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re: How to deal with a naggy SO?
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:30 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:30 am to VolsOut4Harambe
This is a direct result of the modern day dad, raising their daughter to be a princess.. they grow up their whole lives without anyone ever telling them when they’re wrong. The whole world revolves around them so when they grow up and have a family, they have no freakin clue how to interact with a partner on a daily basis. They develop selfish and narcissistic tendencies over time and the poor husband is left to deal with the bullshite
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Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:31 am to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:Said every husband ever
Every suggestion or recommendation I make has to be met with a retort or argument. It doesn’t matter how much sense it makes, she always has to be right about everything.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:32 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Every suggestion or recommendation I make has to be met with a retort or argument. It doesn’t matter how much sense it makes, she always has to be right about everything.
The bitching comes with the base model. You ain’t gotta upgrade to the platinum edition to get it.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:37 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Without pics of SO, it’s hard to tell you how much bullshite you should have to put up with.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:45 am to Iron Lion
Just happened at 830 this morning...
My lovely bride asked me which dinner reservations to take; 7 or 7:45? I said to take the 7. Without hesitation, she says that's too early (mind you that I'm reading this thread when this happened.)
I asked her why she even asked me to choose the reservation, and why she didn't just pick the one that was later, and then added if she just wanted an argument?
She agreed! You gotta call this stuff out guys. It can take over. It's in their DNA!
My lovely bride asked me which dinner reservations to take; 7 or 7:45? I said to take the 7. Without hesitation, she says that's too early (mind you that I'm reading this thread when this happened.
) I asked her why she even asked me to choose the reservation, and why she didn't just pick the one that was later, and then added if she just wanted an argument?
She agreed! You gotta call this stuff out guys. It can take over. It's in their DNA!
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:45 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Be grateful you’re not alone or a widow.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 8:47 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/9/22 at 9:11 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Real advice here. Take her on dates. If it’s always something with her then she’s dealing with something else. Probably not getting enough attention and love from you
Posted on 4/9/22 at 9:15 am to BayouBengal23
Some women are just like that. My ex complained constantly. She would literally leave work and call me immediately bitching about every detail of her work day. She would bitch over the phone until she walked in my house bitching for another 2 hours. Every.single.day. As soon as she finished bitching about work, it went on to her health. Her back hurts, her stomach upset, a migraine, something at all times. I had to eventually tell her to kick rocks.
I gave her another chance and her improvement lasted about a day. If she couldn’t complain, she just played in her phone. Sent her packing and never looked back. That was a 3 year relationship. I put up with that for far too long.
I gave her another chance and her improvement lasted about a day. If she couldn’t complain, she just played in her phone. Sent her packing and never looked back. That was a 3 year relationship. I put up with that for far too long.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 9:19 am to BestBanker
quote:
Just happened at 830 this morning...
My lovely bride asked me which dinner reservations to take; 7 or 7:45? I said to take the 7. Without hesitation, she says that's too early (mind you that I'm reading this thread when this happened. )
I asked her why she even asked me to choose the reservation, and why she didn't just pick the one that was later, and then added if she just wanted an argument?
She agreed! You gotta call this stuff out guys. It can take over. It's in their DNA!
I had a similar situation a few months ago- i should have done it your way-
We had a family gathering, she and I had talked for two weeks to stay for an hour and leave- this was all her idea, i just went with it bc i didn’t really care.
She asked on the day of…what did i really want? To stay the whole time or leave after an hour- i was **trying** to point out that it really wasn’t my about what i wanted- she has already determined when we were leaving. So i said- i want to stay the whole time lol….bigly argument to follow
Posted on 4/9/22 at 9:20 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Alcohol
Posted on 4/9/22 at 9:28 am to VolsOut4Harambe
People don't like the answer to this. But her subconscious is at war with your relationship and her indoctrination with the power and perfection of women.
The modern man has typically also been taught to honor women and respect their equality or superiority to men. But this is a relationship undermining mistake. Once your relationship becomes a model of a "woman smart, man dumb" like modern sitcoms or cartoons she's going to feel like she's settling down and wasting her life with a buffoon.
So you have a burden of competence. If you want her to settle down and act like a responsible partner you have to be organized in your thoughts and actions - and demand by words and example that she does the same.
Not every man will be capable of this because it takes effort. Not every woman makes a good partner. You will have to end relationships with people who don't have the ability.
The modern man has typically also been taught to honor women and respect their equality or superiority to men. But this is a relationship undermining mistake. Once your relationship becomes a model of a "woman smart, man dumb" like modern sitcoms or cartoons she's going to feel like she's settling down and wasting her life with a buffoon.
So you have a burden of competence. If you want her to settle down and act like a responsible partner you have to be organized in your thoughts and actions - and demand by words and example that she does the same.
Not every man will be capable of this because it takes effort. Not every woman makes a good partner. You will have to end relationships with people who don't have the ability.
This post was edited on 4/9/22 at 9:32 am
Posted on 4/9/22 at 10:24 am to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:By picking a better wife.
How do you married baws navigate these situations?
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:08 am to pwejr88
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:11 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Let her be right in her discussion and know quite well that you are right. It doesn’t have to be said out loud. Do that if you intend to keep putting your ween in her.
Just nod as in ok, sure, riiiiight…..and she may just stop on her own.
Do she be good in the sack? Take that into consideration.
Just nod as in ok, sure, riiiiight…..and she may just stop on her own.
Do she be good in the sack? Take that into consideration.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:18 am to VolsOut4Harambe
If she wasn't like this when you first started dating or getting to know each other then the sad reality is that her behavior is probably a product of your own within the relationship. Something attracted you, no?
Maybe before you bail you take a long deep look at your own behavior in the relationship. If you're not willing to do that then it tells a lot about you and her behavior is probably more understandable.
Maybe before you bail you take a long deep look at your own behavior in the relationship. If you're not willing to do that then it tells a lot about you and her behavior is probably more understandable.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:23 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Start jacking off more. It will help you make the best decision as your most true self. Pussy clouds the mind.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:33 am to red sox fan 13
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Is this the single mom or have you moved on?
You mean the divorced chick?
She’s old news baw.
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:34 am to Breauxsif
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She didn’t like her Ohio State U, yoga pants?
She actually hasn’t even worn them once
Posted on 4/9/22 at 11:36 am to BestBanker
My favorite pastime of my wife’s is the fact that she can’t do ANY type of chores around the house without turning into an absolute KUNT about everything. She literally INSTANTLY gets mad at the world as soon as she has to wash dishes or mop or anything like that. Totally blows my mind because she otherwise a pretty laid back, easy going person
This post was edited on 4/9/22 at 11:37 am
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