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re: Is it too soon to be considering asking this girl to be my GF?

Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:17 am to
Posted by 68wDoc68w
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2014
1869 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:17 am to
quote:

And putting phone on Do Not Disturb


wish someone would tell my wife this. but we are married so I guess it doesn't matter anymore.

Posted by LSUTil_iDie
Lawrenceville, GA
Member since Jan 2012
5511 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:17 am to
quote:

Draconian Sanctions


Posted by reginaphilange
Member since Mar 2014
415 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:17 am to
Three Things:

1. Do not ask her to "be your girlfriend."
2. Stop saying things like "could be nothing, but could be everything."
3. Kiss the girl already!

Bonus: Relax and go with the flow. She obviously likes you. Stop worrying so much and let things happen.
Posted by SUB
Silver Tier TD Premium
Member since Jan 2009
26339 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:19 am to
The big question is if you will actually take the OT's objective advice or just continue down the friend zone path. Most people ignore the wisdom of the OT and we all know how that ends.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
62222 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:20 am to
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Been on two dates and already have a third planned

Look, you need to at least go for the homerun on the 3rd date. So what you haven't kissed. You have to go for it all now otherwise she'll think you're a good guy and you definitely don't want that.
Posted by Jack Bauer7
Member since Jun 2012
5186 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:22 am to
another person dating their coworker,

you people need to get out more
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34837 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:24 am to
Don't get your fricks where you get your bicks...
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:26 am to
Chicks love it when you formally ask them to be your girlfriend. Know why? Because it completely hands the control of the relationship over to her. One thing I've learned about women is that when she has all the leverage in a relationship, it's just a matter of time till she ditches you and moves on to a guy who doesn't allow her to control everything. Even headstrong women want a guy who insists on being in the driver's seat. Not necessarily to be a dictator about it, but just to be "the man" in the relationship.

In my experience the female is usually the one who suggests the status of "boyfriend / girlfriend" and the guy just signs off on it. Or not. (Never underestimate the power of elusiveness; they often want whatever they find difficult to attain.)
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:26 am to
quote:

- We've been flirting a lot in our texts. Kissing emojis and all of that.

- We haven't kissed yet


If you haven't had anything physical yet i'd say a big no.

When you get to the point where you're past the dates and she's coming over just to hang out (watch netflix, makeout, do physical stuff) bc she wants to be around you.....Then you can consider asking her if ya'll want to be exclusive......

Can't really do that at this point, just gonna have to get ahold of your emotions buddy.


It's obvious you want someone to be into you, theres nothing wrong with that....

Just win her affection over first then worry about titles later.....who gives a shite about titles.....just live your life, be happy......don't stress the details man
This post was edited on 9/17/15 at 10:31 am
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18403 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:30 am to
OP, when will you see her next? Updates are appreciated.
Posted by tunechi
Member since Jun 2009
10578 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:32 am to
I remember you posting your weight loss pictures and you were AA. So you got you a white woman or nah?
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59324 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:32 am to
quote:

Kissing emojis and all of that.

Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
131843 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:36 am to
quote:

Been on two dates and already have a third planned.


quote:

We haven't kissed yet


Dafuq.

I haven't read the rest of this thread, but straight up: she doesn't like you that much. SHe's using you. FRIENDZONE.
Posted by LSUTil_iDie
Lawrenceville, GA
Member since Jan 2012
5511 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:42 am to
quote:

So you got you a white woman or nah?



Nah she's a yellowbone
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32892 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 10:51 am to
Posted by Geaux23
Member since Sep 2012
5984 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 11:17 am to
"average" is that they told you
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 11:38 am to
You trollin right?
Posted by tiger11
Houston
Member since Mar 2004
3352 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 11:41 am to
Kiss her, before someone else does.
Posted by Loveland Tiger
Colorado
Member since Nov 2014
5259 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 11:47 am to
Too soon to conclude anything accept that you like her. I see a broken heart in your future. But they heal soon.

Have fun with it, that's all.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 9/17/15 at 11:52 am to
quote:

- She dresses to impress every time we're around each other outside of work.


How does she dress at work? Something sounds strange about this.

The whole thing is a bit strange in addition to you over analyzing everything she does and says.

quote:

- We've been flirting a lot in our texts. Kissing emojis and all of that.


Don't use kissing emojis especially when you haven't even kissed.

Is this a troll thread?
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