teenage years on.
This post was edited on 8/13/15 at 3:25 pm
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11835 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:24 pm to
My two and five year old try to kiss me on the lips. 9 times out of 10 I don't let them do it. Not because it is creepy but God only knows the germs they carry. Cheek or forehead for me.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16522 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:31 pm to
Lip kissing your kids seems weird as frick, won't do it to my 10 month old daughter.

Glad my parents didn't do it and never had one of those creepy arse aunts or grandmas that do it. Seems like a running joke on TV more than reality to me.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
26511 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:31 pm to
quote:

I kiss my 3 yr old daughter on the lips
I kiss my 1 yr old son on the forehead


Why do you kiss your daughter on the lips but not your son? Seems like a weird distinction to make.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 8/13/15 at 3:32 pm to
quote:

She obviously didn't think it was sexual in any way, but she was wayyyyy hot, so I did.


Wishful thinking.
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