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re: How much is responsible to spend on a four year old’s Birthday party?

Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:02 am to
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
9875 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:02 am to
Who tf gets a party planner for a kids birthday party? Get a cake and let the kids play in the yard or something while you cook. Man you need to get your hoe on a leash, that bitch be runnin wild.
Posted by RaginCajunz
Member since Mar 2009
7077 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:04 am to
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Evidently the planner takes care of all the details: picks a theme, contacted a food caterer, found a bakery to make the cake, secured the band, provided attendants for the adult bar and those type of things. She also sets everything up and takes everything down. Seems like too much for a young child’s party, that’s why I was asking.


El Gaucho?

Unless this is a great troll, enjoy living in debt your entire life no matter your income level. This is a big problem and this party is only a small symptom
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59128 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:07 am to
Kids parties are so expensive.

Spent probably $500 or so when mine turned 4. But we also bought a bounce house, that still gets used 2 years later, so not bad.

When he turned 5 we rented his gymnastics gym for 2.5 hours and they took care of everything for $270. We just has to bring food.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2430 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:11 am to
Also, as a parent bringing a kid to parties, 2 hours is a perfect *maximum* duration. Went to one with a caterer and all that, and 4 hours in they hadn’t even done presents and cake. They didn’t say on the invitation to plan to spend the rest of the day/evening there. It was annoying.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
34694 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:14 am to
We had ours in June. Backyard. Made a chocolate cake with toy 4x4s mudding in it. Invited neighbors (in MT for summer so limited established friends there). Put on music. Turned on sprinkler. Had some cheap Dollar Tree decorations and a few things we ordered off Amazon.

The whole shebang including gifts was wellll under treefiddy. Our boys made some likely lifetime friends that day (spent every second together this summer after that).
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
6965 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:19 am to
It's expensive enough just to get the minimum. Cake from a local grocery is 50-60, food probably 100, drinks another 100, then if you rent a water slide or bounce house.

We do "splurge" and do a combined party for my 2 oldest, and rent a spot at a trampoline park or something like that for ease but that's still 600-800.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
34694 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:35 am to
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rent a water slide or bounce house.


I was able to piggyback on my dad’s bday party last weekend for that. They rented a big slide for the grandkids. Money well spent. Between that and the pool they were worn TFO by sundown.
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4594 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:36 am to
Back in the day, McD’s parties were great! And their cake was good, too.
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4594 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:38 am to
Party planner for a 4 year old? I don’t even know what to say to that.
Posted by retooc
Freeport, FL
Member since Sep 2012
7956 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:39 am to
I rented a room in the community center. Bought a light up karaoke machine and a cake. $150.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36159 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:53 am to
A party planner for a birthday party? This must be a troll.
Posted by LSUnatick
South of Lafourche
Member since Jul 2008
1614 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:10 am to
quote:

food caterer,
the band,
provided attendants for the adult bar

Ignore this troll.
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
18965 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:27 am to
Sounds like your wife needs to stop being lazy and one of you work the party for your child.

No issue at all with spending the money for your child if that’s what you want, inflating the money significantly because you are unwilling to do it though is weird
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60632 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:31 am to
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the check my wife cut to the party planner and it was well into the four figures
if you gotta worry about what something costs, you can’t afford it.

But think how great the pics will look on the gram and Facebook. I can see the envy in the other mom’s eyes now. We did cake, ice cream and a jumpy. If you spend more than 500, I pity you. Imagine the difference being invested for her college, wedding, house.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60632 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:37 am to
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she’s spending that on a birthday party behind his back, just think how much she’s gonna take in the divorce
if my wife spent money on a party planner for a 4 year old I would file first. Rather live in a trailer than with a woman that silly
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
60108 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:37 am to
If you paid several thousand dollars for a kids birthday party, at any age, you’re a retard.

Even if I had billions, I doubt I’d do that.

Because I’m not stupid.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60632 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:40 am to
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Evidently the planner takes care of all the details: picks a theme,
nothing says love like having a stranger tell you what the kid likes.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80424 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:44 am to
quote:

How much is responsible to spend on a four year old’s Birthday party?


How much does a cake cost?
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
4594 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 10:16 am to
$270 isn’t bad bc you are in and out. A tray of finger sandwiches, cake and drink and done.
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
6897 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 10:22 am to
This is hilariously sad. Enjoy lower middle class forever.
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