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I Hate, Hate, Hate Anal Sex, but My Husband Says It’s “Unfair” Not to Do It
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:10 am
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:10 am
Damn, he will be going elsewhere it seems. I wouldn't force it on my wife but hey, everyone is different.
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Dear How to Do It, My husband wanted to try anal. I didn’t want to. I let myself be talked into trying. I hated it. We tried again. I hated it. We tried with toys of slowly increasing sizes. I hated it. We tried five different lubes, so much of it that the towels protecting the bed had to be thrown out. We tried different starting positions, going very slowly, the whole nine yards. He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing. He didn’t hate it or find it painful at all. I hate every minute of it. We try it now every few months at most.
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Even thinking about it makes my skin crawl, and I inevitably cry during and after. My husband will say during the process that we can stop anytime, but I always figure that if I’ve already gotten myself this far, I might as well see it through so I at least get credit for having done it. My husband thinks that the pain I experience is purely due to tension from my own psychological issue with this activity, since he’s experienced it and not found it painful. He is right that I find it icky, and I suppose that’s an arbitrary hang-up of mine. But I still experience real physical discomfort, wherever it’s coming from.
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I want to never ever do this again or even hear him ask about it, suggest it, or joke about it. He keeps saying he doesn’t want it to hurt, but thinks it’s fair for him to keep wanting it and keep asking for it without this outsize emotional response on my part. Our relationship otherwise is warm, loving, and full of healthy communication, but this topic makes me shut down, and thinking of my husband as the man who sometimes pesters me to go through this kind of pain on his behalf has done a lot of damage to my enjoyment of sex and intimacy in general. He says he needs some variety. An open arrangement is not on the table. Is one of us being unfair? Are both of us? I would rather be able to do this for him than not be able to, but I just can’t bring myself to go through it again, and I honestly think we’ve tried everything.
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Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:11 am to DemonKA3268
Well that’s a crappy situation for her
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DustyDinkleman
quote:She may be full of shite
Well that’s a crappy situation for her
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
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I inevitably cry during and after.
My Fetish
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
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He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing. He didn’t hate it or find it painful at all.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
seems like ole baw is sexually confused. he has the ghey.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
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He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing.
Sorry lady, your husband is gay.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
Dude must be a horrendous PIIHBer
This post was edited on 1/31/19 at 10:13 am
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
He sounds pretty gay to me.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:12 am to DemonKA3268
Did this not come up prior to the wedding?
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:13 am to DemonKA3268
When PIIHB goes wrong
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:13 am to DemonKA3268
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He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing. He didn’t hate it or find it painful at all.
Sounds like he just isn't ready to come out the closet yet.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:13 am to DemonKA3268
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He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing. He didn’t hate it or find it painful at all. I
I guess turnabout is fair assplay
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:13 am to DemonKA3268
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He tried receiving it to prove that he’s willing to experience the same thing. He didn’t hate it or find it painful at all
he gay
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:14 am to Jack Daniel
Anyone else have a weird boner.
Me neither.
Me neither.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:15 am to DemonKA3268
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My husband thinks that the pain I experience is purely due to tension from my own psychological issue with this activity, since he’s experienced it and not found it painful.
I think I found the underlying problem here.
Posted on 1/31/19 at 10:15 am to DemonKA3268
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He says he needs some variety.
Sounds like he wants anal sex both giving and receiving. I think she should offer to bring another man in the bedroom for him to frick in the arse and vice versa. See how important butt sex really is to him.
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