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re: Is this a red flag? ie: dating and dealing with girl's mom
Posted on 3/1/14 at 11:19 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Posted on 3/1/14 at 11:19 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Sounds a lot like my ex, good luck with that
This post was edited on 3/1/14 at 11:23 pm
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Posted on 3/2/14 at 2:33 am to vodkacop
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you the reason her mom checks on her
Again, she's 28. Not 19
Posted on 3/2/14 at 2:40 am to Hulkklogan
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Need pics of gf and her mom to give an appropriate response
Hate me
This post was edited on 5/15/22 at 8:49 pm
Posted on 3/2/14 at 2:55 am to GeeOH
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maybe mom had to be the heavy to the jerk
maybe mom WAS the jerk...
Posted on 3/2/14 at 2:58 am to chalmetteowl
i understand respecting the parents and all, but if a girl's not willing to put YOU first, then don't accept being second...
Posted on 3/2/14 at 3:09 am to mikelbr
Can't imagine whyPosted on 3/2/14 at 3:17 am to boddagetta
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Can't imagine why
Welllll. Yea. I got nothing.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 8:55 am to lsuwontonwrap
Guess who's mom just invited herself to come to parades with us. 
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:08 am to Sho Nuff
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. It is easy however for the daughter to tell her mom she will have her bf sleep over as much as he/she wants.
Everyone saying this is either stupid, skanky, or raised by skanks.
What daughter would tell Hey old fashioned Southern parents "quit coming over to my house to be with me. I'm trying to frick guys and have adult sleepovers"
She should call one the daughter has a serious boyfriend though.
How long yall been dating? It's very possible that the mom doesn't like or trust you. Do you talk to her? Make her feel her daughter is loved and safe?
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:15 am to Breesus
How on Earth is it skanky to expect a 28 YEAR OLD WOMAN to have a sex life?
PS. If you have to micromanage your daughter's life at 28, you either think she's an idiot or you've done a shitty job as a parent. This mother is a selfish, controlling cockblocker if you ask me.
PS. If you have to micromanage your daughter's life at 28, you either think she's an idiot or you've done a shitty job as a parent. This mother is a selfish, controlling cockblocker if you ask me.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:32 am to lsuwontonwrap
Good women are hard to find, she just cares about her daughter. If you marry her one day, she will be just as protective over your kids....put a ring on it
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:36 am to lsuwontonwrap
Her mom will stop coming over randomly once she walks in on you having sex with her daughter and her daughter reacts appropriately (i.e. telling her mother to get the frick out of her house). That should bring the matter to a head nicely.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:38 am to lsuwontonwrap
Didn't read the whole thread so I apologize if it's been said already. But it doesn't sound to me like the mother has that much control over your girlfriend.
Maybe have a conversation with her, but it seems to me that she just wants to avoid conflict with her mother over this issue. And that's understandable. Especially if it's no problem for her to stay at your place.
People have different family dynamics, and if you can't adapt to her's, then it probably won't last.
Maybe have a conversation with her, but it seems to me that she just wants to avoid conflict with her mother over this issue. And that's understandable. Especially if it's no problem for her to stay at your place.
People have different family dynamics, and if you can't adapt to her's, then it probably won't last.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:45 am to lsuwontonwrap
OP, be careful.
There may be some history of which you are unaware, some money issues (kids take money from parents and think it is a gift when it is really a purchase of power), an illness, etc. They could also just be crazy, have a different family dynamic, or be from another culture (this should be abvious to you, just not me).
Your best bet is not to institute abrupt change. Discuss the matter purely on an informational level (So tell me more about your parents, you growing up, etc.). Dobthe same.
If the chick is worth the time, slow play, find what is lurking beneath the surface, navigate accordingly.
If not, don't.
There may be some history of which you are unaware, some money issues (kids take money from parents and think it is a gift when it is really a purchase of power), an illness, etc. They could also just be crazy, have a different family dynamic, or be from another culture (this should be abvious to you, just not me).
Your best bet is not to institute abrupt change. Discuss the matter purely on an informational level (So tell me more about your parents, you growing up, etc.). Dobthe same.
If the chick is worth the time, slow play, find what is lurking beneath the surface, navigate accordingly.
If not, don't.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:53 am to 42
OP, if you're waiting for the perfect situation with any girl, you might as well just hang it up. It doesn't exist. If you really like the girl, handle it like an adult, ask her to do the same, and continue in the relationship.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 9:59 am to lsuwontonwrap
Better put a ring on it. Just go along with the flow, appease her parents for now. You don't want them dogging you like they likely did the other suitors before you.
When momma decides you're no good, you're done for.
When momma decides you're no good, you're done for.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 10:01 am to lsuwontonwrap
Posted on 3/2/14 at 10:03 am to chesty
Sounds like a typical Baptist family, I went through a couple of these down in GA when I lived there, sheltered girls (who want to have some fun) but feel like they need to make parents happy. Just make sure she knows you are your own person and that you make your own decisions not someone else. If she doesn't take the hint ditch her...
Posted on 3/2/14 at 10:31 am to haveagreatday
let her walk in while you are beatin it up..lil mommy daughter action never hurt...
Seriously tho.... if this relationship gets serious.... itll get worse and start a huge fight unless u bring it up... i'd let it be known.
Seriously tho.... if this relationship gets serious.... itll get worse and start a huge fight unless u bring it up... i'd let it be known.
Posted on 3/2/14 at 10:41 am to lsuwontonwrap
If I would have left my wife because of her strict mom I would have never been married to her for 13 awesome years. Why don't you man the frick up and talk to your girlfriend like a big boy.
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