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Is it wrong to judge someone in the grave?

Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:20 pm
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40907 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:20 pm
Quick story here:

I knew this guy about 15 years ago. One morning I noticed him limping a little and I ask if his leg is okay. He replies, "Yeah, just an old college football injury acting up."

I say, "Wow, I never knew you played in college." (I knew he went to LSU)

He says, "Yep, that play ended my football career my junior year. Never played another snap."

Fast forward to recently and the guy passes away. I go to the funeral and start talking to his college room mate. I bring up the injury and the room mate says, "Yeah, I remember that day. We were playing Sigma Nu and he got his knee wrenched something terrible. He was on crutches for a couple of weeks."

Shocked, I don't reveal any of the story that I was led to believe and just leave it at that.

Now it's starting to bother me. I think I gave him more respect in general because I thought he played for LSU and it turns out he was obviously misleading me. frick that guy.

Am I wrong here?
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
59347 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:21 pm to
frick em
Posted by autauga
Member since Sep 2015
3684 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:22 pm to
Stolen Valor
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139229 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:22 pm to
He didn't really lie. You just assumed. And we all know what happens when you assume...
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70472 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:22 pm to
quote:

frick em



I tried that. Got arrested
Posted by Costanza
Member since May 2011
3275 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:23 pm to
Sounds like a douche
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:23 pm to
Is his wife/daughters attractive?
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
88341 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:24 pm to
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Now it's starting to bother me.
you must not have too many worries in life if this shite bothers you
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:24 pm to
It's not wrong but it is useless.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70136 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:24 pm to
He said college football, you assumed he was a d1 athlete that played for the Tigers
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
16038 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:25 pm to
I have scars all over, and when people ask about them, I tell them it's from fighting so they think I'm a badass

What I don't tell them is that they came from getting shitwhipped by my neighbors cat

Two sides to every story
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40907 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:26 pm to
quote:

He didn't really lie.


That's a very valid point, but the way the original conversation went he obviously knew what I was thinking because I asked what years he played, position, etc.

I wouldn't have given a shite about frat football.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
78039 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:27 pm to
quote:

Is it wrong to judge someone in the grave?


Hell no. We should be brutally honest about the dead.

There is a concept in an Orson Scott Card book that Scruffy enjoys.

A Speaker for the Dead tells the story in all truth, holding back neither good nor bad, so that the deceased may be better understood.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
24301 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:27 pm to
they don't care
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135035 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:28 pm to
I don't think the dead care as much as the living
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40907 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:28 pm to
quote:

Sounds like a douche


Big time, and I cut him slack for it thinking he played for the tigers.

That's what really bothers me.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139229 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

I don't think the dead care as much as the living


'The dead know only one thing, it is better to be alive'
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91874 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:31 pm to
quote:

it turns out he was obviously misleading me


Was he?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135035 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:31 pm to
quote:

'The dead know only three things, it is better to be alive, Alton Sterling is a piece of shite who only made the world better by having his stupid arse yellow teeth burning in hell, and that Gravy has the IQ of a dog turd. '


FIFY
This post was edited on 7/28/17 at 12:32 pm
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2520 posts
Posted on 7/28/17 at 12:32 pm to
I hear you but he does not have the opportunity to speak about it now, so forget about it.
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