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re: Kids who call their parents by first names

Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:13 pm to
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87750 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:13 pm to
My Gf's 5 year old cousin does it. I love it, I think it's hilarious. Kid knows he's being an a-hole when he does it too, which is why I'm amused by it.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86753 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:14 pm to
My BILs entire family does this. Its weird hearing his 7 year old little brother calling his dad Tom and mom Julie

its not like they are trashy or anything, they all do it...its odd, but whatever
Posted by BuckeyeFan87
Columbus
Member since Dec 2007
25249 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:25 pm to
I did it randomly from time to time as a kid for my mom. Wasn't a big deal as Mom is my go-to name for her even to this day.

I do remember telling a story to my Grandma one day and referred to my father by his first name by accident. As soon as it came out she developed this look on her face that appeared as though she was ready to slap me, but instead politely informed me to never use that name again
I think I was like 21 when that happened.
This post was edited on 7/17/15 at 1:27 pm
Posted by JEAUXBLEAUX
Bayonne, NJ
Member since May 2006
55376 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:25 pm to
Never ever
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
19088 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:25 pm to
Not in my family, but to each its own. I even call some cousins "Aunt" or "Uncle" depending on their age.
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
40159 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:26 pm to
quote:

Modern parenting, and it sucks. Makes the child believe he is on the same level as the parent, like a buddy. Child will generally do whatever he wants as he gets older.

I've noticed a drastic uptick in this problem since around November, 2008. RIP America
Posted by AnonymousTiger
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2012
4863 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:32 pm to
I was going to say that it worked well for Atticus, but he's a racist now so I'm having to rethink things.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
22034 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 1:40 pm to
I hear. Dad and when I don't answer after several tries, they use my first name, Othello....
Posted by Scooba
Member since Jun 2013
20027 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:04 pm to
Ever tried yelling "HEY MOM!" in Disney world... half the park turns around.

I'll only say their first names if we are in a crowd of parents or if they don't respond to mom/dad the first 2 times.
Posted by Jackie Chan
Japan?
Member since Sep 2012
4942 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:10 pm to
I'm 30 and I still say Mom and Dad. The only time I use their first names is when I need to get their attention and they aren't responding.
Posted by Dizz
Member since May 2008
16224 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:13 pm to
I call my dad by his first name because my half sister used to call him by his first name just to be an arse when she was a teenager.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:14 pm to
No names, no nicknames, no "mom" and no "dad". Just sir and ma'am. I don't want them getting too attached in case I need to bounce.

And absolutely no eye contact.
This post was edited on 7/17/15 at 2:15 pm
Posted by wish i was tebow
The Golf Board
Member since Feb 2009
46125 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:22 pm to
quote:

I used to call my moms name when we were at a birthday party or something and 20 women respond to the word mom



This is how I was. if i was at home or something I called my mom mom. but we always played travel sports and stuff where there were 100s of moms around so I called her by her name a lot. She was cool with it.

I still do it sometimes without thinking
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80847 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:28 pm to
My dad punished my brother when he was like 5 yrs old. My brother told him, "you're not my daddy anymore"

He has called my dad by his first name ever since. He is 34 now.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
7092 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:31 pm to
I blame Duck Dynasty.
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 2:58 pm to
I'm in my 40's and have been calling my dad by his first name since I was 3. I have no idea why. I call my mom, mom.
Posted by SuperSoakher
Member since Jun 2012
4585 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 3:34 pm to
Didnt realize everyone was so pissy about this. Who the frick cares
Posted by DawgGONIT
Member since May 2015
2961 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 3:36 pm to
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It doesn't seem disrespectful...just odd. I can't imagine calling my folks by their names.
I agree. Just thinking about it, I don't see why an adult couldn't call their parents by their actual name and not have it be disrespectful. Sure it isn't the norm, but having everyone say "mom" or "dad" isn't very original.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61742 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 3:40 pm to
quote:

No, still my parents and have the utmost respect. Actually do both really, but first name mostly. It just became not that big of a deal after we left home. Very traditional family also, and I am almost 40 so not a modern parenting thing.
is this a riddle.

We are yes sir no sir folks, but I am not sure it makes a difference either way. As long as the kid knows who is the superior.
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
34317 posts
Posted on 7/17/15 at 4:16 pm to
5 across the eye if my son ever calls me by my first name.
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