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Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:17 am to Hobo Code
quote:You may have married the wrong chick if that's the case.
Mrs. Code caught me and I’m in the doghouse.
Unless you actually have some sort of actual porn addiction
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:24 am to Fewer Kilometers
quote:
"Why don't you ask NINA HARTLEY to reheat last night's chicken for you?"
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:26 am to Hobo Code
I would think the bottom line is, is it interfering with your marital relations? But you have to be very objective and honest to answer that adequately.
An easy example is: if you decline sex from your SO because you spent the previous night surfing crazy tentacle porn for 3 hours, then that’s bad.
But if we’re being honest and thorough, even aside from turning down specific offers of sex from your SO, if the porn is causing you to be aloof or emotionally unavailable, that’s also a problem although more subtle and difficult to pinpoint. Right or wrong, for many men lust can be a driving force to be more engaging and involved with their wives. Of course, looking at sex as a quid pro quo probably isn’t healthy either (“I talked to you about your day so I should expect poundtown”).
If your sex frequency doesn’t line up with your SO’s (eg, she’s one a week, you’re twice a week), and you enjoy it to “get by” and avoid betting too pent up, seems like its not altogether bad as long as there’s no underlying problems in your relationship.
Also important, If you find yourself making unfair comparisons (most wives do not look like pornstars and I don’t know if you’d want that anyway), having unrealistic expectations (eg, bdsm, spontaneous anal unless you already do those things) or overly objectifying your wife - need to really evaluate and probably stop or limit the porn.
An easy example is: if you decline sex from your SO because you spent the previous night surfing crazy tentacle porn for 3 hours, then that’s bad.
But if we’re being honest and thorough, even aside from turning down specific offers of sex from your SO, if the porn is causing you to be aloof or emotionally unavailable, that’s also a problem although more subtle and difficult to pinpoint. Right or wrong, for many men lust can be a driving force to be more engaging and involved with their wives. Of course, looking at sex as a quid pro quo probably isn’t healthy either (“I talked to you about your day so I should expect poundtown”).
If your sex frequency doesn’t line up with your SO’s (eg, she’s one a week, you’re twice a week), and you enjoy it to “get by” and avoid betting too pent up, seems like its not altogether bad as long as there’s no underlying problems in your relationship.
Also important, If you find yourself making unfair comparisons (most wives do not look like pornstars and I don’t know if you’d want that anyway), having unrealistic expectations (eg, bdsm, spontaneous anal unless you already do those things) or overly objectifying your wife - need to really evaluate and probably stop or limit the porn.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:50 am to Havoc
Well, that's the best post in this thread...but no fun.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:52 am to Hobo Code
quote:
Is pron prohibited for married baws? by Hobo Code
Definitely not. We make a video weekly.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:53 am to shel311
Snide remarks with a good comedic intention are the signs of a good wife IMO. I mean if I caught my room ate in college jacking off I'd do the same thing, right? I'd give a roomate hell for letting me catch them frankly.
The most important part, as said, is to talk with your wife and come to an understanding of why it happened.
The most important part, as said, is to talk with your wife and come to an understanding of why it happened.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:55 am to Hobo Code
I see nothing wrong with it but most married women have a problem with it. Code good luck and all your wife's friends will know about this too. Just look at them like
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:55 am to Hobo Code
My thought is, if you were “happy” you wouldn’t need to browse. It’s their fault. Your hand never has a headache, never is on the rag, never too tired, etc. Your mistake was hiding it. Flaunt that shite. She’ll get the hint.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:56 am to Havoc
Thanks Dr. Phil. How’s the air up there?
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:57 am to Havoc
It’s nothing weird and it’s definitely not often.
It’s really just because we don’t line up, as you put it.
Also, I wasn’t caught tugging. It was a video that I forgot to get out and of and she saw it.
I’m t sucks. I’m not a perv and I love my wife. I guess I should stop completely out of respect for her. Makes sense.
Thanks
It’s really just because we don’t line up, as you put it.
Also, I wasn’t caught tugging. It was a video that I forgot to get out and of and she saw it.
I’m t sucks. I’m not a perv and I love my wife. I guess I should stop completely out of respect for her. Makes sense.
Thanks
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:59 am to go_tigres
quote:
flaunt that shite. She'll get the hint
Da fuq
Posted on 7/5/18 at 10:59 am to Hobo Code
You can still love her and tell her she needs to put out.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 11:43 am to Hobo Code
quote:
I guess I should stop completely out of respect for her
Talk to her about it and find out why it bothers her. Most women get off in private and fantasize about stuff. While she's not watching porn, she likely has porn-like thoughts bouncing around in her head while getting off.
Talking about it at first can be awkward so take her out and have some drinks. Take her home and frick her, then talk about it. Continue talking about sex over time ... likes, dislikes, fantasies, etc. You might be surprised what you find out.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 11:50 am to Hobo Code
Send her a dick pic (of YOUR OWN EQUIPMENT!) while she's at work (or church) then wait a couple of minutes and send this:
Posted on 7/5/18 at 11:52 am to Hobo Code
She should understand especially if she isn't putting out.
Women act like we men are suppose to just ignore our design by nature. If you aren't satisfying the need porn is the better option to cheating.
Women mostly don't understand how strong the need to seed is.
Women act like we men are suppose to just ignore our design by nature. If you aren't satisfying the need porn is the better option to cheating.
Women mostly don't understand how strong the need to seed is.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 11:55 am to 50_Tiger
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Posted on 7/5/18 at 12:00 pm to momentoftruth87
quote:
No. We watch porn together occasionally and make sexual references pretty much every day
This is how my marriage is. My problem is my wife thinks about the most dirty it gets is the soft core shite on Showtime on demand... Some friends brought up pornhub a couple weeks ago and she had never heard of it, so I had to play it off like I wasn’t a regular visitor. Eventually, I’m going to have her in the mood where we can “explore this new website together.” We’ll see how that goes when I type in “Gianna Michaels” while she’s not looking.
She does bitch when she knows I’ve cranked one out when she wasn’t there.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 12:17 pm to prostyleoffensetime
quote:She's better at lying than you are.
Some friends brought up pornhub a couple weeks ago and she had never heard of it, so I had to play it off like I wasn’t a regular visitor.
Posted on 7/5/18 at 12:31 pm to soccerfüt
Without question she is.
Caught my last gal watching some of the most disgusting and vile fetish shite on her phone.
It made me recollect on how easy it was for me to wank one out with a good tit tug.
In my first marriage my old gal of 20 saw some pooh tang getting blasted on "Survival Island" (Kelly Brook and excellent movie) while flipping through the channels with her brother in the room. I flip fast as I could and she was like, "Turn it back for a sec would you". We both did a double take, "WTF?"..
She immediately after the movie wanted to go and do some kinky shite like me stick it in her butthole. She never asked that before. She became a freak instantly.
Women just hide it better because of fear of being labeled a whore
Caught my last gal watching some of the most disgusting and vile fetish shite on her phone.
It made me recollect on how easy it was for me to wank one out with a good tit tug.
In my first marriage my old gal of 20 saw some pooh tang getting blasted on "Survival Island" (Kelly Brook and excellent movie) while flipping through the channels with her brother in the room. I flip fast as I could and she was like, "Turn it back for a sec would you". We both did a double take, "WTF?"..
She immediately after the movie wanted to go and do some kinky shite like me stick it in her butthole. She never asked that before. She became a freak instantly.
Women just hide it better because of fear of being labeled a whore
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