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re: How to manage fussy Baby?

Posted on 10/6/19 at 11:19 pm to
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
58540 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 11:19 pm to
You know the OP is still up. This man maybe driving through the countryside looking for a goat right now

To the OP good luck and I am here til 6 am if you need a break from the baby
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
34324 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 11:19 pm to
Sounds like colic. It'll pass. Sorry man.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
37402 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 11:22 pm to
Not reading all that 8 page shite but same problem with our first, reflux, ended up getting this sling thing that attached to a wedge shaped pillow thing, WORKED MIRACLES.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
58540 posts
Posted on 10/6/19 at 11:24 pm to
Definitely sounds like colic to me. Out of my 3 kids only one was difficult at night. For that I was thankful. Don’t miss those days and nights
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
20236 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 5:29 am to
I didn’t read the whole thread, but have you tried gas drops immediately after feeding?
Posted by TheMightyTerrier
Member since Nov 2010
2102 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 6:04 am to
Not reading 8 pages and may have been suggested already, but if you are breastfeeding it could be a cow milk protein allergy. Our second child screamed like hell for a few weeks. Switched to a hypoallergenic Formula to see what happened and it was an immediate change in mood for our child. My wife cut out all soy and dairy from her diet and went back to breastfeeding and never had issues again (outside of standard crying). Lots of research and articles on it. It’s worth a try. Only 1 out of our 3 had that issue.
Posted by dragginass
Member since Jan 2013
3155 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 6:16 am to
Don't listen to all the BS about sleeping in your bed or crying it out. I have 3 kids and they all slept either next to or in our bed as infants. They were breast fed and always wanted to be close to momma, and there isn't a damn thing wrong with that. Go see a different doc or even a lactation specialist. Get some help for you and the wife.
Posted by LSUisKING
Edgard
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Posted on 10/7/19 at 6:25 am to
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This post was edited on 10/7/19 at 8:27 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 10/7/19 at 6:58 am to
quote:

Don't listen to all the BS about sleeping in your bed or crying it out. I have 3 kids and they all slept either next to or in our bed as infants.



Just because nothing happened to your babies doesn’t mean it’s not dangerous. I would imagine the parents that have had a baby die this way would strongly disagree with your statement.

Facts are there in black and white. Babies have died from being smothered by their parents while sleeping in the bed with them.

There are safer options/products for having the baby closer to the bed. I’m not saying baby can’t sleep close to the bed, just not IN the bed.
This post was edited on 10/7/19 at 7:00 am
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
11393 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 7:08 am to
If you think it is fussy now, just wait until she or he starts fighting and hitting. Or reaches teenage years.

Crying will be least of your problems.
Posted by Higgysmalls
Ft Lauderdale
Member since Jun 2016
7634 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 7:20 am to
My kids were the same way. Let them sleep in their car seat. They will sleep all night and you can put seat on floor right next to bed. You’re welcome. Parenting is easy
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6434 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 7:23 am to
So many things to address in your post
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She's been sleeping in our bed and refuses to go to sleep in a crib.

Yeah, you'll want to stop that now or you'll find yourself still practicing this when they are 2. We had a rocker next to our bed that she slept in for the first few months and then we transitioned her to her crib. Worked great for us.
quote:

She is only getting about 6 hours of sleep a day.

That's a big no-no. Newborns need 12-16 hours of sleep a day.
quote:

We tried the cry-out method, and she cried for 6 straight hours at night, she almost lost her voice.

Whoever told you that gave bad advice. Studies have been done showing that especially at that age, to let them cry out is damaging to their development.
quote:

Doctors said nothing wrong with her, and she is gaining normal weight, she is just a fussy baby, and hoping for thing to get better soon.

Ultimately that's what counts. The first 3 months are probably the hardest, at least they were for us. Around month 3 we started a night time routine. Bath, read a book, breast/bottle, then bedtime. Our daughter is in bed by 6:30 pm every night and she will sleep through till morning unless she is sick. You are just in the rough of it. It will get better, but it is still so very new. My wife helped me out and since I still had to work she would always get up with baby during the week and I would do the weekends. Perhaps discuss this method.
This post was edited on 10/7/19 at 7:23 am
Posted by Isabelle81
NEW ORLEANS, LA
Member since Sep 2015
2718 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 7:37 am to
Agree with car seat or swing. Car seat on a running dryer was what we did years ago.
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10828 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:00 am to
Try formula some. Try some gas drops. Never let a kid sleep in your bed. That’s your biggest mistake. You can’t sleep well if your kid sleeps by you regardless of the age.
Posted by dragginass
Member since Jan 2013
3155 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:06 am to
It's dangerous for druggies, drunks, and fats.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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85365 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:08 am to
talk to anyone that works in EMS and they will tell you how wrong you are

Posted by dragginass
Member since Jan 2013
3155 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:09 am to
I understand why most doctors and nurses say what they say.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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85365 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:11 am to
Your previous posts suggest the complete opposite
Posted by dragginass
Member since Jan 2013
3155 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:16 am to
Like I said...absent fatties, druggies, and smokies there is little evidence. Truthful doctors acknowledge this. But carry on.


"Nevertheless, the two studies came to similar conclusions. For babies older than 3 months of age, there was no detectable increased risk of SIDS among families that practiced bed-sharing, in the absence of other hazards."

LINK

Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
21057 posts
Posted on 10/7/19 at 8:20 am to
The baby is hungry. That's what crying is for 3 months. She's telling you she's hungry. and your wife isn't producing enough to satisfy her. That's common. Happened with both my kids. Your wife is going tm cry when you tell her she isn't producing enough. Don't be an a-hole when she does.

Go buy some Enfamil gentle-ease and supplement after breastfeeding. This formula is expensive but if your baby has gas or reflux it's the best I've found.

Also, find a new doctor. Reflux test and increase feeding should've been suggestion number 1 from any doctor worth a shite.

This post was edited on 10/7/19 at 8:24 am
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