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re: I'm Going To Break A Girl's Heart Tonight

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Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:02 pm to
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But he did waste 10 years of her life when she could've dated, been engaged, married for a couple years, and already be a mom by this point.


She chose to stay. She wasn't powerless over the course of 10 years. This thread is getting ridiculous.
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:02 pm to
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You are a special POS


Why. If the relationship is no longer tolerable to him, he's miserable, and they will eventually both be miserable. Only they'll be legally ensnared and likely making two small children miserable at some point.

Sucks that he waited this long. But he's doing the right thing.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:02 pm to
she better meet a guy tomorrow to be married by 34
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52563 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:03 pm to
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I'm not doing this because I want to have sex with a bunch of young girls.

I thought you said you weren't gay






Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:03 pm to
Meet a guy and be married in two years?

She better have some pretty low standards
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:04 pm to
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But he did waste 10 years of her life when she could've dated, been engaged, married for a couple years, and already be a mom by this point.


Oh I agree with that. And yes, it is fair as a woman to think of it a lil as a waste of time. Granted...I learned a lot of life lessons from that experience and those 9 years of my life and it helped me to not make the same mistakes in future relationships. And...I wouldn't have been in the situation I was in that led me to meeting my now husband. I wouldn't have met my husband at all actually had those events not played out the way they did. So while you can't all think of it as "what a waste of my 20s" you can sure as hell hold some anger over it though and use that in a positive way to improve yourself and never be in that situation again in the future.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
52563 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:04 pm to
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Glad you know that I didn't allow her to move into my apartment.

Maybe you should have and it would have hit you 9 years ago
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:04 pm to
I still say OP should say he isn't ready for marriage (not a lie) and let her end it.
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
38159 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:05 pm to
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You're an idiot for stringing her along for 10 years


Yea, cause that was his plan the day they started dating

quote:

ladytiger118


jilted much?
Posted by Ghostfacedistiller
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:05 pm to
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This post was edited on 12/1/14 at 9:34 am
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:05 pm to
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Well many of us are just saying she should just give it back anyways. It shouldn't even come to him asking for it back...she should give it back if she is any woman with class. He can then insist she keep it at that point if he wishes.


Well that's the etiquette of the matter, and I wholly agree. I only offered that he shouldn't be the one to broach the subject (let alone threaten legal action) unless it's some kind of heirloom or otherwise extremely valuable.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:06 pm to
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Yea, cause that was his plan the day they started dating



But years 6 and 7?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:07 pm to
Is someone saying men are more likely to break up than women?

lol. Men just start to treat women like shite instead of manning up and breaking up with them
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:07 pm to
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But he did waste 10 years of her life when she could've dated, been engaged, married for a couple years, and already be a mom by this point.

nobody put a gun to her head.
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
38159 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

quote:
Yea, cause that was his plan the day they started dating


But years 6 and 7?


Is that when he said he stopped loving her? I haven't read all 26 pages of the thread. I don't think he's 'stringing her along,' it's a lot trickier of a situation than that.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
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she better meet a guy tomorrow to be married by 34


Ok, well maybe 35-36 then. But...it could happen. That former coworker of mine that is getting married this month......she had only been dating her fiancé for 6 months! But...they had been friends and known each other since they were in their early 20s(take note Slow...it can happen).
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84434 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
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But years 6 and 7?



And what if he still loved her and wanted to be with her then? It's not like he started dating her 10 years ago SOLELY to waste the better years of her life.

Besides, lots of people are marrying later these days, especially professionals.
Posted by Paige
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Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
Not true at all

I've been approached online by one guy with kids and he put must like kids on his profile and I told him I didn't
Posted by REG861
Ocelot, Iowa
Member since Oct 2011
38159 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

quote:
But he did waste 10 years of her life when she could've dated, been engaged, married for a couple years, and already be a mom by this point.

nobody put a gun to her head.


seriously
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:08 pm to
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nobody put a gun to her head.



She obviously thought everything was okay in the relationship if she stayed with him and accepted his proposal...
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