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It's difficult watching dementia take over a family member.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:19 pm
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:19 pm
We had Christmas with my Mother today. People in attendance are myself, wife, our two kids (14 & 19), my sister, nephew (14), my Grandmother (Dad's mom, Dad is deceased), and my son's girlfriend. I didn't realize how fast my grandmother was going down hill until today. She couldn't remember who's gift was who's. She bought the kids stuff she would have gotten them 7 years ago (I guess that's how she remembers them). After all the gifts are open she goes on this rant about events that never happened involving my Grandfather (deceased) getting hammered with a group of buddies and chasing women in the last years of his life. The man never drank in his life and could barely walk much less chase pussy in the last years of his life. It was depressing as frick and really eye opening how fast it can progress and come and go in the blink of an eye. Just last week I had a conversation with her and she seemed normal as hell. Oh well sorry to talk about downer shite on Christmas Eve. Just wondering if others have dealt with this.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:22 pm to BOSCEAUX
My mother is suffering from dementia. It's difficult to deal with.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:22 pm to BOSCEAUX
We had my grandfather pass away 2 days ago. My grandmother has dementia and she keeps asking where he is. It's incredibly sad and just absolutely sucks at Christmas. I feel your pain.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:23 pm to BOSCEAUX
It gets really bad when they look for long dead parents or friends.
Or the hardest day of my life, they forget what poop is.
It's like dealing with a toddler in reverse.
Or the hardest day of my life, they forget what poop is.
It's like dealing with a toddler in reverse.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:24 pm to BOSCEAUX
Been down this road.
It's hard on everyone. Care takers of dementia sufferers deserve a special place in heaven.
It's hard on everyone. Care takers of dementia sufferers deserve a special place in heaven.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:25 pm to BOSCEAUX
Very sorry to hear, it’s a terrible disease. Just try to be there for her. You can do this by educating yourself as much as possible about the disease, so you know what to expect and how you can help her.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:27 pm to BOSCEAUX
All of us who have experienced this situation in the past offer our prayers and support. I know this is a troubling time and I hope the Spirit of Christmas helps to lighten your burden and ease your heart. God Bless and have a blessed Christmas.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:27 pm to BOSCEAUX
Frank Broyles book for taking care of family members with Alzheimers/dementia
Heard really good things about this book.
Heard really good things about this book.
This post was edited on 12/24/17 at 8:30 pm
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:32 pm to BOSCEAUX
My wife had a head injury 7 years ago in her early 30's. Two brain hemorrhages, 2 day coma, 8 days Neurotrauma ICU. She gets brain scans every two years and her neurologist told us two scans ago she has signs of what will become early onset dementia.
ETA: as a physician 15 years in practice, I can see the dementia doesn't bother the patient very much. It's the family members who suffer.
ETA: as a physician 15 years in practice, I can see the dementia doesn't bother the patient very much. It's the family members who suffer.
This post was edited on 12/24/17 at 8:34 pm
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:34 pm to theenemy
Prayers go out.
It is a mother f’er. It takes unbelievably thick skin as they become an infant again. They don’t mean anything and they cannot help their actions. The absolute worst.
Another good book is the long goodbye by Raymond Chandler.
Good luck.
It is a mother f’er. It takes unbelievably thick skin as they become an infant again. They don’t mean anything and they cannot help their actions. The absolute worst.
Another good book is the long goodbye by Raymond Chandler.
Good luck.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:37 pm to BOSCEAUX
Watched my grandmother die from it a few years ago and the best thing to do is just be thankful they aren't laying in a hospital bed with tubes running everywhere and their mind being perfect.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:37 pm to contraryman
Thanks for the advice and kind words. Merry Christmas one and all.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:39 pm to contraryman
Dealing with this now too. My dad's dementia has progressed insanely rapidly in the last month or so. He comes up with the craziest things. Thinks there are people making tunnels under the house, thinks he's living in a office building, thinks he's got a boxing match and asks where the boxing coach is. Also thinks my mom is cheating on him with all these guys..it's never ending paranoia.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:41 pm to BOSCEAUX
Grandpa died few months ago of this and grandmother is currently in nursing home with it.
Sucks.
Getting old sucks.
Sucks.
Getting old sucks.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:47 pm to BOSCEAUX
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BOSCEAUX
Are you from Bosco?
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:47 pm to BOSCEAUX
Watching someone lose their mind/memory is the worst thing in the world.
I was care taker to my father many moons ago.
I made peace with the fact that the man I knew as my father was only there physically, not mentally. Helped make the progression, and eventual death easier to deal with as shitty as that sounds.
I do not wish that on my worst enemy.
I was care taker to my father many moons ago.
I made peace with the fact that the man I knew as my father was only there physically, not mentally. Helped make the progression, and eventual death easier to deal with as shitty as that sounds.
I do not wish that on my worst enemy.
This post was edited on 12/24/17 at 8:48 pm
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:48 pm to BOSCEAUX
Praying for them. They are healed in the name of Jesus
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:49 pm to bcoop199
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Dealing with this now too. My dad's dementia has progressed insanely rapidly in the last month or so. He comes up with the craziest things. Thinks there are people making tunnels under the house, thinks he's living in a office building, thinks he's got a boxing match and asks where the boxing coach is. Also thinks my mom is cheating on him with all these guys..it's never ending paranoia.
Same here. Everybody is stealing from her. I’m going in her house and taking some of my Grandfather’s old clothes. Things that never existed are missing. I did read that when the paranoia hits they blame family members of taking shite from them. Her preacher talks shite about her behind her back about fricking around. Some of it makes me giggle, some makes me sad, and some makes me angry knowing my maw maw thinks I would steal from her.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:50 pm to offshoreangler
Nah.
Cancer is much worse than mental delapidation.
I've seen both.
Cancer is much worse than mental delapidation.
I've seen both.
Posted on 12/24/17 at 8:51 pm to BOSCEAUX
On a more positive note, I urge all of you to look into drinking Fuji water, which might have the ability to prevent dementia and other similar diseases by reducing aluminum from the brain and body. It's not conclusive but it's well worth the effort.
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