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re: How many "one night stands" actually go further?

Posted on 6/12/14 at 7:21 am to
Posted by PurpleAndGold86
Member since Jun 2012
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 7:21 am to
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how many of you have had a one night stand that turned into something more


I took a girl home from the Varsity on my birthday when we were both completely shitfaced. That girl is now my amazing wife.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 7:33 am to
I knew my wife before we started dating then dated for 6 months before she let me hit it.
Posted by keakdasneak
Member since Dec 2006
7198 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:03 am to
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Im currently in a 2 and a half year relationship as a result of one. Pretty much realised the girls I was pulling after her werent as good looking so when she text me I text back and here we are


And people say romance is dead
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:15 am to
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I took a girl home from the Varsity on my birthday when we were both completely shitfaced. That girl is now my amazing wife

Similar situation from Ivars. Woke up in her bed and walked in her bathroom where she was brushing teeth with big glasses on and that whole 'rough look' and I said "wow you really are beautiful I wasn't just hammered". So I took her to Tsunami two nights later.
Posted by link
Member since Feb 2009
19945 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:18 am to
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I knew my wife before we started dating then dated for 6 months before she let me hit it.
that's a great story, fin. now tell us how many girls you hit in that 6 months while waiting for your future wife to put out.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:20 am to
What link said...
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:21 am to
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dated for 6 months before she let me hit it.


that's a bit much, don't you think
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:32 am to
Not at all IMO

Girls like that are becoming a dying breed
Posted by Shenanigans
Spring Hill, TN
Member since Nov 2012
2404 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:33 am to
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My current gf, who I plan on marrying when I can't put it off anymore, was a hookup that lead to a relationship.. She had a bush, so I knew right away she wasn't the type to just hook up with somebody.


Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
98933 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:33 am to
Not for a girl you're gonna marry


Bar skanks are a dime a dozen
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10937 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 8:59 am to
I had a few that turned into more frequent encounters but never would I date a girl who slept with me within hours of meeting me.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:04 am to
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She had a bush, so I knew right away she wasn't the type to just hook up with somebody.


Had?

Has that changed? Tell us more. and Pics please.

Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:07 am to
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how many of you have had a one night stand that turned into something more?


The only bad part about it is when people ask how we met
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:17 am to
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I think that in general, when we knock out some strange, we go back for a few more doses...they may not all turn into full-fledged relationships, but the true one night stand is not that common, IMO...


Best answer in the thread.

LOL @ some of the immature blanket responses.
Posted by jrodLSUke
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Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:18 am to
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that's a bit much, don't you think

No way. My respect would definitely go up for a girl like that. I married one.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:20 am to
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Similar situation from Ivars. Woke up in her bed and walked in her bathroom where she was brushing teeth with big glasses on and that whole 'rough look' and I said "wow you really are beautiful I wasn't just hammered". So I took her to Tsunami two nights later.


Jones said he took a chick home once and when he dropped her off at her car at the bar the next morning, she said "It's okay, you don't have to call me. I didn't expect it."

Just because she knew what was up and was so honest, he took her to Ruffino's the next night
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:21 am to
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Girls like that are becoming a dying breed


Depends on the reasoning. If she was truly not ready until 6 months into the relationship, whatever. Not my style, but whatever.

But if she was holding out because she had some arbitrary time set or she was playing a fricking game, screw that.

We are adults. If you are ready and you want to sleep with someone, it's very high school to hold out so you don't "look bad". He gives it up whenever he wants; why can't you?

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No way. My respect would definitely go up for a girl like that. I married one.


Again. Depends on why. I'd lose all respect for someone holding out for some random time. "I don't have sex until 6 months in", for example, would send me running if I was a dude. It would be fine for it to take 6 months.. it would not be fine for someone to decide in advance they're holding out on you for 6 months no matter what happens.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 9:23 am
Posted by jrodLSUke
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Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:26 am to
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Depends on the reasoning. If she was truly not ready until 6 months into the relationship, whatever. Not my style, but whatever.

But if she was holding out because she had some arbitrary time set or she was playing a fricking game, screw that.

It's called developing a relationship. The easier path is to develop a relationship based on sex. But if you spend months and months with another person, just getting to know them, and enjoying their company, the foundation for that relationship could very well be much better.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:29 am to
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It's called developing a relationship.


Right. And that's fine.

But don't act like there's not a whole subset of women out there who hold out as a means of having power, "not looking slutty", playing games, etc.

Luckily (or at least hopefully), your woman isn't that person.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:30 am to
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Again. Depends on why. I'd lose all respect for someone holding out for some random time. "I don't have sex until 6 months in", for example, would send me running if I was a dude. It would be fine for it to take 6 months.. it would not be fine for someone to decide in advance they're holding out on you for 6 months no matter what happens.


Exactly. That would be an example of why a guy think a girl is "crazy". Having too many stupid rules.

I didn't sleep with my husband on the first night, but I damn sure didn't wait 6 months. We are humans and humans need sex. Hell, he moved to my city after 5 months of meeting, we were engaged after 9 months of meeting, and will be married 10 years this July.

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