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re: Is it ok to cheat while your wife is still recovering from pregnancy? A Twitter/X quandry.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:16 pm to hg
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:16 pm to hg
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, I don't see how you could possibly do that when you see how rough it is on them after giving birth and being a mother for the first time. It takes around 6 weeks for the mother to be cleared by the doctor to have intercourse again.
been a long time for me, and my wife has always been, um hmm, accommodating, but I do recall more than a few friends and co-workers whose wives used this as an excuse to close the door to the fun room and only opened it up sparingly and grudgingly, now we're talking a whole new ball game
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Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:17 pm to BluegrassBelle
I was so tired after ours was born that I didn't want to deal with my own wife, much less some other skank. I just wanted to sleep, not sleep around
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:17 pm to BluegrassBelle
The dumb guy couldn't go 8 weeks without any action?
There are a variety of issues that could cause a sex drought. Is his standard I get to cheat whenever those occur?
There are a variety of issues that could cause a sex drought. Is his standard I get to cheat whenever those occur?
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:17 pm to SouthPlains
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From what I observed, pregnancy and the ~12 years afterwards are absolutely miserable. Physical and hormonal changes, minimal sleep, lots of stress.
FIFY
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:18 pm to BluegrassBelle
Men and women who view their relationship through the lens of sex and it’s frequency regardless of circumstances mirror many of our societal issues.. it’s absolutely an important component of a healthy relationship but life presents challenges and priorities that change our normal routines and using the birth of a child to justify bad decisions is a shitty way to go through life.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:21 pm to Ingeniero
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I was so tired after ours was born that I didn't want to deal with my own wife, much less some other skank. I just wanted to sleep, not sleep around
Well and my guess is that was because you actually were involved in your newborn's life.
Pretty sure the guy in the OP is doing dick and is bored while his wife is probably doing it all and that's why "Baby is easy" for him.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:22 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Pretty sure the guy in the OP is doing dick
I nipped that shite right in the bud, I was the first to change our newborns diapers and fedd them, dazzled everyone
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:26 pm to Commandeaux
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What happens when your side chick is pregnant?
Zihuatanejo
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:28 pm to 777Tiger
Yeah my wife didn't change a single diaper until I was back at work....except her own, I guess
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:30 pm to JohnnyKilroy
You dont want to get in there too early. Certainly other means to get off though
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 2:31 pm
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:30 pm to BluegrassBelle
The first 22 years after birth is the hardest.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:31 pm to Jcorye1
Three months after the birth is reaching the point of absurdity. The woman should do her duty at that point. I would be disturbed by the fact that she didn't want to.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:31 pm to Ingeniero
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Yeah my wife didn't change a single diaper until I was back at work.
I didn't know this, kind of lucked into it, but found out the first ones are the easiest ones as far as toxicity and rankness
ETA: and quantity
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 2:32 pm
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:33 pm to hg
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you should seek help
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:35 pm to BluegrassBelle
After being in the delivery room and helping to take care of a newborn for a few weeks the LAST thing I was thinking about was sex. I just wanted to sleep.
This post was edited on 10/9/24 at 2:37 pm
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:35 pm to hg
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My first is 8 weeks old
God bless ya buddy - the first baby really rocks your world.
We’ve got three though and it’s awesome. All 5 and under. Our youngest is 7 months. Wouldn’t change it for anything.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:36 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
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Wouldn’t change it for anything.
get in there and help her out!!
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:37 pm to Penrod
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Three months after the birth is reaching the point of absurdity. The woman should do her duty at that point. I would be disturbed by the fact that she didn't want to.
A woman isn't technically cleared until 6 weeks to have sex again (roughly a month and a half). And that's assuming she didn't have a C-section which can take longer to heal.
8 weeks would put them at 2 months.
Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:37 pm to BluegrassBelle
Cheat after 8 weeks? Absolutely not it’s not ok to cheat no matter how long it’s been. If you’ve been neglected for a long time and want to have sex, divorce, THEN move on. That’s my opinion. Also, some women do use PPD as an excuse to mistreat their partners.
it’s not ok to cheat no matter how long it’s been. If you’ve been neglected for a long time and want to have sex, divorce, THEN move on. That’s my opinion. Also, some women do use PPD as an excuse to mistreat their partners. Posted on 10/9/24 at 2:38 pm to BluegrassBelle
I get piling on the guy, what a shitty platform to post that in. But i think the dude is just venting. It's not wrong of him to feel anxious about the change in his sex frequency.
But good lord, dude, you post that shite for the world to see, you're going to reap the rewards of that post.
No sympathy here.
But good lord, dude, you post that shite for the world to see, you're going to reap the rewards of that post.
No sympathy here.
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