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re: How much time is appropriate to wait to start dating again after a spouse dies?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:28 pm to Jay Are
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:28 pm to Jay Are
I didn’t tell anyone their opinion was wrong. I have stated that I disagree with their opinions, but not that they are wrong.
I feel like there have been multiple people that have cast judgment on me in this thread, including you. Calling me out for judging others is a tad hypocritical, no?
I feel like there have been multiple people that have cast judgment on me in this thread, including you. Calling me out for judging others is a tad hypocritical, no?
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Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:30 pm to Louisianalabguy
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I also believe it's quite dangerous for a widowed spouse personally. There's a lot of things to work through and until you've done that, you're vulnerable to making bad decisions.
The general time frame I've heard is a year...but depends on the situation.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:30 pm to BluegrassBelle
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woman getting paid for sex (after your OnlyFans comment).
Maybe his daughter or granddaughter is on OF and this is his way of coping with his failures?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:30 pm to Uga Alum
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Uga Alum
You sound pissed she hasn’t fricked you yet
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:32 pm to JohnnyKilroy
Your minds really go off into weird places.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:33 pm to Uga Alum
Well it’s till death do you part.
I’d never bother since no one could take my wife’s place
I’d never bother since no one could take my wife’s place
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:34 pm to Uga Alum
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I didn’t tell anyone their opinion was wrong.
Yet you've called someone you know a whore, over and over.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:36 pm to LemmyLives
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Maybe his daughter or granddaughter is on OF and this is his way of coping with his failures?
It is oddly specific right?
OP: My wife’s relative who is at least late 50s who was married for 30 years and started dating after 6 months is a whore.
Also OP: WHAT IF SHE IS SELLING HER BODY
While also telling us he knows best because he “knows her”. But completely dodges some very direct questions about her situation.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:36 pm to LemmyLives
So what? Is that really any skin off your back?
I called a woman a “whore.” That’s simply unforgivable!
I called a woman a “whore.” That’s simply unforgivable!
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:38 pm to BluegrassBelle
I mean, you don’t know anything about her. I know significantly more about her than you do. I wonder how many more times you will ask for more information about her tonight? 20 times?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:39 pm to Uga Alum
quote:You have basically called this widow a whore. That is why you've gotten much of the reaction you've read.
I feel like there have been multiple people that have cast judgment on me in this thread,
I'm not judging you but your posts suggest this holds deeper meaning for you.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:41 pm to Jake88
You are kind of judging me. And so what if I called a widow a whore? Are all widows chaste?
Are you someone that thinks women should never be called whores?
Are you someone that thinks women should never be called whores?
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:42 pm to Uga Alum
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I mean, you don’t know anything about her. I know significantly more about her than you do. I wonder how many more times you will ask for more information about her tonight? 20 times?
Again. You called a family member who is a widow a whore but then get mad for people asking why you would say that. And keep dropping “well you don’t know her”. Ok? Then why won’t you answer questions about the situation you presented in OP that needs further investigation for a clearer answer?
My guess is it’s because the details would make you look even worse in your judgement.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:43 pm to Uga Alum
idk. But my wife mentioned she planned on making my future funeral a double ceremony. With her getting remarried.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:45 pm to Uga Alum
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I wonder how many more times you will ask for more information about her tonight? 20 times?
Nobody is asking for her IG. Everyone is trying to understand why you're so butthurt about how a seasoned adult is choosing to live her life.
Let's put the over under on 40 times before I head to bed. What evidence do you have she's banging people for money?
It's funny how bad your manners are towards women. I've argued the 19th amendment was the beginning of the downfall of the US, and I still don't speak about women the way you do.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:46 pm to Uga Alum
quote:It's very misguided to judge anyone in any situation like this.
How much time is appropriate to wait to start dating again after a spouse dies?
Uga Alum
My wife’s relative starting dating again after her spouse died within 6 months of his death. Several people in my wife’s family really thought that was inappropriate. My opinion is you have to wait at least a year.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:47 pm to BluegrassBelle
You think I’m the one getting mad here between the two of us?
You don’t even know this woman and you seem seriously offended that I am calling her a whore. I wouldn’t get half as offended as you are getting if you called my own mother a whore. It’s just an opinion. It doesn’t automatically mean it’s true.
You don’t even know this woman and you seem seriously offended that I am calling her a whore. I wouldn’t get half as offended as you are getting if you called my own mother a whore. It’s just an opinion. It doesn’t automatically mean it’s true.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:48 pm to Uga Alum
quote:Im not judging you to be a good or bad person. I believe your opinion is incorrect and too rooted in your own attitudes about dating.
You are kind of judging me
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:49 pm to LemmyLives
“Whore” is just a word. It’s not like I punched her in the face.
Posted on 3/26/26 at 8:49 pm to Uga Alum
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You think I’m the one getting mad here between the two of us?
Why is it you think everyone who disagrees with you here is “mad”? Again, you don’t have to be mad to call out someone’s ignorance.
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You don’t even know this woman and you seem seriously offended that I am calling her a whore. I wouldn’t get half as offended as you are getting if you called my own mother a whore. It’s just an opinion. It doesn’t automatically mean it’s true.
I’m not offended. I do think you’re not a great person for it given the limited info about her you’ve provided here as to why. I’m definitely not alone in that opinion (even though I’m the one you keep coming after, gee I wonder why).
This post was edited on 3/26/26 at 8:50 pm
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