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BayouCatFan
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How Would OT Have Handled?
Met a chick a couple of weeks ago. Been on 3 dates. She checks all the boxes.

This week she went on vacation to visit family/friends in North Carolina. There is a strong enough level of attraction that I do miss her, but have been giving her space.

Earlier tonight she texted and volunteered she is getting ready for dinner and will be staying at her friend Lisa's house for the night. I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."

She immediately calls and is pissed off. Tells me I am being pissy about her vacation. Tells me she has called me yesterday and today, but I never answered or called her back. My response was that she needs to be direct. In other words, if she is going to go frick another guy then just tell me so I can move on.

I really like this chick, but her volunteering an excuse for why she wont be available to talk later tells me she isnt exactly being honest. More than likely she is going to be getting railed by some dude she knew in high school or college.

Should I just end it?



kywildcatfanone
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Why were you so insecure that you had to text that to her?


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KingOrange
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
You have come to the right place.


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WinnPtiger
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
without any other details, it kinda sounds like she was just telling you what she was doing


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diat150
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Seems like you are a stage 5 clinger


Ampipe96
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
You seems extremely insecure. Why say that? Be cool about it, say no problem, talk to you later.
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HoboDickCheese
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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Should I just end it?
She already did, you just don’t know it yet


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fightin tigers
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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"In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."




Chick trying to have a conversation and you melt.


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tgrbaitn08
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."

She immediately calls and is pissed off. Tells me I am being pissy about her vacation. Tells me she has called me yesterday and today, but I never answered or called her back. My response was that she needs to be direct. In other words, if she is going to go frick another guy then just tell me so I can move on.


Dude you sound like an insecure little bitch


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Obtuse1
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Overthinking shite will always get you in a jackpot.


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BigJman
USA Fan
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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I really like this chick, but her volunteering an excuse for why she wont be available to talk later tells me she isnt exactly being honest.


If you’re insecure just say it. She’s probably just hanging out and isn’t gonna be around her phone. I do the same for LSU games. She’s letting you know ahead of time so you wouldn’t get pissed.

Either that or Jodys getting his.



LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."

Umm, that was dumb af.

You will be difficult and she should run.


SpotCheckBilly
Auburn Fan
Did you put your foot in it?
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
I don't think you are going to have to end it.


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gsvar2004
LSU Fan
Member since Nov 2007
6877 posts

re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Are you mental? An easy “hope y’all have a good time” would have sufficed.


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Rekrul
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
You’re acting like a psycho.

And you obviously have serious issues, holy shite man


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KingOrange
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Seriously Bayou. How old are you? Not trolling


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Gator5220
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Where did she say she wouldn’t be able to talk? You ruined it. Congratulations.


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yankeeundercover
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
Dude… she was just being considerate and you’re fricking it all up by reading into it and being insecure.

Also, don’t EVER read into the sentiment/inflection from a text message… kudos to her for calling to clarify.

Don’t be dumb.


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SEClint
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Member since Nov 2006
41037 posts

re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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She checks all the boxes.

This week she went on vacation to visit family/friends in North Carolina. 
box check fail..


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Sun God
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re: How Would OT Have Handled?
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I texted back "In the future just say you cant talk tonight. No sense in hinting at it when you know you wont be able to talk. Enjoy your evening."



Stage ten clinger shite right there
This post was edited on 7/25 at 7:00 pm


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