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How soon will I know if my son is gonna be a little shite or not?

Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:16 pm
Posted by internetdad
Member since Mar 2021
607 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:16 pm
He’s a year old
Posted by SouthernStyled
Member since Apr 2021
1307 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:17 pm to
If you're looking for him to be a little shite, he's going to be a little shite.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
9130 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:18 pm to
When you find yourself blaming everyone else when he makes mistakes
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
25700 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:19 pm to
You are already failing him as a father
Posted by BayouENGR
Seagrove Beach
Member since Nov 2015
2289 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:19 pm to
Puberty. The terrible teens.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35538 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:20 pm to
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
53715 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:20 pm to
Parenting plays a huge role, but some kids are going to be little shits no matter what.
Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
24272 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:24 pm to
The sooner you get off your phone and start parenting the better off he’s gonna be.
Posted by nitwit
Member since Oct 2007
12222 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:32 pm to
You’re a Bama fan.
Odds are already against the poor kid...
Posted by Marlo Stanfield
Member since Aug 2008
2062 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:33 pm to
7-8th grades
Posted by bayouvette
Raceland
Member since Oct 2005
4715 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:33 pm to
Ever heard of "the apple doesn't fall for from the tree"
Posted by BrockLee
Member since Sep 2020
54 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:38 pm to
Did you just assume your "son" identify as a male? Cant believe your calling your baby a son when he isnt old enough to tell you what he identify as
Posted by jaytothen
Member since Jan 2020
6404 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:39 pm to
All kids are little shits until they hit 18.

Then they are adult shits.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98133 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:47 pm to
Jaxxton was taking batting practice at a year old. Your kid is already behind.
Posted by davyjones
NELA
Member since Feb 2019
29919 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:48 pm to
However he observes you in your interactions, and how you respond to both adversity and success.....he will grow up to essentially mimic those characteristics. He will follow your lead.

Which means you have to be very careful. I learned the hard way.....by the time my son was 6 he was drinking heavily, smoking cigs, doing drugs, womanizing, eating too much and not exercising. It's amazing how they soak it all in....they're sponges, the rascals.
Posted by berrycajun
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2016
6902 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:51 pm to
I’m a mom, so i’m gonna give a wordy mom like answer:

They change. When our 9 year old was 5, I was certain he’d get kicked out of kindergarten. I was really concerned. Turns out he was just crazy staying at home because there wasn’t a lot of structure (he was the 4th kid)

At the First parent teacher conference the teacher said he was perfectly behaved in class. I was blown away. I notice he gets stir crazy at home over the summer out of boredom. He doesn’t know what to do with himself and starts to lose his mind, pout, yell, fight with his siblings etc.

Now I’m hoping the same is true for our current 5 year old who is even crazier. He starts kindergarten in August. This kid is intense. I worry he needs more than structure.....
But, we need boys like him considering where this country may be headed....
These little ninny boy teens still wearing masks when they are no longer mandatory aren’t a future our country can depend on. Keep that in mind while raising your son.

Our oldest son, 18 currently, was shy and quiet and wasn’t hard to deal with it until he was around 10-12. They are all difficult starting around that age. They eventually turn into smelly frustrated jerks. Then they’re nice again in their late teens. At least that was the case with our oldest. And most of my friends started freaking out when their sons were around 10-12 “What happened to my sweet son?” “Little johnny is such an a-hole now!” By 14 they break you and you realize that nice kid isn’t returning and you now live with a smelly a-hole. Its universal i think. Then suddenly they become nice again and don’t stink anymore around 17-18.

In general, by 3 years old, after watching them in several group play settings, you can really see what they are going to be like. Shy vs outgoing. Aggressive vs thinkers who hang back assess the situation then go in. Etc etc.

Don’t worry though. They change a LOT over the years. Enjoy the ride!
This post was edited on 6/5/21 at 1:05 pm
Posted by jfw3535
South of Bunkie
Member since Mar 2008
4643 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:52 pm to
Spare the rod, spoil the child.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:52 pm to
quote:

Did you just assume your "son" identify as a male? Cant believe your calling your baby a son when he isnt old enough to tell you what he identify as


This is very funny and witty, great job
Posted by the turnip
Parts unknownw
Member since Jun 2021
103 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:54 pm to
Ask your husband
Posted by Ted2010
Member since Oct 2010
38958 posts
Posted on 6/5/21 at 12:58 pm to
Who the hell goes on a message board and asks if their one year child is a little shite?

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internetdad


Never mind
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