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re: Is it weird sometimes I want to be alone?
Posted on 11/5/16 at 9:07 pm to DupontsCircle
Posted on 11/5/16 at 9:07 pm to DupontsCircle
No, but you're still an a-hole.
Posted on 11/5/16 at 11:04 pm to DupontsCircle
Not weird at all. I love socializing but also love my time alone.
Posted on 11/5/16 at 11:18 pm to DupontsCircle
I love being alone. I'm around people all day every day and sometimes I just want to be left alone with an entire day.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 5:24 am to DupontsCircle
I haven't had my house alone in almost two years since our first son was born. My wife is taking him back to Virginia to see her family over Thanksgiving and I somehow successfully convinced her I can't take off and need to work. I've had trouble hiding my excitement for those three days of peace and relaxation. She picked up on it and said something the other day to the effect of "I can't believe you're not upset you're not going with your son to see family and enjoy Thanksgiving". She just doesn't get it that we all need alone time. Needless to say, I'm really looking forward to this. I'm only wearing boxers, having no liquids without alcohol, and watching football. It's gonna be glorious.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 5:29 am to DupontsCircle
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The GF
You want us to believe you have a gf
Posted on 11/6/16 at 5:41 am to DupontsCircle
I'm pretty sure it means you have AIDS.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 5:55 am to DupontsCircle
No, it is not weird. Solitude is a beautiful thing. My husband used to work offshore and I loved it because I could get into my own routine and do things my own way without any input. It was totally peaceful.
:nojody: Why the hell would any woman want to deal with more than one man?
:nojody: Why the hell would any woman want to deal with more than one man?
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:24 am to DupontsCircle
Not unreasonable. If you explain it to her and she still doesn't get it, she never will and it will always be an issue. Is that something you want to fight about for the duration of your relationship?
I'm introverted married to an extrovert and while he understands when I say I need alone time it isn't anything against him, he just doesn't get why someone would need to be alone. But at least he respects my need. My mom is the opposite, even after 40 years of marriage she complains that my dad doesn't want to spend every spare minute with her. They retired a couple of years ago and my mom is practically in tears that my dad would want go fishing without her. She doesn't understand his need to get away from people has nothing to do with her, she just calls me every few months crying about it.
I'm introverted married to an extrovert and while he understands when I say I need alone time it isn't anything against him, he just doesn't get why someone would need to be alone. But at least he respects my need. My mom is the opposite, even after 40 years of marriage she complains that my dad doesn't want to spend every spare minute with her. They retired a couple of years ago and my mom is practically in tears that my dad would want go fishing without her. She doesn't understand his need to get away from people has nothing to do with her, she just calls me every few months crying about it.
This post was edited on 11/6/16 at 6:31 am
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:31 am to WhiskeyDick
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She just doesn't get it that we all need alone time. Needless to say, I'm really looking forward to this. I'm only wearing boxers, having no liquids without alcohol, and watching football. It's gonna be glorious.
Which is pretty much what I love to do without being judged I drank more than 3 beers before the half.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:35 am to DupontsCircle
This doesn't make you an introvert. Alone time is important.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:40 am to WhiskeyDick
Good luck. My son is the only person I don't need alone time from. But in fairness I am divorced and only see him 4-5 days per week.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:41 am to jcaz
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My GF gets mad that I take afternoon naps after waking up at noon.
We have a winner
Posted on 11/6/16 at 6:46 am to DupontsCircle
I sit alone in my four-cornered room staring at candles
Posted on 11/6/16 at 9:13 am to DupontsCircle
I'm the same way. Then I got married. I get her drunk and play madden til about 2am to get my alone time now.
This post was edited on 11/6/16 at 9:14 am
Posted on 11/6/16 at 9:45 am to DupontsCircle
I love my alone time. I have hobbies and interests that I would rather be alone when working on them. I don't have much time for others who don't share the same interests.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 9:51 am to makersmark1
That's one of the reason I enjoy hunting. Can go sit on the deer stand for a few hours, walk in the woods by myself.
Posted on 11/6/16 at 9:59 am to DupontsCircle
Totally normal for an introvert. I do the same thing. If i have a houseful of people, sometimes i will just go in my bedroom for a few minutes. As I get older, it gets worse.
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