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re: Is this a productive response to a female partner, or would it cause a fight?
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:40 pm to CatfishJohn
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:40 pm to CatfishJohn
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always ask my wife if she wants solutions or sympathy.
Works great. 90% of the time it's sympathy
I wish more men were like this. Don’t try to solve the problem unless I ask. Generally, I know how to solve it myself. I just want you to say “that really sucks” and show a tiny bit of feeling
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Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:40 pm to BeldarConehead
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Spoiler alert: women don't want sympathy from men. They want strength, money, and a big dick.
They can get sympathy from other women, and they don't even mind if it mostly fake.
How many Romanian women did you really traffic?
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:41 pm to Jim Rockford
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I hope I live long enough to see SFP hit a million posts. I think there's a pretty good chance.
I don't know you personally, but if you have another year and a half, your odds are good.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:41 pm to BeldarConehead
Spoiler alert…
Nobody wants the 30 seconds you have to offer with your broken dick…
Nobody wants the 30 seconds you have to offer with your broken dick…
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:42 pm to Aspercel
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I just want you to say “that really sucks” and show a tiny bit of feeling
For the record, this will never make sense to me. Never.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:43 pm to SlowFlowPro
I wouldn’t know. My only girlfriend of significance was married.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:44 pm to CatfishJohn
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I always ask my wife if she wants solutions or sympathy.
Works great. 90% of the time it's sympathy
We do “Do you just want to vent or do you want feedback”. Like you said, it works pretty well.
I’m not texting my fiancé that my shawarma fell apart though.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:44 pm to SlowFlowPro
It’s ok. But if she tells you flat out that’s what she wants, try to do it. I’ve had so many fights start out with me saying “I just want you to listen and sympathize” only to have them mansplain a solution I had already come to.
It helps if you can actual feel things too.
It helps if you can actual feel things too.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:45 pm to Mr Clean
Clean when I get my podcast going again I want to interview you
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:45 pm to Aspercel
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always ask my wife if she wants solutions or sympathy.
Works great. 90% of the time it's sympathy
I wish more men were like this. Don’t try to solve the problem unless I ask. Generally, I know how to solve it myself. I just want you to say “that really sucks” and show a tiny bit of feeling
I say "solutions or sympathy?" as a reflex so much my wife pre-emptively blurt out "SYMPATHY!"
An old, wise colleague of mine told me this "solutions or sympathy?" trick a few weeks before my wedding a long time ago and it's likely the best marital advice ever given to me.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:45 pm to Aspercel
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It’s ok. But if she tells you flat out that’s what she wants, try to do it.
She doesn't have to. The OT already taught me.
It will just never make sense.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:46 pm to SlowFlowPro
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I just want you to say “that really sucks” and show a tiny bit of feeling
For the record, this will never make sense to me. Never.
And just accept it never will. Easier that way
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:47 pm to SlowFlowPro
And I don’t understand why men pass up a perfectly good bathroom to pee outside, especially in mosquito season. 
There are just things that make no sense for each of us.
There are just things that make no sense for each of us.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:48 pm to SlowFlowPro
Idk. Try it on your male partner first.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:48 pm to crimsonsaint
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I wouldn’t have done any better. I would have asked wtf is a shawarma.
Damn the OT is so uncultured
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:48 pm to Aspercel
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And I don’t understand why men pass up a perfectly good bathroom to pee outside, especially in mosquito season.
I've been peeing outside since I could pee myself, so over 40 years.
Never once has a skeeter got me on the pecker.
Now that I've said that, I'm going to get got the next time I pee in my backyard (likely tonight).
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:54 pm to SlowFlowPro
About 5 years into our 20+ marriage, my husband learned that it's best to ask...are you asking for help towards a solution or do you just want me to listen? I tell him and the majority of the time it works!
Posted on 5/28/24 at 12:57 pm to SlowFlowPro
I bet he is a cuckhold.
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:01 pm to BeldarConehead
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They want strength, money, and a big dick.
How many of you delusional fricks are floating around this website these days?
Posted on 5/28/24 at 1:02 pm to SlowFlowPro
He's been down this road before. I like the call.
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