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re: How many "one night stands" actually go further?

Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:32 am to
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:32 am to
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But don't act like there's not a whole subset of women out there who hold out as a means of having power, "not looking slutty", playing games, etc.


Preach it, sister. Plenty of crazy bitches out there like this. Why do they do it? power. These women get men that will later cheat on them because they are so miserable of having their balls in a death grip.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:32 am to
My wife didn't have sex with people she wasn't in a serious relationship with or that she couldn't comfortably say she was in love with. I respect that.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49069 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:35 am to
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Just because she knew what was up and was so honest, he took her to Ruffino's the next night

Atta boy Jonesy.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
70414 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:36 am to
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I took a girl home from the Varsity on my birthday when we were both completely shitfaced. That girl is now my amazing wife


I didn't hook up with my SO the night we met, but I met her at the Varsity too. That night, I got her number and asked her to a baseball game that weekend. Still together 3 years later.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:37 am to
Posted by WestlakeTiger
San Antonio, Tejas
Member since Feb 2012
9498 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:38 am to
I married one of my one night stands.

shite happens. Wouldn't change it for the world.
Posted by rlebl39
League City, TX
Member since Jun 2011
4793 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:39 am to
If I get in a girls pants the first time I meet her, I will not date her.

Great to hook up with though.
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:40 am to
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My wife didn't have sex with people she wasn't in a serious relationship with or that she couldn't comfortably say she was in love with
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98933 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:41 am to
Nice well thought out gif, sorry you had to settle for a bar skank


I may have banged her
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:42 am to
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My wife didn't have sex with people she wasn't in a serious relationship with or that she couldn't comfortably say she was in love with. I respect that.


And that's fine. If it took her 6 months to feel ready, that is FINE. Actually, it's commendable that she didn't do something she didn't want to do when she wasn't ready.

But if she would have felt ready after 2 weeks, that's fine too.

And if she wanted a hookup the night she met you and then it ended up more, that's okay too.
It's OKAY for a woman to enjoy casual sex just like it's okay for a man to.

Not her fault if y'all end up hitting it off.

The posts in this thread implying that someone who has sex early on is a slut (not referring to you here) and not relationship material is ridiculous. The people that want their woman to pretend she doesn't want sex early on are the same people bitching that their wife doesn't have sex with them.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 9:44 am
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12600 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:43 am to
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My wife didn't have sex with people she wasn't in a serious relationship with or that she couldn't comfortably say she was in love with. I respect that.

You should respect the ease with which she lies even more.
Posted by link
Member since Feb 2009
19945 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:45 am to
see what's going on here? the married woman in the conversation is trying to belittle you into thinking she's always right, and since she's getting validation from a girlfriend, she's that much more justified. i bet she does that to her hubby all the time, then goes on the internet and acts like the super cool, down to earth wife every guy wants.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98933 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:48 am to
Wait til she gets that new rack and all the attention that comes with it...
Posted by rlebl39
League City, TX
Member since Jun 2011
4793 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:48 am to
I'm sorry I wouldn't want to marry a slut that puts out on the first night. Not saying I wouldn't hook up with a chick on the first night though. It's just a sign that she's not the one to get serious with.

A relationship is based on trust and if a girl is willing to put out on the first night, I could never trust her.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83019 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:50 am to
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Not saying I wouldn't hook up with a chick on the first night though.


quote:

It's just a sign that she's not the one to get serious with.


So is it a sign that nobody should get serious with you as well?

quote:

A relationship is based on trust and if a girl is willing to put out on the first night, I could never trust her.


You have got to be fricking kidding me. So you're not trustworthy either?

I mean, you're willing to hook up with someone on the first night, so you must not be dateable either.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 9:51 am
Posted by PurpleAndGold86
Member since Jun 2012
11036 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:55 am to
Wow what a hypocritical a-hole. And I'm a dude.
Posted by DVA Tailgater
Bunkie
Member since Jan 2011
3465 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:55 am to
The "slut shaming" in this thread is deplorable. Double standards
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
25582 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:57 am to
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sorry you had to settle for a bar skank
Who's said I'm dating a bar skank? She was a mutual friend
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:58 am to
I agree with you
Posted by rlebl39
League City, TX
Member since Jun 2011
4793 posts
Posted on 6/12/14 at 9:59 am to
I never said I was the one instigating anything. What I meant was if a girl was throwing herself at me I wouldn't turn it down.

Yes I am willing to hook up with someone on the first night, but if that happens I'm not going to have a serious relationship with you.

Girls like that just aren't my type so it's best we don't date anyways.
This post was edited on 6/12/14 at 10:05 am
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