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Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:38 pm to fillmoregandt
quote:yep
This is a prime example of a lose-lose
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:39 pm to animalcracker
quote:
yes we will get back thursday and i will start the new job the following monday.
Then why the frick can't you tell her?
Better yet, why the hell didn't you talk to her about it before you quit?
How does your wife not know that you went for an interview?hiring process.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:39 pm to animalcracker
quote:
get back thursday and i will start the new job the following monday.
tell her now
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:41 pm to animalcracker
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yes we will get back thursday and i will start the new job the following monday.
So do you and your wife not communicate at all? It seems like she would know that you have a new job and need to quit the old one.
ETA: All this.
quote:
Then why the frick can't you tell her?
Better yet, why the hell didn't you talk to her about it before you quit?
How does your wife not know that you went for an interview?hiring process
This post was edited on 9/19/14 at 10:42 pm
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:41 pm to castorinho
So much WTF in this one...
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:41 pm to LSU1NSEC
If the new job pays more, tell her now, but if it pays less, wait until after the vacation is over. That what I would do.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:41 pm to animalcracker
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yes we will get back thursday and i will start the new job the following monday.
are you slow or something?
why the frick wouldn't you tell her now?
If you have been in the process of looking for more work, found one, interviewed, and went through all the other bullshite to land it, how the frick doesn't she already know?
I don't understand this thread's point at all
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:41 pm to Dorothy
quote:
So do you and your wife not communicate at all? It seems like she would know that you have a new job and need to quit the old one.
The whole thing just doesn't make any sense
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:42 pm to animalcracker
quote:
yes we will get back thursday and i will start the new job the following monday.
Better pay/hours?
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:44 pm to Srbtiger06
Don't ever tell her. This whole "not knowing anything about each other's life" seems to be working
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:44 pm to castorinho
quote:yes, i did mention but nothing was concrete. i told her that i would probably wait until we got back and put in my 2 weeks notice.
didn't you talk to her about it before you quit?
quote:it was all done by phone. i got a call today and was made an offer i couldn't refuse.
How does your wife not know that you went for an interview?hiring process
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:45 pm to animalcracker
tell her now. my money is on the fact that she will probably be annoyed that she wasn't kept in the "job change" loop, anyway.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:46 pm to animalcracker
Poor timing bro, depends
If you the primary breadwinner then yes
If not no
You fricker up by not discussing it first
If you the primary breadwinner then yes
If not no
You fricker up by not discussing it first
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:46 pm to animalcracker
The opportunity to tell her will present itself. You'll meet another couple at dinner or something. There'll be some chit chat.
Other guy's wife: So, animalcracker, what do you do for a living?
animalcrackers wife: Oh, he's a [insert thing].
animalcrackers: Actually...
Other guy's wife: So, animalcracker, what do you do for a living?
animalcrackers wife: Oh, he's a [insert thing].
animalcrackers: Actually...
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:46 pm to animalcracker
New job more money? If so tell her now.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:46 pm to animalcracker
quote:
yes, i did mention but nothing was concrete.
then why is this even a question?
What is stopping you from just telling her?
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:48 pm to animalcracker
Your wife doesn't need to know everything in your life
Everyone needs to have some secrets
Everyone needs to have some secrets
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:48 pm to animalcracker
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it was all done by phone. i got a call today and was made an offer i couldn't refuse.
Then fricking tell her now.. If she was aware of the possibility the. This should be a celebratory move not something you need to hide for some reason.. Seriously, this doesn't seem that complicated.
Posted on 9/19/14 at 10:49 pm to animalcracker
healthy marriage you've got there, chief...at this point what the frick does it even matter if you do or don't?
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